Would you be offended if the girl left before you woke up?

Ok I really liked this guy and he really liked me ! We had sex one night after a night out on holidays.. but I woke up early in the morning and realized what time it was that my family would be worried something had happened so I left and didn't wake him up! Later on that night in the night club he wouldn't talk to me his friends were like he's pissed off that you left before anyone had woken up ! he hasn't talked to me since or wanted to know my excuse.. Do any other guys react this way??
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  • Had this been like a one night stand type of deal, or a friend with benefits occurrence, then yea, I don't think the guy would have minded that you left without informing him. However, you said that the guy really liked you, and well, if he really liked you, most likely he had a good impression of you. By doing what you did, I think it most likely broke that good impression he had of you, and now he might think of you as not such a good girl, because there are girls who do that , and let me tell you, they aren't the sleep with only one guy type of gals. Next time, leave a note, or wake him up. YOu have to also think, even if he spoke to you, that good impression he had of you is most likely shattered.

    • I completely agree with you that's exactly what I said to my friend but I really am not the kinda girl that sleeps around its just I woke up & I realised d time & just thought he looked peacful so I wouldnt wake him that id see him later and talk2him later

  • Depends, but in the situation you described here I would be kinda offended, but I would want to at least talk to you about it and let you know what's up.

    If You had made it clear that you needed to be some place by X time the next morning and I still did not get up I would completely understand. But I would still hope that the girl would take all of maybe a minute of her time right before he left to come to me in bed and give me a kiss or hug or something the let me know your leaving. Just enough for me to slightly wake up to know whats going on.

    I hope that made at least a little sense and helped you

    • Ye it has but I really didn't think at the time that it would be a big deal coz I was goin 2 see him for definite that night like

    • Try changing shoes for a minute and put yourself in the guys shoes. How would you feel if he just up and left from your place the next morning?

    • Ye I would be really upset 2 but I just didn't think guys would care and that's stupid of me 2 think that way

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  • Next time....if there is a next time, leave him a note. But for now, I'd confront him and tell him that you're sorry, and the truth, and tell him how you want it to be more then a one night stand

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  • I probably would have been upset, too, if you just left me like that without waking me. However, he should give you a chance to explain. What you say makes sense; It doesn't sound like you meant to be rude to him. Next time, give him a good-bye kiss!

    • I doubt there will be a next time :(

  • I wouldn't react that way. I would take the high road and figure that she had a good excuse. Then I would give her a chance to explain.

    If you can find a way to leave a note where he can see it, that will put his mind at ease, if you ever have to leave that fast again. ;-)

  • I am a guy, I would say thank you for the great evening the night before when I seen you. For him to toss the guilt trip likely means he is quite young. This is not normal behavior from mature men. Quite the opposite, I would question why I didn't hear you wake, I am always the first up.

    • Lol I was v queit when I got up because didn't wanna wake him!! ye he's 18