Women - sex as a bargaining chip?

How many of you use sex as a bargaining chip / tool with your significant other like for example, "no sex till you do [this]" or "we can have sex if I get to [this]"? And if so, why do you do it? If not, why not? Personally, I think it's kind of manipulative and I think sex should be wanted by two people and not by the man only; not as some dangling bait for a guy to take because a girl wants something.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • No, I don't. My reasoning is pretty much the same as yours. Sex is something for both people to enjoy and I don't think that anyone should use it to manipulate their partner.

    On top of that, I love sex, so withholding it would be detrimental to me. Further, I have a great partner and I can't think of any situation in which I would feel the need do that (if it were something I was willing to do).

  • well my boyfriend has had a lot going on and he pushed me back so he has not been spending any time with me. so I told him no sex until he spends time with me. He respects that but he tries to get me in bed.

    • np *nods in approval*

  • No >___< that's pretty mean. Maybe with bjs though haha

Most Helpful Guys

  • Of course they do and why shouldn't they? hell if I could I would to life is about playing with the cards you were delt, so women can use their sexuality on guys, did you wine like a little bitch at the fact that even today guys get paid more than girls? hell no and you shouldn't you take what you can and never look back

  • All girls do it one way or the other at some point. That's why I never feel guilty anymore about manipulating girls into having sex, fair game.

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  • It's using a boy's natural urges against him, clever play, turn on

  • i may joke like that but I never follow through on it

  • It's wrong to use sex as a tool. Sometimes women don't feel like it because our feelings have been hurt or whatever, but that's a whole different thing.

  • yes