Why I believe roleplay is disrespectful

Why I believe roleplay is disrespectful

You are supposedly in love with this person but yet you want them to play the role of someone else for your own pleasure... how is that not disrespectful? To me it's the same as watching porn/seeing something provocative and getting turned on, then going to partner to have sex 😡 why should your partner/you (whatever the situation) be basically the piece of meat? You should get each other all hot, not some other person/character. If you truly loved the person and were attracted to them, you wouldn't want or need them to dress a certain way to get you going.
You should be happy with what you have. You shouldn't be imagining it's really the character or whatever. If you wanted a waitress to fuck then maybe you should have dated a waitress.

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  • Now I agree somewhat with your message. But I also think it's harmless to put on costumes or whatever to change the tempo.

    There is Spiderman/Black Cat role-play, Joker/ Harley Quinn RP, Doctor and Nurse RP, Doctor and patient RP and even Grim Reaper RP. Then there is your furry and animalistic shit where they dress up in latex dog outfits. Those are things that I think are weird but might be fun.

    • All are fucked.

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  • I think there are two main ways people RP:
    > I'm fuccking this witch 😂
    > my girlfriend is secretly a witch, now I'm fucking her

    So I think it's fine if we have an appropriate background for the roles

  • It's not like people want their significant other to be someone or something different all the time. You can still love someone and respect them for who they are while role-playing. Under the reight circumstances if a couple joyfully consents to role-playing why does it matter to you? They just love having fun in a different way. How is that disrespect?

  • It is possible that it’s the scenario and not the person that is the fantasy, and if both parties are willing participants to the role play then why can’t they have some fun together.

    • It's still not respectful as you are not appreciating the partner

    • What if she always wanted to be a police officer and the idea of arresting someone in a sexual manner turns her on and I am only too happy to oblige her in her fantasy because I want to make her happy and turning her on turns me on. I think it’s fine, and respecting each other within the role play is obviously a requirement if both parties choose to indulge in it.

    • That's fucked. People are so fucked up

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  • You only live once just do it so when you’re both super old you can think back and laugh about how you both were dressed as hulk or whatever