Why would a guy refuse to give?

foreplay or oral to a girl? Why would he expect her to blow him & automatically have sex with him afterwards? Why would he not get her wet first, & expect her to suffer without any wetness?
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  • Well some guys don't like to have foreplay or perform fellatio on women. I know some guys that think it's gross or not clean/sanitary or it's unnatural. Can't say that's fair considering a guy's c*ck isn't the most sanitary object of the human body either. I love everything about oral sex, giving and receiving. I actually get turned on giving oral sex because it can be more personal and there are a lot more places that you can explore with your fingers, tongue than with your c*ck. A lot more erogenous zones to hit as well. Also, I think oral stimulation or foreplay get's the girl that much closer to orgasms and really getting into whatever you want to partake in doing to her and visa versa. I think it get's the mind into sensual and sexual stimuli more as well. But I can't imagine not liking it or not wanting to do it. Just something I've enjoyed from the time I've done it. Feels really good, tastes pretty good, the view is such a turn on, and the sounds a girl makes from it... Mmmmmm what more do you want?

    • This guy knows his stuff. Wish more guys thought of it like this. The sad thing is that we're probably cleaner than a d***. Our vaginas clean themselves, all we really need to do is clean the outside of it and we're good to go.

  • Because he is an idiot.

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  • Why woul da guy refuse to give foreplay or oral to a girl? He's selfish or knows the girl won't complain

    Why would he expect her to blow him & automatically have sex with him afterwards? Most guys have double standards on oral.

    Why would he not get her wet first, & expect her to suffer without any wetness? He's selfish, knows she won't complain, knows he can use lubricant, or he's an emotional sadist.

    • Thanks - Sorry someone voted you down, some idiot must have looked at this question.

  • I'm having that issue right now. It sucks horribly I want to know the answer to this question too. Like, girls get pleasure off of pleasuring someone else and doing a good job at it, guys aren't like that though apparently.

    • Your boyriend is a selfish jerk & you can do better. I actually asked this question because someone told me about their sex life & was curious why some guy would be like that. There are plenty of willing men who will recipricate, don't settle for a selfish a**hole.

  • That kind of guy is totally selfish jerk! He only think of his sex satisfaction without thinking of the girls feeling.

    • Agreed - & f*ck you to the person who voted this question down, you're an idiot.

    • I bet he is a selfish guy!

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  • ANY GUY WHO WHO DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT IS EIOTHER IGNORANT ABOUT SEX OR JUST DOESN'T CARE. ANY GUY KNOWS IF YOU GET THE GIRL RUNNING FIRST IT MAKES THE SEX SO MUCH BETTER

  • Well sometimes girls are scared of it. Guys sometimes don't like it. Hell even some girls don't like to give blowjobs. You have to talk about this sh*t and not just be touching each other strangely in bed. Also, you don't lick a girl to get her wet, you get her excited and there are many ways to get a woman excited. The right words, the right touch and the right actions can do it just as well. Besides, most guys these days have no sexual education or they get it from p*rno. Teach learn, lather, rinse, repeat. Good luck with the foreplay, B.

  • Tradition for girls to give head and then have sex. It's less common for males to give oral, some find it disgusting (google smegma...), others just don't think about it. As for getting wet, females already have an ample amount of lubrication capable of having sexual intercourse. If you aren't wet enough then you might have a problem or you aren't doing enough foreplay!

    One of my ex's actually wouldn't let me go down on her, I asked her why and she just said she thinks any type of oral sex is gross. Just ask him if he could go down on you next time.

    • This is only a tradition in p*rn movies, not in real life. Guys that act like this are selfish or base their sex life off p*rn. And it's not normal for women to be automatically wet, we need foreplay. There's nothing wrong with her for needing to be warmed up first, that's how most women are.

    • No... It's actually been tradition in real life. I NEVER stated that that tradition was a positive one, it's a fact that more women in relationships give more oral than men do. And I do realize that p*rn features blowjobs... The dude you banged is an idiot, he didn't know any better, but you can't blame his inexperience for your loss, once again, next time TALK. & I did indeed say that you should do more foreplay... Don't expect to get right answers when you refuse to listen to the facts.

    • No - it's only a tradition in p*rn movies. Men just use p*rn as a guide for sex & don't realize how one sided it is.

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  • He is either inexperience or a selfish jerk.

    • agreed

  • Because he is immature, self centered and or does not have a clue.

  • That's lame. I'm not having sex until I'm married, but when I do I would be sure to reciprocate.

    Otherwise it's pretty selfish, and there's no point being with someone selfish.

    • thanks, I don't know why some idiot voted you down.

    • you're welcome. probably got the downvote because I'm waiting to get married... which I find hotter than meaning around beforehand, but that's just my opinion!

    • *messing