Will bleaching them make them smaller?

[Anonymous]

will bleaching my areola my them smaller?I was thinking of Meladerm skin bleaching cream would I make them smaller?My boyfriend isn't exactly fond of them being big as of right now and completely hates them, I am however saving up for an areola reduction surgery but I would like to bleach meanwhile

[Anonymous]

I didn't see anyone name-calling or being rude until you waved off their advice.

Hon, don't bleach. It'll only make the skin lighter. You'll like your areolas even less than before because the texture will remain the same, but the skin will be a different color.

Now about the surgery: if you are doing it for yourself; if YOU dislike them, then have it done. If it is your boyfriend, then don't do it.

Here's my reason: They're YOUR areolas, not his. YOU will have to live with them, not him. If you dislike them and you want them smaller, then it's you prerogative, but it's unfair of him to be judging you like that. Especially about something so trivial. Sure, you may be a "great couple" but IF you do break up, you'll regret letting him put you down like that and giving in. Even if you stay TOGETHER, you shouldn't let him put you down like that.

Now I'm not going to tell you to break up with him because I have absolutely no say in that, but if he's picking at little things he doesn't like and asks you to change for him, he's not a very good boyfriend. I'm sure you would not ask him to change for you, and it's wrong of him to ask that of you.

Besides, if things that small in importance are bothering him, then he's obviously not appreciating you as a whole. You need to get someone that can appreciate the whole package.

(btw you can have big areolas and still be very beautiful. Look at her: link and her's are definitely more than 2 inches.)

[Arwens-Fire]

You're deleting your account?Well...bye.

There was another user on here who felt similiar to you by thinking people are being judgmental and name calling. I will say the same thing to you that I said to her...

Don't come on this site pouring out information thinking people aren't going to analyze it and actually try and HELP you. I don't know why you girls end up with these awful guys and then want advice that looks over the actual situation at hand. YOU WANT someone to enable the situation and tell you to go ahead and get surgery/blleaching as opposed to just leaving that sucker.Thats sad that you don't even want real advice unless it's in concordance with what YOU want to hear. Sorry if this is blunt...but if you want to leave...no one is stopping you. AND if you want to bleach or have surgery concerning your breasts? No one is stopping you either. Just don't come on this site,post information,and then expect people to only say what you want...its unrealistic.

P.S.

I hope you learn to love yourself AND find a better boyfriend.

[themastaplan]

couldnt agree more...if and when she gets it done she'll realize that we were all right...its a shame she's doing it for her boyfriend adn NOT herself...now if she said I want to get it done what are some suggestions then its a different story...she'll still get "dont alter yourself you are who you are" but at least we'd know its her decision not her bf's...its a shame how people just look to get what they want to hear and not real/true advice

[Anonymous]

mine and small and perfect but even I know not to bleach them because that will only lighten them not make them smaller but to make them smaller you could just go through with the surgery as soon as you can but don't bleach.you never know what's in that stuff!

[themastaplan]

rude...sweetheart you're asking a questions and you're going to get a million different opinions...look, what are you expecting? people to lie and tell you what you want to hear...that IS NOT the way to go about things...if your whole life you were todl what you want to hear then you'd probably be a compltely different person...look at it as them telling you NOT to alter yourself because you should love who you are...you really need to stop over analyzing things and realize everyone is entitled to their opinion...the people on here are REAL and trying to help you love yourself...your "boyfriend" is a f** and telling you to change something about yourself? wow...he seems like a REAL KEEPER! ...seriously tho how dare he tell you to change your apperance...if its something you've always wanted done its one thing, but don't come on here and post a question and when people tell yo0u you're dumb for changing who you are and being REAL about it instead of telling you to change because your boyfriend wants you to...

please don't take this as omg he's such a jerk...i mean your gonna take it any way you want, but understand we are trying to help you be yoruself and not change because of some douchebag boyfriend...grow up and really READ what people are saying...LEARN TO LOVE YORUSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE!

[toulouse]

themasterplan-- how is getting offended 'overanalyzing'- its just an emotional response? Q A I think you should only do it if you want t. a boyfriend may change- will you get another surgery for the guy who likes them big? if you must do ut do it for you because you are the only one you know will be there for the long haul.

[themastaplan]

she should be getting offended, she is becoming offended by over analyzing...thinking everyone is out to get her, I agree with what you are telling her to do. don't get me wrong. she should be doing things to herself because she wants to, not because of a bf

[Anonymous]

ew how big are they? I think you should just get the surgery because bleaching cream only bleaches the skin when the areola is a different texture and skin itself.

[Asker]

Well people are saying it only lightens it so the surgery is my first priority!I would hate to just waste money on cream after cream and get no results. they are 2 inches wide but I'm going to get them fixed

[peace-love-couture]

Get the areola reduction, it's simple and cheap and most guys will be happy you got it done.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

No. It will only make them a lighter color. Only aerola reduction surgery will make them smaller. Don't get surgery just for your boyfriend, that is so weak. He should love you for who you are and it shouldn't matter how big your aerolas are. Screw him, be independant. I hate seeing girls that want to change to fit what their boyfriend wants. If he doesn't like it, get a new boyfriend.

[Asker]

Then if bleaching won't help I need the surgery then, I guess I have to save up and work harder now

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Did you not read anything else I just said? You will regret it and if you do it just to please your boyfriend then you're an idiot.

[Asker]

I just need them small though not lighter and you answers my question in the first sentence

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Whatever. But when you and him break up, you will regret it. But you just sound stupid so I'm not going to bother arguing. Only a weak, mindless, person would change themselves to please someone else. Yes I answered what you asked but I also gave my opinion. Try standing on your own two feet and sticking up for yourself. Why do you give a f*** what he thinks?

[zombiefood]

I could not agree more with everything you said. you stole the words right out of my mouth.

[Asker]

Then don't answer my question, now I know why people leave this site and come to the other forum I was on, you people are so rude and not understanding at all

[Butterfly_kisses09]

I'm not being rude or judgemental. I'm trying to help YOU out. I feel sorry that you feel so poorly about yourself. Get a higher self esteem. I'm not judging you, I gave you my opinion which is what this site is for. If you don't like it, don't let the door hit you on the way out. But it IS the Internet, don't take everything to heart and be so sensitive just because you get an answer you don't like...

[BunnyToast]

Don't ever let yourself change a part of your body just because your boyfriend doesn't like it. Boyfriends come and go and you need to remember that you are beautiful, and there is someone who will find every part of you beautiful. If you wish to bleach, go ahead. But don't do it for your boyfriend.

[sexhelp101]

If you were mine, I'm sure I would love your nipples. He should too. I hope it works out for you.

[slipslender]

allow me to educate you:

dump that asshole.

[nate18]

this deserves more thumbs up

[slipslender]

thanks. I don't know why people are down-voting this. he sounds like real prick. and she lacks a backbone: lovely pair.

[zombiefood]

Same as above, I completely agree.

[Asker]

How are you going to tell me that I should dump him yet say we make a good couple?leave me alone then

[slipslender]

i was being sarcastic. but seriously, it's your body. all we're trying to do here is give you our input. no one said you have to listen to us (or your boyfriend). good luck.

[sylar]

jesus.. why in the world would you do that..your nipples are attached to your boobs. Guys LOVE boobs. Who cares how big your aerolas are. Get that mindset out of your head.

[sylar]

No one's being judgmental - most of us said don't do the surgery. If you really think anyone's being judgmental, go away.

[PowerPlay7]

i think you should reconsider, I think large areola is attractive

[Asker]

well he doesn't lol