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Why would my ex text me and tell me that he's horny and then...?

And then get upset when I take that as a hint to flirt? He got upset because he's like, "I don't cheat and you should know that" (he has a girlfriend right now) but why would he tell me how horny he is if he didn't want to engage in such a conversation?
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Does it change anything if I add that his current girlfriend is a total prude and hates sex whereas I'm definitely the opposite? Could it be that he has conflicting feelings... on one hand, he wants sexual release, on the other, he doesn't want to cheat on his gf?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • that doesn't matter, I mean would it bring you comfort to know he still wants to bang you even though he has a gf? don't you wanna be more than some ex's sexual release. Let him know that those days are over and its not acceptable to say stuff like that to you. What if his girlfriend went in his phone and saw it, then you'd have drama with her, respect his relationship as you'd want yours respected. Next time he says something out of line put him in his place or ignore it.

    • As the question asks, I'm confused as to *why* he mentioned that he's horny and then instantly shot down my attempts to flirt. The inconsistency is rather strange.

  • That does seem like a mixed message to send, but maybe he thought you were close enough friends that he could just say that casually without you thinking he wanted something from you. And no matter what he says you should exercise control and respect and not respond inappropriately

  • he is probably an a** hole and wants to say he could get you back if he wanted to

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sex is a general topic for many guys. It doesn't mean they require or want assistance. When a male is "horny" a lot of the time they do not think perfectly straight and thus sometimes may use it as a reason for questionable context or "silly behavior ". He may have told you this as an apology for his behavior , in advance, or other means.

    • here's how the conversation went though. him: "hey" me: "hey" him: sup me: nm, just got home from a track meet. you? him: horny as f***. i mean, I could understand if sex came up casually in the conversation, but the way our conversation was, it was as if he wanted to text dirty right off the bat.

    • Sounds like he was just frustrated about it and needed to vent to be honest. You, having to have been sexual relations with him before, he would have thought he could talk to you about it as you may be more open about the topic of sex than someone else. And if you're going to down vote please at least give a reason.

    • I didn't vote down haha. I guess it kinda makes sense.

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  • because he is a dumb idiot. Next time if he says he's horny when he messages you just say something like "good for you" or just don't even respond to it. I'm sure his current girlfriend would be happy to hear that her boyfriend is telling his ex that he's horny

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  • I hate games like that. Stop talking to him, seriously.

  • sounds like he's an a%&hole

    • He's one of those guys that acts sweet sometimes and acts like a total douche-bag others, so I can never be sure which one he truly is.

  • Beginning to see why he is your EX!

    • Yeah for real! I found out the other day that he secretly went to the movies with his current-gf while me and him were still dating... real smooth.

    • Be a good time to use that block feature on your phone!

    • I never knew such a feature existed! Well, in any case, he's not very persistent. I'm pretty sure if I just ignore a text or two of his that he'll just not contact me anymore. Sad, but true.

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  • because he is stupid. He doesn't know how to think. If I'm you, I'll stay away from him. Or text him back to let his girlfriend know about it, not to you. That you don't need to know that. Only his girlfriend. I mean you don't dial 911 if there isn't an emergency.

  • He feels a sexual release by telling you, his ex girlfriend, that he's horny.

    Telling you that turns him on...and by the way yes he is cheating on his girlfriend cauz she probably won't like that.

    • That's not cheating. That's a conversation. Him going over to her place and f***ing her brains out would be cheating.

  • so then why is he texting you if he has a girlfriend?

    • exactly. I don't know. we haven't texted for like 2 months and this came out of the blue.

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