Why are most women nervous about giving a handjob?

[Anonymous]

what goes through your mind when a guy asks you? how was the first time ?

[toulouse]

never been asked, but the idea makes me nervous. leave out that I've neve seen or touched a penis.

idk what I'm doing& hell either

A not like it & say nothing, are

B not like it & get impatient. or

C not ike it& be helpful. or

D somehow just like it & appreciate I'm doing it.

C & D are fine-but I don't know which one he will do. and if some guy goes apesh*t over my being nice to his junk, I'm not trying again. that's for sure. ut you know it'd be a crapy first experience. id be nervous enough just touching it-because I'm not used to them& they have a pulse.

[Asker]

lol//have a pulse..yea they vibrate

[toulouse]

yea I didn't know that until I accidentally touched one. but I don't count it because it was brief& not on purpose. but yea its like they are alive.

[taster]

It's OK...we would guide you and help you! ...lol...9:

[toulouse]

YUO would.. some guys woud just throw a fit. & I won't know till ut happens.. so it makes me nervous. I mean think how insulting id be/. I'm standing there I dint know wtf I'm doing, I'm holding his thing & he starts getting impatient.. then id have to resist the urge to tug really hard & just leave him hanging & not speak to him again. & up until that point I might have liked him.. suddenly he's out. its a sort of re-ocurring nightmare for me ;)

[1biglow]

I think most guys would be excited just knowing you like them enough to pay attention to that area and be grateful for the special attention. Just my opinion anyways.

[toulouse]

yes, I think so. but I don't know if I've ended up holding the penis of the learning dsabled-1% -group-of guys until I already have a really crap experience, its stressful. so its not the kind of thing ill do lightly. & ill likely be nervous regardless. and then eventually I won't be. c'est la vie ;)

[CuriousEddie]

It's hard (!) to do it wrong, really. And someone who would complain about you touching their ornis doesn't deserve you (or your hands)

[toulouse]

2It's hard (!) to do it wrong, really. And someone who would complain about you touching their ornis doesn't deserve you (or your hands)______I agree. I just am not anxious to go through that& I expect it.

[Anonymous]

I actually asked him if I could. And it was awful, because I was really nervous. I had no idea what to do. I told him to show me what he likes but he didn't really help me out. I started to do it but he said I was making him nervous and he got soft... twice! Ugh! It was so embarrassing! Making a guy soft with a handjob, twice, even not knowing if it was nerves or my technique or lack thereof, well, I really am nervous for it to happen again. I gave him a blowjob which was so much easier after that fiasco.

[toulouse]

he handled it horribly. this is why I don't want to do it.

[alicel]

i think we just worry well do it wrong. we don't know what having a penis is like haha. my first time I didn't exactly do it right so my boyfriend showed me how which made it all more exciting.

[heartchu564]

because we don't know what to expect at first, but I don't know for me I was nervous but after the first time it was fine

[Caiitlyn]

because we don't know what to expect at first. but after the first few times it's alright

[CuriousEddie]

What to expect?

[lissaeaster2]

I think anyone is afraid to do something tthey have never done before, its he fear of the unknown. My first time I was nervous as heck..but it was only because of the situation which would take a long time to explain. thing like that just take getting used to. giving a handjob means emotions. wemon are afraid of getting hurt and giving a buy a hand job makes them more attached and break up worse, they just don't want to get hurt.

[toulouse]

not my reason at all. touching a penis is not going to make ME more attached. HIM- maybe.. id if anything feel weird being around him after that. speak for yourself. its better that way.

[Anonymous]

Most of them afraid that they would do it wrong way or they never done it before.I don't think a girl would feel nervous if she has done it few times.I don't feel nervous at all tho.It's fun for me.

[Anonymous]

I don't get nervous to give hj's. I give them to my b.f. all the time.

[Anonymous]

I get nervous doing anything sexual because that's just how I am. Also with hand jobs I know I'm not going to be doing as good of a job as he can so I get a little self conscious.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Dont worry about it, we enjoy it more then us doing it ourselves.

[toulouse]

some guys say that. other gus say f*** a hj I can do it best myself. bjs are whee its at.