Would you dump someone because they are a virgin?

[Anonymous]

would a guy dump his girlfriend because he found out she is a virgin? I think that's what happened to me. he just lost interest.

[Little-Hippie]

That might have been what happened.

But for the sake of discussion, let me ask you:

How long were you carrying on this sexless relationship before he dumped you, sweetie?

[Asker]

4 months

[Little-Hippie]

Well, guy's don't mind virgins. But unless they're specifically looking to celibate, guys don't give virgins special treatment for being virgins. Assuming you ARE 18, he's expecting an adult relationship from you, virgin or not. Anything short of that, may not be what he signed up for. You have to remember, when you're entering a relationship with a guy, unless you've both agreed that you're not having sex, he won't expect that you're planning on holding onto your virginity.

[Jarett]

He probably didn't dump you because he lost interest. He probably dumped you because he was just looking for sex, and realized he wouldn't get it from you.

[Asker]

Well I won't have sex with any guy, I told him I was waiting for the right one. That's all.

[Jarett]

Yeah, and how long after you told him did he break up with you?

[Asker]

I told him the last time I was with him. We haven't seen each other for two months and broke up In october, which is two months ago.

[Jarett]

So basically a little while after you told him? So chances are, he was just looking for sex, and you wouldn't give it to him, so that's why he dumped you. Some guys are just looking for sex. Be patient and be picky and wait for a good guy who likes you for WHO you are, not WHAT you have (your body) or WHAT you'll do with them sexually.

[Asker]

Hey thanks for your help, although since he was about your age I thought he mind be a little bit mature in that section. But he wasnt.

[timberlake]

he was just trying to get laid. he's an asshole. don't let it discourage you. hope you moved on!

[Anonymous]

who ever would dump someone for that is an ass hole.

[regular-guy]

I would prefer my girlfriend or date be virgin. Chastity or moral purity is a very underrated quality these days.

[Josh-N]

Ouch, I'm sorry. I would never do that. Most guys wouldnt.

[here4you]

is he was was a big enough douche bag/dick/ asshole

[tyrantfuryre]

No!. Sorry, that's just retarded. IF he did dump you for that reason then you definitely don't need his dumb ass.

[Anonymous]

never

[Anonymous]

It sounds unlikely, but there are all sorts of guys.