Would you dump a girl for not giving oral sex?

I've never been with a chick who won't give oral,but I'm sure those girls exist somewhere.I would dump a chick would won't give oral,to me,it's just a necessity of a good sex life. But,I don't give oral sex.It isn't something I do,it isn't appealing or fun to me,the taste and odor aren't all that(even if the chick showers) it just isn't something I'm into.But I think it's dumb for a girl to dump a guy over that,because she has options,she could use a vibrator,dildo or whatever during sex,oral isn't a necessity for a girl. Guys,would you dump a girl for not giving you oral sex? Girls,would you dump a guy for not giving you oral sex? And if you aren't straight,you can answer,just pretend it says girl or guys,whatever your preference is.
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  • It would be a big mark against them, but not enough by itself.

  • for not giving oral ? no ... for being a hypocrite HELL YA

  • Yes. If the girl isn't giving you the sex you need, you are never going to be happy with her. If you find giving oral "on the bare" unpleasant, try giving her oral through a plastic panty.

  • Nope, I'd a little sad, but I don't think it's a valid reason to leave someone for.

  • You'd dump her for not giving even though she's not getting anything in return? What a douche.

    • It's the definition of hypocrisy. I think this guy may be gay...

  • i'm straight as a boner :D (that's likeing chicks) I wouldn't dump I would make out A LOT!

  • I see your point. It seems very selfish not to give oral, but I've heard we need to respect others' boundaries & not force something on someone. I prefer giving oral & would like to receive it, but there are some who do not feel as I do. Somethings just gross others out, & they can't change that, if you dumped someone for not giving oral, you might be looked down on. But I would feel rejected if a guy was grossed out by oral, so I might break up with him because I didn't feel like he excepted my body. That might be wrong in some people's opinions, but I have to feel comfortable sharing my body with my partner. I wouldn't feel comfortable sharing my body with someone who didn't like giving oral. And because of this, I can't think less of a guy who dumps a girl for not giving blow jobs. Yeah, I know, some people would say it is wrong, but I think men need to feel excepted too. And if someone is unwilling to give you oral, that means they are not fully comfortable with the penis.

    • Oh, I just read your description. I could not date you because you don't give oral. Though you are not comfortable with it, I would feel like you were rejecting my body. Also, it's not nice to expect others to do for you what you cannot do for them.

  • Well, personally I actually do not enjoy or like the concept of the blowjob. Yes I realize I'm a minority but I stand by it, it has always fascinated me why that's such a concern for so many people's sex life. To me it boils down to the fact you use it to take a p*ss, so I don't see why a girl needs to do that for you. On the other hand I love going down on a woman, after she takes a shower, but that's on a personal basis.

    So the answer is a no because I don't care to begin with.

    • Listen here martinisamartian a. what a stupid username b. your wrong c. your a d*** d. stop whining about how rubbish your sex life it!

  • so your a hypocrit? you won't give it but you expect it in return?

  • Guess the girls think oral is more important...

  • I think you are crazy. If your not gonna give a girl none you don't need it either. Some girls don't like to do that's stuff but I guess it your life and what you like. I would never break up with someone for not wanting to do something.

  • Buddy, you have some messed-up views on gender-roles. You are ridiculously hypocritical and your approach to oral sex is pathetic. If ever a girl refuses to go down on you, don't take too long looking for a reason why. Your shortcomings aside, I only get sexually involved with girls I love, and no absence of oral sex will make me love her less. I might hope that she one day changes her mind, but the depth of love should overshadow the enjoyment of oral sex.

  • I think your a loser not to at least give back something.

    I would give my girl oral all the time...if she really wouldn't back to me I think It would depend on how good sex with her was and other things...she would have to make up for it

  • Well...I'd dump you. I wouln't dump the guy if he didn't expect me to give him oral but if he wanted it and didn't want to give it to me then f*** them. Relationships are based on equality. And just for the record, vibrators replace the penis not the mouth.

    • Im with you sistah I mean a guys junk doesn't taste particularly brilliant either.

    • Aw shucks *blush blush*

    • Exactly! lol Wtf does a vibrator have to do with oral & if that's the new accepted corollary, then you can always gets a flesh-light. Seriously- think a little before you post :) Anyways to answer your question. I'm not big on receiving or giving oral. But w/e it was in the relationship of he could not return something he wanted, alternatively- If I felt I was that was completely unable to provide something ultra important to him, to the point it affected his life adversely I'd break up :)

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  • No. That's VERY dumb reason to dump someone.

  • It is very much something I enjoy and its just another area where I am looking for a compatible person. I did have a couple girlfriends who craved giving me oral at least twice a day but most were less often than that. Less often is ok but never? Nope. And I would like to mention that spitting is as big a turnoff as a guy who won't kiss you after you give him oral would be to you.

  • I kicked a girl out of my bed after she made the effort to call me for basically a booty call. It was rather disappointing for her to not only not give a bj, but she didn't even touch my dick. I swear I told her I was 22, girl you gotta at least touch it for it to stay up you know.

    In a relationship though, doesn't matter too much. I get off passionately kissing.

  • WOW! I never thought id meet a jerk like oyu, but ou are just an asshole...

    i mean, ryl, if you like a girl you oldnt mind if she does it or not...

  • Certainly NOT!

  • I'm a girl and I would not dump a guy because he didn't give me oral sex.. in fact id rather not have him give me oral sex, I just feel uncomfortable with the guys mouth and tounge that close to my vagina.lol

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