Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Let me just start off by saying, it's not okay for anyone to lay hands on anyone! Point blank period.
But hey ladies, you deserve to get hit when you hit a guy. When you put your hands on a man, you open the door for him to hit you back.
A well known fact, guys are naturally stronger than girls. With that info, do you really wanna punch your boyfriend because he made you mad and you think it won't hurt him? Well just because he's a dude, doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings...or feeling in his body for that matter. Dudes are still flesh and bone just like us. Realize that.
Think before you act. If you don't think about your actions before you act on them, how can you expect him to think about his actions before he act on them. It's possible for you both to be in the heat of passion. You could be pissed, furious, just plain angry and blinded by fury so you hit him. You feeling the way you feel is no excuse. Be honest, you don't know exactly how he'll react. For all you know, that one slap could send him over the edge. He may be calm about it and just call the cops or he could slap you back. BUT YOU DON'T KNOW! So after you hit him, you best hope he just call the cops because you just assaulted him.
'Real men don't hit women.' Well guess what...REAL WOMEN DON'T HIT MEN. 'Nuff said about that.
Basically what I'm saying is, don't hit on people who you know could kick your behind. In fact, just EVERYONE, KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELVES. Avoid the nasty confrontation. Whether you're just playing around or dead serious. Think before you act because you don't know how someone will respond.
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What Girls & Guys Said
23 43If you're strong enough to throw a punch, you're strong enough to take a punch.
Yep. So true. 100% agree.
I also like how no one mentioned that cake emoji.
I don't advocate domestic abuse.
But there was one time in elementary school that a white girl used a racist slur towards me and I cleaned her clock with a right cross.
I got in detention for that, but I was so fucking pissed.
Equal rights, indeed!
Tho the prefered alternative for me is indeed no hitting at all :)
great article. this is nice to see that people are also considerate about male emotions.
I agree.
Equal rights, equal fights. Don't touch me and I won't touch you.
Oh, I can't touch you? Bummer 🙁
@teawrecks you can't reach me anyway, you have "teawrecks" arms😂
Ohhhh now we're bringing the short jokes to arm lengths 😒 That's a new one brb deleting again and making a new username
@teawrecks lmao. Poor baby😂😂😂
Big bully 😢
@teawrecks 👹👹👹 roar!
"Dont write a check your ass can't cash." And don't be a little bitch and call the cops when you try to be tough and get out in your place. That goes for all men and women
That's only true if his life is in danger. Nobody should hit anybody unless it's a life or death situation.
Yeah that's non sense to me, if your little 4 yr old slapped you in the face would you hit him back? NO , a man never hits a woman but pushes her ( IF NEEDED ) that's how I was raised and that's my culture and I won't change it
That's completely different. If a child hits you, you put them in time out. As for a grown ass woman hitting a grown man, well now... that's a different story.
Apples and oranges, Omar. In fact, what you said is somewhat sexist as you're comparing women to 4 year-olds. C'mon.
@BigPunny don't you people understand example? Or it's different in english? Ugh I don't know but it's an example not a comparison people
It's a logically fallacious argument, and it isn't an "example" - it is a comparison of events. 4 year old hitting you + your reaction vs an adult female hitting you + your reaction. An 'example' would have been if he had brought up a story of a woman hitting him under 'x, y, or z' circumstances and why it wouldn't have been okay to hit back under that circumstance. So you're wrong. . . . it's a faulty comparison and his argument is fallacious.
@BigPunny yep it's different in English
@BigPunny anyway I won't change my opinion
Another part of my take was that, a guy could act without thinking (heat of passion) and hit the girl back. So it could be an unconscious/involuntary act. But either way, she caused it. She brought the act out. But I get ya. Thanks for your input and reading.
This is the best explanation of this I've ever read. Well done.
I'd still never hit a woman, but I got two sisters and good female friends to back me in case any female feels the need to hit me.
Omg that's some real life stuff right there. I have brothers and I've had to check a lot of girls mistreating my them. Sisters. They're a nice weapon.
Yes and I'd do the same for them in a heartbeat.
What the heck with gender? If the heat is on from both sides you never know what's gonna happen. But in most cases males usually don't hit females unless heat is way too much or simply the male is degenerate alcoholic.
Males fight physically, while females use mouth, its nature and u dont wanna mess with it.
by the way i have two sisters and girls fight way meaner than boys, truth has been spoken.
I do not advise any fighting or slut shaming, pls be human and stop ufcking arnd. Nice take
Personally I wouldn't hit a girl, even if she hits me first, I am already worried when I hit a guy bc I don't want to cause serious damage (like breaking bones or internal damage in the viscera, brain damage, paralysis etc.) and the risk increases more when it's a girl but mainly it doesn't feel right to hit a girl, girls are to love, to fight for, but not to hit them.
Another part of my take was that, a guy could act without thinking (heat of passion) and hit the girl back. So it could be an unconscious/involuntary act. But either way, she caused it. She brought the act out. But I get ya.
Uhhhhh...
if a man is a gentleman he won't hit any woman, even IF she is hitting him. He will either hold her arms to stop her from hitting him or he will walk away. A man should NEVER hit a woman. Fuck this society and its standards.
That's fucking stupid. If I hit a guy, I damn well expect him to hit me back
Chromosomes should not determine what I get away with.
This is no longer the 1950's. This is 2016. Women deserve equal rights... and lefts.
@DrTruth ^^this
@DrTruth well I dont care, fuck equal rights. I dont agree with those dumbass feminists, I didn't fight for my equal rights - hell I LIKE it when a man takes care of me, is there something wrong with that? I dont fucking think so, also yeah this is 2016 but that dont mean the guy HAS the right to hit the girl back. No wonder you dumb ass men can't find a woman today, you're all vaginas. All act like little bitches, instead of manning up.
Yeah right my mom taught me to hit anyone who touches me. Now being said if I have to tell you two to three times to keep your hands to yourself or chill out. I'm hitting you back, if I walk away and you follow me to hurt me I'm hitting back sorry not sorry.
Ok. If you feel that way that's great. Not going to stop anyone hitting you though is it? In fact such a regressive attitude probably makes it more likely
You have to be a troll for your way of irrational thinking. Manning up? Be a human disposable meat shield because of vagina? No ma'am! Women as a collective wanted this and you got it. I don't see traditionalists raising their pickets in front of the White House going against feminists and women's rights. Bed. Made. Lie.
Move to Afghanistan u traditionalist meanie
lol your guys are morons... so oblivious. stop agreeing you sheep. I wish I was a troll... Im just speaking my mind.
Here's a solution, don't make it so he should hit you back. You wanna hear a story? Well, you're all gonna hear it anyway. When I was a little kid, between 5 and 10, I had two male cousins who were, at the time, 6-11 and 12-17, and we horses around a lot. I have jumped on both of them more times than they've jumped on me, and we've both injured each other fighting. If they agreed to your stupid rules, they would have had a ton more bruises and I would have walked away unscathed, but they had every right to defend themselves from me (I'm a bit viscous) so I don't fault them. Storytime is over now, bitches.
@FallOutBoy2001 and you should be ashamed of yourself. goodbye.
They're not "sheep" they're all individuals who happen to agree with each other
The only person who should be ashamed of themselves is you
You do know ladies don't hit right? Fuck this society and its lack of ladies.
lucky4u I agree with you, completely!! I've been hit, a few times by two, but never hit her!! I cannot!! WILL NOT!! hit them!! Know too many, seen too many, abused, and I can't understand how they could do that, to someone they 'love'!! There are some things that need to transcend all these BS issues, today. Some might call it 'sexist', but I will always respect, and honor women! I will open the doors, and offer my hand, not because they are 'weak' or need help, but out of respect, and adoration, loving them!!
@luvky4u Are you saying he should just walk away even if she hits him then goes after him and hits him again? Lets say she hits him with an ice scrapper for a car, baseball bat, hard school book, lap top etc. Is he suppose to just walk away then. There are women strong enough and or skilled enough to do major harm.
Well if you want a gentleman to stay a gentleman, then don't be a bitch by hitting him
A woman can hit a guy, I just hope she realizes the possible outcomes (Hint: he reaches boiling point and hits her without thinking). But you know, ya live ya learn.
He's still a gentleman, and a real man. Just he got fed up.
I'm not saying let the chick hit you till you bleed, I'm saying grab her arms and defend yourself but do not hit her back. you guys are too quick to judge right away that I mean the girl should keep hitting the man till he's blooded to death, no that's not what I mean AT ALL. @falloutboy2001 @aledeeurope @someguy37 @funny_strange_man @mesonfielde
I still don't understand why he shouldn't hit her back, if not just to teach her a lesson
@lucky4u Their are women who can hit hard enough to do damage. What about women who try to kill or at least do major harm should we just try to walk away then or restrain them then.
I don't believe in the eye for an eye concept personally. And yes, I've been punched in the face on more than one occasion. Deescalation is always a better choice.
Also, I am disgusted by how many people on GAG are just dying for someone to hit them so they have "permission" to beat them into submission.
That's "an eye for an eye" type thing and that's bs, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. Kids also know adults are stronger than them, but if one hits me I won't hit them back... restrain them maybe, but that's about it.
Self defence is very different to hitting back in a tit for tat type scenario. Very different.
I wouldn't want a woman hitting my brothers, but I'd hope they understand the difference between self defence and just hitting back if it ever did happen.
It's not an eye for an eye thing. It's a you don't know how someone would respond thing. It's a think before you act thing.
That doesn't make it "ok for men to hit women" just because you don't know how they'll react. Some kid just got murdered the other day because he picked up money some drunk dude dropped... because he didn't know how he'd react. It was all over the news. He didn't know how the man would react, so that makes it ok. As I said, self defense is one thing, hitting back just because is another. One is far, very far, from ok.
That's completely different. Its a grown ass woman versus a grown ass man. It's ok because she shouldn't be putting her hands on a guy anyway.
not even gonna read... if you hit a woman you're a fag, end of story.
you only hit back if she is bigger or armed while you're not.
don't be a cunt.
Or if she deserves a bitch slap, I guess
Women always say they want equality. So... here you go. If you hit a man, expect to get hit by a man. However... feminism will try to put everything in the woman's favor if you fight back.