Why would a guy beg to give a girl oral sex?

this new guy I am dating has been begging to give me oral sex. He says he has a strong desire to satisfy me and doesn't even mind if he gets nothing back in return. I Find this very unusual. what do you think of this? we haven't had sex yet. guys do ever have a strong desire to perform oral sex on your lady, maybe if you find her irresistibly attractive?
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  • I think that he wants to go down on you because as you said, you haven't had sex yet, and I think he probably likes you and wants to make you feel good. I know I enjoy going down on a girl. Quite a lot actually. I love the smells, the taste, and the look of vagina. Plus making her feel good when I'm going down is a huge turn-on for me. If I can get her to orgasm, even more. I practically get off on eating a girl out, in itself. So maybe he's like me. Maybe he just likes you, and enjoys going down on a girl to make her feel good. It's possible.

    (And yeah, him finding you attractive is clearly a given.)

    Another possibility is that since you haven't had sex yet, he might be thinking that if you enjoy that, you might want more from him. It could be a precursor to get you into bed. I knew a guy who used to do that. So there's another possibility. But hey, even if that's his plan, there's nothing saying you owe him, and nothing says you have to have sex with him, right?

    Anyway, I don't know what his reasons are, because I don't know this guy, or your relationship. For now, I'm going with the assumption that he likes you and wants to make you feel good, just like he said.

  • Your guy sounds a lot like me. I can not look at a girls package without wanting to suck it. Personally, I love everything that comes with it. The smell, the taste, the feel of her hard throbbing clit in my mouth, the way she sounds from it, the way her body reacts to it, her moans, the total look of enjoyment on her face as I look back up at her and when the orgasms come, I love the feeling, the sound of her totally enjoying herself because of me and my desire.

    I would give in to his desire, he might be good as hell, usually guys that love to do it are decent as the passion kicks in and the desire.

Most Helpful Girl

  • if he wants to give you oral, he wants to have sex with you. this is usually a trick. guys will beg to get oral from you because they know once your legs are wide open, they can stick their d*** in at that point either before or after they give you head.

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  • I really enjoy giving oral without expecting anything in return... I don't beg though I think that would be off putting or creepy. I'd say he expect reciprocation, saying he doesn't expect it means very little. Guys tell girls they aren't interested in sex all the time, total bollocks... I think that's the difference between guys just interested in sex and those who are genuine, I mean why bullsh*t about sex and saying you don't enjoy it. I enjoy sex, but it's not the most important thing to me, what's the point in saying I'm not interested in it at all?

  • Girls always return the favor, maybe not now but they will feel guilty and give up everything.

  • Yes, any time I find a girl attractive enough that I want to have sex with her, I also have a strong desire to go down on her. I love the smell and the feel of her wetness against my face. I always crave having a girl's p**** in my face.

  • The only thing weird is that he doesn't care if you return the favour or not. Maybe he hopes he will get better chances with you that way,

  • Some guys love going down on girls. That first time you taste a girl you are attracted to is nothing short of intoxicating!

  • Because he is into you and he wants to get you off. Also maybe Because he wants you to return the favor.

  • I am very similar, I often like to give oral and not get anything back (in fact I did it last night). Getting a girl off is one of the hottest things ever.

  • Some guys really like giving oral, sometimes even more than recieving.

  • I am a virgin but giving oral is a strong desire of mine, you can really pleasure a woman

  • I only think it is weird that you two haven't done anything yet and he is acting like that. I feel like that after we have had sex, I get the craving if you would call it that and would do it just to pleasure her.

  • Lucky girl, haha. Some guys just really like to give oral. Enjoy it!

    • yep, I'm the same