Why are guys so quiet during sex?

[hockeyaddict]

I love when a guy breathes heavy or grunts(for lack of a better word) and moans. Why do guys stay so silent?

[Techan]

Because we're not very vocal to begin with.

Ever notice how in any conversation between a guy and a girl, the girl will probably talk 75% of the time while the guy only talks about 25%?

We are simply not a very vocal species, and that carries over into sex. There are a few other reasons though

1. Guys' orgasms are not like girls', it doesn't really feel great enough to cause any kind of noise or grunting until we cum.

2. Moaning and such during sex is generally seen as a feminine thing. You don't hear couples having sex, you hear WOMEN having sex. Women are pretty vocal about it, guys just aren't. Even if we want to, which is rare I think, we generally won't because it just feels awkward or embarrassing to do so.

3. We're too focused on making sure we're doing it right and to your satisfaction to just sit back and enjoy. When it comes to being "good" at sex, the pressure is always on the guy. Generally girls can just sit back and enjoy it. Even when they're on top, there's no rocket science to getting a guy off, as long as we're inside you we're happy, but girls are more complicated so the focus is always on her getting off first. Thus when we're putting all the effort in to make it good for you and make sure you get off, we can't just relax and enjoy it. And being relaxed is kind of a requisite to being able to let go and be vocal during sex.

But all those reasons aside, I think most guys just don't... there's no reason for it, we just don't. We feel no compulsion to grunt or moan or anything so we don't... why would you want a guy to force it? It would be awkward and uncomfortable for him probably. If it doesn't come naturally, you just shouldn't do it. That's about all there is to it.

The vast majority of guys are pretty quiet during sex and that's not going to change... get used to it, lol.

[oldmaninthemoon]

im not so I won't speak for other guys. I love to tell the woman I'm with how sexy she is and how much I love being inside of her and how great she feels, I only wish more girls would do the same

[all4catsaremine]

What happen to actions speak louder than words.
I think soflty whispering sexual encouragement is different to moaning/groaning like its a lot of hard work.
Women moan from the feelings of the sexual penetration of a throbbing penis.
No i agree
😊☺😆

[danceforsome]

oh my god such a turn on.

i like when a guy responds to what I'm saying to him or if I'm moaning.

and he would be like " you like that baby?" "how bout this?"

ughhhhh... freaking amazing :p

[Techan]

That's rather unfortunate since the majority of guys just aren't vocal during sex. Good luck finding one of the exceptions to the rule.

[t-ashley]

I Like It When A Guy Uses his vocal cords... It makes it all the better.

[l-hedoniste]

Habit, mostly.

Some are born grunting, some achieve grunting, and some have grunting thrust upon them.

[BambilicousBubblez]

Thats so cute!!! lol I know it probably wasn't meant to be but it is.

[Techan]

LOL!!! As former English Major I fully approve of your Shakespeare reference here! lol Brilliant! But yeah, in all seriousness, that sounds about right.

[roseamason]

its very very very annoying.

[C0unt0laf]

A man being silent or a man being vocal during sex?

[funky909]

maybe the amount of pleasure leave us Breathless. lol

i think experienced guys are loud, and sometimes even (noisy)

[tayxbaybayx]

i completeeely agree with you.i love a guy that grunts and is loud. it is suuuch a turn on.

[GTBabes]

As Long as I can feel and see that He is enjoying He doesn't have to say anything during sex.

[Anonymous]

Honestly? I think the male orgasm is pretty wimpy compared to the female one.

Of course, no one will ever know for sure.