Why friends with benefits wants no condom?

Question

My friends with benefits is always trying to have sex with no condom on. he's lost his mind. He has tried this more then once now. Were in the mood about to have sex and I look at him like "um wheres your condom?" he like " Do you not trust me? If we were in a relationship would we go raw (i didn't answer).

Last week he was giving me a massage and tried to stick it in raw and i moved. I told him"You know i only use condoms. Stop."

TheEpicIrishman · Accepted Answer

Sex without a condom is much more exciting for the guy, he can feel more. (can't say for the ladies obviously) I'd recommend sitting down with him and telling him plainly that if you two are going to continue having sex, he's going to wear a condom. If he keeps pushing after that I'd drop him.

PeterG1982 · Accepted Answer

I recommend condoms due to the fact you are not in a steady relationship.

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

he's selfish to think that way you guys ain't in a relationship

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If he tries again, end it.

BellePepper · Answer

It sounds like he really doesn't want to have sex with you anymore.

Boromir · Answer

Dump him. You warned him already. He could be a ghoster too once he 'accepts' to use condoms. (remove the condom mid-flight)

To me this amounts to rape frankly... You accept to have sex on the condition that he wears a condom. Your vagina, your health, your rules.

SnapTsch · Answer

stay the hell away from that guy
because you'd probably miss it if he removed the condom in between having sex

the pull out game is a myth
precum has active sperms and they are viable

is you dont wanna end up pregnant, either make it clear that sex is off the table
or if you trust him to not do something that he has been trying to do at every possible chance , then tell him to wear a condom

Machiavelli · Answer

To give you AIDS, run.

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

It feels better for him. But you shouldn't let him since you're not in a monogamous long-term relationship because if he's trying it with you he's probably trying it with other girls as well.

Transigence · Answer

He might want you pregnant. Tell him you'll let him go bareback if he'll stick around to support the family. Frankly, I think two friends would make WAY better parents than lovers.

Sluthater · Answer

RUN. Condoms totally suck but a lot of guys are risk takers.

Gentle-Mimo · Answer

he wants to enjoy more. sex without condom is better but it's your rules.

fropdrop · Answer

oh don't do it

suburbandelinquent · Answer

Well sex with and without condom for a guy are 2 completely different things. In order to understand the difference kiss your hand then put a plastic bag over it and kiss it again