Wife Has Decided to Stop Shaving.

[Anonymous]

For the past 2 months, my wife has decided to stop shaving her pubic area. We have a one year old so her showers are brief as you can imagine. At first it started out with her not having the time because of the baby then it just turned into a why bother right now. By the way I have no problem with this at all. However, I was wondering if any women with really young kids out there could relate to not having time for certain things. Just a basic question.

[Anonymous]

best thing I can recommend. She probably doesn't even feel to attractive or care too much about what she looks like. It pretty much happens to lots of new mommy. Motherhood can be draining. My advice, which isn't actually taken for someone else's experience is the following. Try giving her time in the shower, uninterrupted. She may not go back to shaving and stuff asap, but after it becomes a regular occurrence then she'll be able to. Every day when she's taking a shower, you take care of your child. tell her,each day you deserve an hour to yourself. take a book into the bathtub, or listen to music while your relax in a warm bath. Whatever you like. Who doesn't like a long shower after a tiring day? This will give her some time to take care of herself too.

[lace1228]

I use to wear make up all the time but now with the kids I usually throw my hair up find some clean clothes and on with the day. I think it is because I'm no longer priority my children are. Life changes with kids for the better of course. Treat your wife to a spa day, help her out a little more around the house to allow her to start feeling normal again. I love getting my hair done or my feet because it is like a little refresher and most importantly it is me time.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice. Well I definitely help around the house a lot and always have.

[lace1228]

That's great, with your update you seem happy. :) that's what I lack in this relationship help around the house.

[risingphoenix201011]

I have a 2 year old but he's pretty good at entertaining himself so I'm able to find the time to shave when I shower. But maybe offer to pay for her to get waxed and pampered at a salon, it lasts longer and it'll make her feel like you are treating her to something as opposed to telling her what to do.

[Asker]

Good idea. I do send her to the salon to get pampered. I think she is just changing her preference on appearance. Trust me, she is well taken cared of and loved :-)

[Anonymous]

She probably feels either overwhelmed or under appreciated.

If that kid is draining her, then she is going to stop caring in some areas of her life.

If she doesn't feel like she's a sexy beast anymore, then she doesn't have much motivation to keep up that image.

Basically, its up to you to make sure that neither of those things happen to her, compliments and helping out are the way to go.

[Asker]

Well it's not that she feels overwhelmed at all. He's actually not draining her because he is now able to play on his own. I've always complimented her and send her flirtatious text messages throughout the day so she knows how much I want her even after having a child. She is still sexy to me even though she got her pre-pregnancy body back really fast. Even when she was pregnant she was sexy to me.

[prophecy]

are you sure you have no problem with this?

let me ask you this; do you prefer natural over trimmed?

[Asker]

I'm perfectly sure. I don't prefer completely shaved anyway.

[xzinax2]

just an idea if you like it when she's shaved-egyptian sugar wax. (so she doesn't have to shave all the time)

[taster]

If it takes a child to get her to grow out her pubes..might just have to have four or five kids..(:(:(: