Will a big penis ruin my vagina?

I've never had a big penis before only average so still tight some what. This new guy is huge I'm not sure if I'll be able to take all of it inside he's turned on by that but I'm kinda nervous about it. I'm just concerned that after we have sex my vagina will never be the same.
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  • I looked this up once and the short answer is no it will not ruin you.

    Here are the articles I referenced with the yahoo answers version and the clift notes below:

    www.psychologytoday.com/.../the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women
    www.laweekly.com/.../demystifying-the-vagina-does-too-much-sex-make-her-loose

    answers.yahoo.com/.../index

    All vaginas tighten up in the extreme when a woman is not either aroused or about to give birth. This is why (based on medical literature not experience obviously) tampons can often be painful for women to use. But when all is said and done it is a muscle and a very flexible one at that.

    It is true women can be loose but this is mainly due to age... or MANY childbirths. I capitalized multiple for a reason because the medical professionals writing columns are very clear that it is rare for a single childbirth to cause permanent stretching of the muscles. In all of these cases physicians universally recommend kegels as a likely way to correct the problem.

    Anyways a good baseline understanding would be to remember that if it usually goes back to normal after childbirth it can handle any sized penis just fine. I would definitely go with all the female advice here though to be able to enjoy... it will likely be a biological necessity to enjoy a large penis because arousal is what will make it possible to fit.

    I was glad when I found the answer to this because it is nice to know that a woman can be very sexually active with differently endowed men without having to worry about being "loosened up" or some nonsense. This is an urban legend that probably came about because women who have had many partners were more likely to be older and more importantly more likely to have had multiple children.

  • How much wood is this guy packing? How does that compare to your previous guy?

    • He's about 9 inches compared to 7-7 1/2. So it's a big difference

    • So far only oral then?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'd only been with guys with average sized penises before my current boyfriend and he's over 8". Your vagina will stretch and stretch back. Also, he doesn't have to go super deep when he penetrates you because that can get uncomfortable for you. Just make sure you're wet and you're good to go.

  • No, it will not ruin your vagina.

    The vagina is elastic and is like a rubberband.

    After stretching out to it will be able to come back down to size.

    How do you think women give birth?

    You will be fine and have nothing to worry about.

  • Oh girl, your neither regions will be fine, a woman's body is built to give birth to a child that is WAY bigger than any endowed man, and we heal up after giving birth, so you will be fine. :)

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  • Your vagina will be just fine. Make sure you are nice and wet, then go ahead and enjoy that huge d***.

  • No that is not going to happen. It will open to accept the penis and then close right back to normal afterwards

  • It won't ruin it but it would hurt because is a little bit bigger and if you don't mind me askin what is the biggest d*** you have ever taking in your vagina ? How many inches have you taken in your vagina? and it won't ruin it it would stretch it out a little bit more but it will feel more good and it would hurt in the beginning a little bit but you will get use to it and and still have a better climax and a better orgasm but you're gonna feel absolutely good at the end

    • The biggest was maybe 7 1/2 inches

    • Your vagina will always go back to its size in the beginning it will be a little bit lose but it will go back to its normale size you have nothing to worry about

    • Well that is a average d*** the average d*** size is 7 inches there is to difference of a penis and a d*** they use the same word penis for 2 reasons because it is either little smaller then average d*** size the reason they use the word penis it's because it goes from one inches to 6 inches that penis the reason they use the word d*** is because that's the average d*** size from 7 inches to 10 inches its average d*** size and but anything bigger than 10 inches it's a monster c***

  • Lol, only if it's the size of a massive baby- even then, you'd probably snap back, tbh.

  • Once you have kids, your vagina will never be the same again.

    He won't ruin your vagina unless he's going to ram it in raw. xD

    • Your vagina will never be the same? That's not true. I have a kid and to tell you the truth, my partner says I feel the same if not tighter than before.

    • I wouldn't know.. LOL

  • It won't ruin it: woulld childbirth ruin it? He may hurt you, hitting the cervix if he isn't prudent but most guys can hurt a girl that way.

  • it will just loosen up faster when you stick things in their next time

  • If you don't feel comfortable about it, then don't go through with it.

  • This is tricky, but from my own experience. It is a muscle and when you have been with someone a long time it molds and conforms to that person. I am above average in size and my wife cheated with a bigger guy and we ended up getting back together. The first time we had sex, it felt like I was sticking my d*** through a window. It took awhile for it to feel the same, but it did. Long term effect no, short term yes. So if you are having sex with different people in a short time period, they will feel the difference.

  • Hello I'm here to say that a big penis can ruin your vagina. All vaginas are different according to genetics. I remember having a vagina that had a small labia. Ever since I had sex with someone with a big penis, it completely changed the appearance of my vagina and I have a feeling it's not as tight. Save yourself for someone worthy. Don't just have sex for fun. Wait until someone is serious with you.

  • This is old but my ex was well endowed (11.5 and I think 6 in circumference) that is by far the hugest I HAVE EVER dealt with in my life and thought I would not recover (we dated only for a few months) but me and my vagina survived lol

  • My ex had a big dick but I never had sex with him. I just used him for his money

  • it is possible that the vagina hole will be okay but the lips can get stretched over time and if u keep having sex with different penises that are too big for your vagina then it could happen that the lips can stretch and not bounce back. its not always about length its about thickness and width that will eventually stretch u out permanently just like how a few cigarettes won't kill u at first but doing too much over time will have a bad effect. i as a young man had a 40 year old girlfriend whose vagina was a bit loose and that didn't change for our whole relationship. if what im saying is not true, then why does vaginal mesh and rejuvenation surgery exist?

    • The same reason why gastric bypass and liposuction exist, people aren't happy with the way they look, and don't want to put the work in to change it or prevent it before hand. doesn't mean it was caused by larger males. The vagina is a muscle if you work it it gets stronger, tighter, if you don't it can get loose, I've had 5 kids vaginally and men of all sizes and I'm told I have a beautiful tight vjay. Think about the science of it not the myths. I also have very large breast and breastfed all my children, guess what they are muscles too! If you want it you better work b*tch! Lol

  • It will stretch it out a bit. Child birth will stretch it out a lot. If your so concerned about your size, try kegel exercises.

  • It won't ruin it, but all of this depends on your vagina. If it's not that big, this may hurt or it will be very uncomfortable to for you. If it is less tight, it'll go right in just fine and it'll feel good for you.

  • No. Your vagina is made to stretch and retract. He won't blow your twat up