Why won't you eat a girl out?

I've heard plenty of guys say no matter how many times a girl sucks them off they won't go down on her. Some of the reasons I have heard is: 1) It's gross, because blood was there. 2) It makes you less of a man. etc. etc. Do you guys really think this? I think a real man eats p^$$y. Scared men complain and run away :P~~~
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  • :) You just don't understand guys, and how ignorant they are. You have had a p**** all your life and are pretty comfortable with it, but have ever thought about what most guys know about pussy? Well maybe I can tell you.

    A guy knows it is fun to play with, and if you are lucky, he might know where your clit is. Other than that, he knows that at the grocery store they have a whole aisle dedicated to taking care of it. There are things to wipe it, stick in it, cover it, wash it, spray on it to kill the smell, shove up it get rid of assorted infections. He knows it does not smell like a new mown lawn. He knows blood, blood clots, unidentifiable chunks of stuff, and assorted colored juices seep out of it. If you are not virgin, he knows other guys shot a load up there, and did it all get cleaned out? All that is bit hard for a young guy to accept.

    He does not know that it is the cleanest orifice on your body, your mouth is a veritable septic tank by comparison with your pussy. He does not know it is a self cleaning organ that if maintained properly is almost sterile. He probably is not stupid, but there are no classes for guys on the care maintenance of a pussy. It is to him a pretty mentally intimidating thing, but if you are willing to put forth a bit of effort and be patient, I'm sure you redact him.

    Well I hope this helps you understand what is in his mind when you mention going down. They just need more training :)

    • LOL! I love this. Best answer!

    • best answer!

    • Thank you ladies, I try :)

  • It makes you less of a man really? No it makes you more of a man. Some woman is offering you a chance to get up close and personal with her p**** and your like nah that's gross, well I guess that man is gay and his girlfriend can assume he's not gonna want to put his d*** in that "gross" p**** either. That's basically the best food in the world for men right there. That's ridiculous I am a man I love p**** words can't even describe. I just want to bury my face in some p**** right now,I really really want to and not stop till my tongue falls off. Its sad that some men are that way. Its sad that they ever get blowjobs,I'm telling you if women would just stop being attracted to guys who don't care about/respect them we could end every problem from domestic violence war and lack of p**** eating. How do I meet girls who want a guy who will eat them out and pleasure them? I am alone and single and girls will be my friend but nothing else. And to think they are sucking some total jerks d*** while being deprived of the pleasure of getting eaten out themselves. I am not saying were literally gonna meet because we probably live a thousand miles away but seriously help me find these poor cunnilingus deprived souls. I mean I am looking for a girlfriend not a bunch of one night stands but you know what I mean

    • hahaha I loved your answer! it's so true. guys who turn down oral are less men than those that will do it.

    • woooo marry me?

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  • Immature guys won't do it because they're scared, selfish, and have immature friends who propel the idea that a man is a wimp if he does it. However, all that does is make him look cool in front of his friends. It does not make him successful with women, which is what really matters in the long run. In my experience through dating and also asking guy friends' opinions, most guys DO go down and enjoy it. And the of the ones that don't or rarely do, it's fairly easy to convince them to. Merely stating that it's a dealbreaker and you'd never date a guy that doesn't is enough to get most over the fear and selfishness. Also, if they refuse to go down, refuse to go down on them as well. Fair is fair.

    By doing those 2 things, I've gotten the only 2 guys I've dated who had never gone down before to go down on me. One of them was actually fantastic at it! Guys only refuse to do it because girls let them get away with it! They continue to give blow jobs or accept the behavior when it's very important to their sexual satisfaction. For most women, it's the only way we can orgasm. So don't worry too much. You won't have a problem with most guys. But if you run into one, stick to your guns. Tell him it's a dealbreaker from the get go and watch him suddenly sing a different tune.

    • What does having a preference have to do with being immature?I doubt you think girls who refuse to give head are immature

    • I do think they're immature if they expect guys to go down but don't give back actually. You're a very confrontational young woman and you shouldn't make so many assumptions.

    • On top of that, there isn't a man alive who can't orgasm from sex. If so, maybe >1%. Whereas the the percentage of women who get off from sex is small. Women's main way to orgasm is oral, so without it, men are getting off constantly and women aren't. Unless she prefers not to receive. You really shouldn't get involved with things you no nothing about dear considering you're a total virgin and have no idea or preference yet.

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  • I am a health professional and I will tell you why: "HPV" . It is a faceless, invisible threat that may in fact cause very bad health problems. The incidence of oral / mouth/ throat cancer has been on an astronomical rise due to the increase in oral sex in the population. Yes, smoking and drinking are factors. However, lifetime nonsmokers and nondrinkers have been stricken by surgeries and chemotherapy that leave them at worst maimed for life. Guys for some reason are much more prone to the ill effects of HPV in their oral cavity. We need to stop this as a whole. If there is someone that you know has HPV, they really should NOT take it so lightly as many many many OB/GYNs do downplay the harm tremendously.

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  • What a double standard. I wouldn't do something for a guy if he wasn't willing to do it for me. That's inconsiderate. If you're in that position, tell the guy to go you-know-what-himself. You deserve better.

  • I wholly agree. "real man eats p^$$y". If anything it makes you more of a man when you are able to get your girl to come just by eating her out.

    The only valid reasons I can think of are sanitary: She's having her period, I have HPV or mouth herpes or something. Otherwise it's Hallelujah

  • WHAT?! Going down on a girl is my favorite part about sex! I don't think I have ever even known a go who thought it was "gross". In my opinion, you should never go down on a guy who won't reciprocate.

  • your right real men eat p**** its usually younger guys or inexperienced guys who don't. personally I love eatin p**** especially if I know the girl is gonna return the favor lol.

  • This is a personal prefence of each person. Some people enjoy oral sex. Some don't. If you are going to engage it or expect to receive it (men or women), you need to take care of yourself. A woman who doesn't take care of herself can expect a guy to be turned off. If a guy looks like a Wookie down there, he should be ready for a girl to turn away.

  • It really depends on the girl and how clean she is. But one thing is for sure, you better be shaved if you want a guy to eat you out. No one wants a mouth full of hair when they go down on you. Other than that just make sure you keep it clean and that it doesn't smell bad.

    Also you should refuse to go down on him if he won't go down on you.

    • yes cleanshaven...but it Always smells good

    • yea some guys say " you don;t have to lick it to stick it"

  • Cunnilingus rated OK to great ...

    but some are more attractive than others.

    ONly Maybe: overweight

    No: herpes, etc.

  • If they won't go down on you they are selfish enough said.

    they should want to please you even if they don't enjoy it

    • I don't think you should do something that you don't enjoy.

    • i think if you care to please your partner and they do something to you that you like, its only fair that you do the same esp if they tell you that they love it. You may not like it but knowing your pleasing your man/woman should make it enjoyable. Its not about liking. Its about pleasin one another and since oral is the thing nowadays, its a must.

    • haha that's what I'm saying its just selfish if you are all about yourself and never them

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  • LOL love the responses. My ex hated it. HE said he didn't like it because I got really wet. So he refused to do it after the first year ( we were together 4 1/2 years ) HE even started to refuse touching it. But my Current is quite the little Licker.. LOL. depends on the guy and I don't blame him.. As long as he is upfront and doesn't let her go down on him before telling her he doesn't like to lick.

  • Some guys just have no idea what they are missing out on.

  • Oral sex is standard in all models. If you can't give and receive oral sex, you shouldn't be having sex. Go home.

  • Only a stupid idiot wouldn't go down on a girl. After all, you need to clean the pu$$y with your mouth before you fork it.

    • isn't that what water is for?

    • Soap and water, yes. But I was making an "antic", my Hungarian brother.

    • fork it LMFAO!

  • I know a buddy of mine who doesn't want to do that. He says its gross because its too close to the nasty stuff like the ass and urethra etc as well as the fact that it can be unclean down there. I can level with that. I personally like to munch on the pu$$y and think that at least if she wants to give me head that I should return the favour.

    • Ur buddy is crazy, you know his girlfriend could say the same about where his stuff. I'm sure that his area isn't always the cleanest either.

    • Oh man, he is so picky he does not have one. So yeah, invalid statement ftw?

  • ok, so any man I have come (no pun intended) in contact with has wanted deeply to eat me out. Maybe your p**** stinks.

  • Although as of RIGHT now, I have not done such things, I have thought about it and will on my GF. It may be because some guys don't want to, because that's where they have put their Jank. And there's some mental connection to being gay or something. idk,

  • The only times I've ever been reluctant to go down on a woman is when she's not communicative, and doesn't seem to be into it.

    She doesn't have to be communicative if things are going well. But if she's not getting off on it, I want some indication of what I can do to make it better. If she just lies there, I don't see the point in wasting our time.

  • Show me a guy who won't go down on his girlfriend and I'll show you a girlfriend I can have!

  • Men & women who refuse to give oral have many excuses but there is really only one reason which no one will admit, THEY ARE GAY! Find someone who is straight, oops, I mean giving ;)

    • exactly I saw some woman write I hate sucking d*** why don't you guys suck a d*** and see what its like and I was like no I'm not gay. Go eat a pussy. Guys who don't like eating p**** the same way. Maybe not even gay as much as pre pubescent their boys not men

  • I love eating a girl out. I love hearing her moan and I love doing anything and everything (short of bringing other people into the sex or anything that causes physical pain) to make her happy. It's hot to me... here I'll post the other answer I had to a question like this (basically same question)

    Before I do though, I will say, if a girl doesn't clean herself well, then I can see not going down on her. But most girls keep themselves clean. Cleaner than guys, that's for sure.

    Old Post Here:

    Pfft, any guy who isn't willing to go down and do what the girl likes to make her happy when he's with her is no real man to me. Going down and hearing her moan and making her happy is just awesome to me.

    Now, as for the guy(s) who sucked at doing it to you, did you communicate at all? Did you tell him what you like? What you don't like? What he's doing right? What he's doing wrong? It's really frustrating that girls (or guys) will bitch about "oh s/he was terrible at (sexual act here) to me!"

    Ya, no sh*t, people are different. Maybe you aren't the same as the person they've been with in the past or maybe they haven't been with anyone. COMMUNICATE! When will people learn communication is key? I'm not great at it myself, such as I'm bad at talking, but I'll at least try to communicate.

  • Often the taste isn`t good

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