Would you break up with someone over a messed up fetish?

Here's the hypothetical: You're in a new relationship with someone who you're quite fond of, but sex hasn't come up yet. One night, you think it's about to be "the night" where you finally take that next step and get into the dirty deeds. However, your partner reveals that they have the one fetish that you find repulsive - but that they won't force it on you. You can tell however that this fetish is important to them and could potentially hinder your sex life in the future. Would you continue the relationship, or would you breakup? If you would stay, how would you make it work?
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  • Well I guess it would depend on what exactly the fetish was. I'd be open to just about anything except shit like masochism, anything involving kids, anything involving animals, bodily fluids or defecation, swinging or bringing other people into the bed room. But if it were something like swinging or a third party I would suggest roleplay, as I've heard of people doing so to fulfill that fantasy, but if it were any of those other things I mentioned I'd break up with her.

  • Im all about being frisky in bed but If it was a fetish that I know I absolutely cannot do, and it's something that would hinder the relationship then I would walk away from the relationship. It wouldn't be fair to be with someone and I can't provide that something to her, and it's something she really likes then I would have to definitely walk off.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I realize it doesn't matter, but what's the fetish in question?

    • The fetish in the question is whatever fetish you would find the most repulsive.

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  • If you can't fill the gaps across that line, there's no point really dating. Sexual compatibility is just as important. I'd probably move towards something casual with them and keep emotionally distant so as to not get attached.

  • depends on the fetish... if it's sth like pyromania or stuff like that sure i'd break up basically... sounds dangerous

  • Fuck it don't knock it til you try it I guess

  • I would probably end the relationship.

    • No worries girl, me too.

    • Haha well at least I'm not the only one!

  • It depends on what the fetish is. If it's something I'd never do then I'd probably end it

    • Yes in the question you would apply the most disgusting fetish you could think of.

    • I don't have any fetishes so I never think about them. That's why I said it depends on what it is

    • I'm not saying YOU have a fetish, lol. When you think of fetishes, you would think of the worst thing that comes to mind. Like feet or something.

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  • You mean like a fart fetish? Lol