To: Sex-God-from-Birth, and to answer the question at hand.
To start off, S. G. f. B.(narcissist), you are wrong, very wrong. Men and Women do not have a manual. Both Men and Women feel pleasure from different things, not based on gender, but from person to person. Every human body is different, even when something feels good to two different people, it is never exactly the same sensation.
The BDSM community is not sick or perverted they simply feel differently than others. The pleasure one feels from nipple stimulation is hardwired meaning it isn't psychological. I have met men who feel nothing with nipple play, some who love their nipples bitten, nibbled on or touched lightly with a feather. None of those men were sick or perverted, they just had an erogenous zone located in on or around their nipple. a good comparison to this is women who like their ears played with it doesn't work for all just them.
That said there is no reason to put them down for what they enjoy, it doesn't automatically mean they are less than anyone, nor does this mean they are hardcore BDSM lovers.
Let me make this clear. The only reason anyone would say that this is sick or perverted, is because they just don't know better and are regurgitating some hurtful uninformed conservative BS they were taught, or they hate something about their own body, and are making an attempt to make others seem worse than themselves to make themselves feel better.
Last point: Our bodies are what they are we can manipulate them, we can adjust to almost anything, but we are not un-natural, sick, perverted, or evil because of what our bodies feel physically that isn't something you can control and it has nothing to do with your upbringing that just impacts how you view, or feel about it.0 0 0 0there's a line between erotic and pain. and nipple clamps "IS THAT LINE".
it divides both.
while I am not a fan of it, and I'm not into bondage, ties, whips and blindfolds, I do see where some guys are lost in that fantasy.
frankly I think that the guys that are into that sort of fetish or lust, have issues.deep issues.
they have a "lack of" issue, something was missing in their upbringing.
and frankly I think that the more and more they venture into fetish and likeness of this kind, the more they become sick and perverted ( my personal thought )0 0 1 0
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I strongly disagree with Sex-God-From-Birth.
Nipple Clamps are a fun healthy fetish for an adult to wear or see their partner wear as long as everyone involved gives full consent and has fun. Yes, they're fairly kinky and not for everyone, but for the people who do like them, they add a fun little jolt of excitement to they're sex life.
They are a common aspect of real BDSM, not the manipulative abusive poorly executed vanilla foreplay found in the world's most overrated twilight fanfiction, and are commonly used for
You know how it's fun to scratch your partners back or feel them scratch yours when you're getting frisky, well Impact play takes that thrill to a new level, creating a sharper jolt through a harder force.
Men and Women's nipples are both very sensitive and easily react to any stimulation. Nipple clamps take advantage of that same stimulation by pressing down and holding onto them. Also, they're an erotic accesory that instantly symbolizes that you're interested in much more than just a few kisses. Once you see them on your partner or feel them on yourself, you know your going to have a fun time.
Whiles it's okay to dislike a fetish or not understand it, there's no reason to judge a person for liking it. It has nothing to say who that person is, how they think, or anything that they've gone through in their past. It just means that they like to have fun in a different way than you're used to, and as long as their partner is fully willing and consenting to the fun, than its all good. And the same applies to you and however you choose to have fun in the sack.0 0 0 0Nipple clamps can be a great way to add extra stimulation to the nipples. It doesn't have to be painful; there are adjustable ones available. Of course it's not for everyone, but some people really enjoy the extra stimulation. :)
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0 4I agree with Sex-God-from-Birth. If any guy wants to try that on you tell him sure if I can put a few clothes pins on your pud & nuts first. See how he likes it.
1 0 0 0I use nipple clamps when I masturbate! I have great orgasms! They are a turn on for me a stimulating!
0 0 0 0Well first you need to be a bit masochistic, I love any kind of play with mine but the clamps sort of intensifies everything I'm feeling. They will make me almost instantly aroused no matter what, and when I cum its intensely hard and toe curling
I will warn you , the first time someone put them on me after I'd finished I asked if I could remove them she smiled oddly at me and said surr. I unclipped the first one , AND I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO DIElol the blood rushing back in hurt far worse then all the rest combined0 0 0 0Some people are not ashamed of admitting they have erogenous zones in the aureola of the breast. Some women like them squeezed or at least compressed. In nursing mothers, this releases the milk...but it can also turn them on. Some women find nipple play to be a hot wire to their vaginal arousal.
As a result, some men immediately go for this as a quick start to arouse their partner. And in some men, they enjoy the same sort of stimulation. But not all men, and certainly not as many as women do.
Very few people like the actual nipple to be pinched. It is almost always the connective tissue deeper, below the nipple that is the trigger, but not always.0 0 0 0
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