Why are most men bad kissers?!!

Honestly, the whirl their tongue around & never focus on the lips! Its frustrating! Why do most men do this?! I love rough hard sex & am very "porno' in my style, however this sloppy fast tongue whirling is not hardcore or arousing, its stupid! There's no technique & my lips are being ignored. I have really big lips too so its really annoying that they're not being played with - how do you miss them?! I've had one guy who knew what he was doing, he made me melt. For the most part I only like making out with girls because they know what they're doing, unlike men.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • reminds me of the girl I kissed lastweek when I was out, she went to kiss me and I went to kiss the lips then out of no where a wild tornado tongue suddenly appears and twists around my whole mouth going through my gums searching for any last morsels of food there might be awaiting it. I've never had anyone kiss me like this and I was in shock, it was like her mouth was so wide open that I couldn't even reach her lips, it was just all tongue. I was so weirded out that I just pulled back after about 5 seconds of it and the tongue was just left licking my face for a bit. even my mate who looked on from the side was like wtf was that.

    I'm guessing this is what you experience on a regular basis? I feel sorry for you. It's not only guys but some girls don't know how to either...

    • Haha, sorry you've experienced this too. I'm gonna have to play "professor kissy "

  • Different preferences doesn't make someone 'bad' just different.

    I remember one girl I kissed decades ago who kissed exactly as you describe which is rare for a woman.

    I loved it.

    • Smells like a bad kisser...

    • I think I've seen studies that suggest men like more tongue. Which would explain why first anon woman finds mos make out sessions good and you don't.

    • Tongue is GOOD - not knowing how to work it is BAD. My point is no techniques & the mindless whirling is just dreadful.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've kissed a lot of dudes and none of them did what you're describing :P I think you've just had bad luck. But it's really easy to tell someone, "I don't like that, can we try this instead?"

    • Yea :)

  • i never seem to have that problem but I like making out with lots of tongue I have had very few bad make outs

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  • I haven't kissed any men so I wouldn't know how bad men kiss lol.

    I have been told that I'm a good kisser...prolly cauz I've never done that tongue-swirly thing you're talking about and I definitely play with her lips. It's fun. :)

  • I'm a good kisser

  • I'll remember that the next time I kiss

  • i don t think I am bad kisser :D

  • I hate it when they use tounge too its gross, sloppy and awkward

  • You could teach them how you like it. You know, do that communicating thing you girls are always on about.