Why wouldn't he want to take his boxers off?

[Anonymous]

During an attempt to have sex with my bf... we were kissing touching you know all the other stuff and well eventually I got completely naked unashamedly (I love my body) but my boyfriend left his boxers on. He claims he doesn't like the idea of someone seeing his behind. Is this the case? Is he really ashamed of something else? I've never seen a guys private in person before so I wouldn't know if he had something to be ashamed of. He attempted to push his ya know in my ya know and I didn't know if I was too tight (I'm a virgin) or if his ya know was too big.. Please help me solve this mystery..lol P.S. I don't need any advice for abstinence lol Thank you

[abzence]

He obviously have some insecurity issues. The behind can be an excuse for something else.

Here's what you do..

If you are in the situation again that you are both naked besides him having his boxers still on you should attempt to remove them for him. Don't try to ripp them off him since that would probably freak him out since he's so insecure. Just do a little tug and see how he react. If he says something like "Stop, you know I don't like showing my behind" you just give him a smile and answer with something like "but I love your behind" and you continue to tug a little in his boxers.

But if his behind is just an excuse that he's really ashamed of something else it doesn't matter how much you say you like his behind since that is not the issue then.

You have to make him feel secure and safe and feel that you will not judge him.

2 steps forward, 1 step back. Just like most guys treat girls ;)

Be patient and good luck :)

[l-hedoniste]

Maybe he doesn't like the look of his ass. Maybe he thinks sex in boxers is hot. Maybe it's a complicated childhood issue.

You probably would need a good shrink to dig the reason out, but it's likely not worth the expense.