Will sex with a big penis hurt?

I've been with four guys so for and all of them were average. Well there's this guy he's way bigger than all four of the guys I slept with its big. I'm scared sex will be painful with him I'm pretty tight down there at least that's what the guys told me.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It might a little at first but you both have to go into it with the right attitude. He needs to be patient and make sure you are ready. Both mentally and physically. He needs to get you really worked up and hot. Make sure your juices are really flowing. Even think about using extra lube the first few times. Make sure he goes slow, pushing in a little at a time. I like this approach anyway. I think the slow insertion feels amazing. If he is really big, he may not be able to pound into you fast and furious. That will be up to you.

    My current boyfriend is very big and very thick. He cannot "jackhammer" me, but we found that we both prefer slow and steady anyway. I have had more vaginal orgasms with him than any other guy I have been with.

    Good luck and enjoy!

    • wonder about your guy's measurements.

  • I dated a rather large guy and it was too much for me. It was one of the main reasons we broke up because it was not fun for either of us. Its not that he didn't make sure I was ready because I was physically ready. He was just too large for me. He always tore me and I would bleed for at least a day after and walking hurt. I finally realized when we both had to get drunk so I didn't cry as much and he didn't feel as bad it was over. I hope its different for you but I stay away ever since. And by the way when I say big I mean like 9 inches and almost as big as a coke can.

    • thts impossible..no penis can be tht big

    • Believe what you want but check out some p*rn sometime you might be surprised.

  • it feels really good to me. I get sore afterward but it feels very good during sex. I like average too but big ones just push on the right nerves. of course if he doesn't know what he's doing, then it might hurt. also it may hurt if its your first time but you said its not.

    everyone is different though.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You'll know when it's time. If you have a vagina big enough to handle it then your size matches his and, as the Kama Sutra says, you've been paired up correctly.

    If you vagina is a fair amount smaller than his penis it may be painful and it may not go all the way in. He may hit your cervix. Some women like that, a lot do not.

    Look at it this way, if all vaginas were the same size, then every woman on the face of the planet would prefer the same size penis down the 1/16th of an inch in both length and girth because there would be absolutely no variation amongst women. This isn't true. Women come in different size, they just don't like to admit it. Well, okay, the smaller women don't mind it.

  • Just ask him to take time and go slow. You have taken 4 penises comfortably and this 5th will also be down through your love hole after some time - vagina is stretchable and will get used to after it has taken big d***s for few times.

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  • Alot depends on your vagina size as well. If your really tight, and he's big. Then it's probably not gonna make for a good fit, which will equal more pain than pleasure. Some girls are into pain during sex, others hate it. So again, that depends on you what your into.

    If your are as tight as you say. I have a feeling your going to wanna go back to normal size penises. I guess keep us updated with what happens.

  • It is going to feel great. You will feel so full and the sensations will be mind blowing. Hopefully this guy knows how to be gentle and work that marvelous prize he was given. Just relax and have a good time enjoying the pleasure you will be receiving. He will definitely be tops on your list of guys you want again and again.

    • Size Queen much? lol.

    • Katie's beat up muff could handle any penis that cum's her way. She make's no secret about it. I think she said she head a gang-bang with 10 black guys in one night. She's beyond size queen.

    • \/ There's usually only one type of guy that speaks up to girls who mention anything about size...

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  • In several years of dating, I only had one boyfriend who was so big we couldn't have sex. Very frustrating. I could not accommodate him, literally we could not get it in. All the guys brag about a big penis, but I prefer average. Be careful what you wish for. An average penis will touch all the right places and feels just right, always gets me there.

    • It may get you there, but that may not work for others. It's really the combination of the size of the woman and the size of the man.

    • You may be right about that, but I can only speak from my experience.

    • I prefer that too, and I am surprised that someone dislikes your comment... It depends on personal preference, right?

  • Yes once you let a big dude inside of you it will damage you for life. Physically and mentally. Don't do it. Just say no to big dongs.

    • Funniest answer lol

  • If he's gentle, it won't hurt.

  • Vaginas are made to stretch..hey size matters and he will fill you up oh so good!

    • I prefer average size actually, but obviously many women would disagree

  • As long as he starts off gently everything should be fine.

  • If you stop having sex with people you aren't married to, you won't have these problems.

    • because she asked if she should wait till marriage

    • Ikr Courtsrad09 its pretty obvious I'm not waiting for marriage

    • Thought this was 2012, guess I'm wrong?

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  • just make sure you are fully arosed before letting him fit in. during arosal, most vagina will be big enough for most d***s to fit it. if it is still tight, tell him not to go to rough on you. if he is an understanding guy, he will try not to hurt you.

  • As long as he's gentle about putting it in, it shouldn't hurt at all

  • It might or it might just be uncomfortable at first. Finally going black then? :)

    • No he's white :)

    • Albino, huh?

  • It can be painful but varies from person to person