Why won't my boyfriend return the favor (oral sex)?

Ive been with my current boyfriend for about a year. For the first 6 months we f***ed all of the time but then we hit a dry spell. Now I hardly ever have sex cause he is not in the mood, and when we do he just wants to f*** my mouth, pussy, and ass. He has maybe given me head once in the past 6 months! I don't understand why. there is not a damn thing wrong with my pussy. I think it taste good. what am I doing wrong? is it cause I ask him for it? cause whenever I do, he pitches a fit.
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  • He either has a low sex drive, or he's cheating on you.

  • well if your boyfriend refuses to return the favor then tell him that bugs you. a reason he might not want to give you oral is that maybe you smell bad down there.

  • If what you are saying is true, then I believe he is having some sort of internal hang-up. I must admit, I do like p**** but if I were left alone and not asked to give her head, then it would be just a matter of time until I would hunger to rip those panties off and go straight for it, just like last night. So all I can say is to just quit pressing the issue for now and wait and see.

  • I feel bad for you girl, am so happy that my boyfriend love to go down on me, because I do anything to please him and he does the same thing, You are so pretty (no homo) I don't understand why the hell he won't go down on you. His a loser, like the say Real guys are the guys who eats p**** :D hahhah

  • Demand it! Or at least tell him he better start going down or you'll be going down on someone else.

  • Every guy is different , I Love to go down on a Girl :-P The sight, the smell drive me wild ! I would talk to him about it! That is important to me ! Let him know how you feel and what you want!

    It think he should be fair! If not let him know how important it is to you ! At this early stage I would hope he would love to go down on you ! If not I would move on. ! I am sure some guy would love to please you and enjoy it :- P

    Good luck to you sweetheart ! Do not give up or cheat yourself from being pleased ! Some guys would be very happy to go down on you and very happy to be pleased !

    You should enjoy sex ! Trust me, speaking for myself. I love and really enjoy going down on a girl ! And to be pleased back is a good thing ! I am sure many guys would love to orally please you !
    :-)

  • If he doesn't like it and you want it, then you know what the answer is. If it's important to you. There are about 10,000,000 guys you could have. But you gotta drop this one before you find another.

    • Make that 10,000,001 And from Greenville too! Hey homie! Actually I am claimed. and far too old for you. I will go out on a limb though and tell you that this guy is not good enough for you. All he's concerned with is his own pleasure. That HAS to manifest it's self in other areas too I would expect.

  • It may be hard for some people to believe, but not everyone enjoys the taste/odor.

    That includes girls who are perfectly clean and healthy.

    Nothing personal...it may seem selfish, and I guess it probably is, but it's just something I do not enjoy doing. More than that, I DISLIKE doing it. If someone dislikes giving me head, I wouldn't blame them for not doing it. But like you, I'd WISH they did it, and wonder what's wrong with me...

    Everything in life is a compromise. You have to work one out with your partner. It shouldn't be about revenge, either (like "he won't do it so neither will I").

    Good luck.

  • want me to be honest , I think the guys not just that into you soz to say , oral should work both ways but for guys it is a big deal only if he really wants to please you before pleasing himself . what would we b without woman , the best creation there is lol apart from the fights but I'm in awe of the female body and what better way to appreciate it than kissing its very center

    • So if a guy gives you oral sex before you give him some or before sex, does that mean he's really into you? girls always orgasm with oral sex so would the guy not get turned on by seeing her so obviously turned on and not faking it? as can happen during sex itself

    • Yes, it does for me at least.

  • well he is so use to having sex wit you that there is nothing new and that's probably not his style sadly for you I suggest you start bringing the sex toys or finding a new boyfriend that will satisfy you in every way..Hope I helped..:p

  • He's dumb. And maybe its he isn't that good at it. all the guys that I know that don't do it don't do it because they are bad at. And from the looks of your pic I can't imagine that its you!

  • Wow... every guy should be satisfying his girl. I'd be down there making sure you want more everyday!

    My guess is he is selfish and gets what he wants. So he had no need to give you want you need.

    Want some good advice. dump the guy. He is selfish and you want a guy that will also give back what you give him.

  • Well, from looking at your pic . . . You a very sexy. There's got to be something wrong with him. You are a hottie. I know if I were with a woman that was as beautiful and hot as you, I'd be going down on you every chance I got.

    • Smoking hot

  • Some guys just don't like doing that for some reason. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he's probably only done it like 5 times. and I do it to him like multiple times a week

    • Maybe because of taste, but that is no excuse, he can't be a real man until he puts out, and gives back. Truthfully it is unfair, and selfish. but it's the truth.

  • If he doesn't give you oral don't give it to him. Ask him why though, that's kinda weird that he refuses to do it. Maybe you should remind him what 1 man won't do someone else will

  • Not all guys enjoy cunilingus. He simply is probably not one who enjoys it.

    Its sad he's not f**king your regularly now. Try and re-capture the excitement you had when you meet.