Would you dump your girlfriend if she refused to give you a bj?

She refused to give you blow jobs, and would never have sex with you unless you wore a condom? (is the loss of sensation really that bad?)
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  • Wow, where can I find this little prize package of a girlfriend? The only pleasure I would get is to spend all day and eat your p**** until it's as dry as a desert. I'll just leave my pants on thank you.

    You don't want to feel one of the best things you can experience, a man's hard **** in two of the most sensitive parts of your body. You can sense and control him with a few subtle movements of your lips tongue and hand. Or maybe the most unique feeling - wrapping those lucious p**** lips around his cock. You do know that those two body parts were literally made for each other, right?

    Why would you deprive yourself of life's most natural, and most popular pleasures?

    Anyway to answer your question, I would enjoy spending some nice intimate time with my face burried between your legs.

    As for me, I would just relieve myself. I don't think that situation will last forever unless you are totally crazy. But until then, it would be OK for a while - a little while!

    You noticed I didn't mention condoms?

    It wasn't a mistake.

  • if you two are monogramy and serious id suggest birth control...the loss of sensation is a lot with condoms...bj's are a plus and are expected time to time, maybe not every time but its nice

    you have to remember we are sexual animals and use sex for pleasure...if you can't keep your guy interested he may tend to drift away...we like excitment just as much as you girls do...read up on some articles...not all guys want sex but we do want to feel wanted and having sex and giving bj's accomplishes that, ALTHOUGH there are PLENTY of other ways to show we are wanted and appreciated...

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  • i wouldn't give a guy head unless he was wearing a condom and I would never let a guy go down on me. I'm more for condoms in general even though I've never done anything.

  • Get a tongue crib you have a reason why a bj wouldn't happen without seriously injuring him. (Braces)

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  • condoms make the guy last longer, but the sensations is unexplainable when done without a condom, and it makes you and your partners connection so much closer... is she would never give me a blowjob again, then yes that alone might be a deal breaker for me... but I guess if we were mentally connected then I wouldn't care, but she wouldn't expect me to go down on her ever...

  • NEVER! There are other ways for a guy to feel good that aren't uncomfortable or gross foir the girl, and her experience would be as important to me as my own, if not more so! And as far as the condom goes, I'd insist on it unless married and/or planning a baby...

  • Yes for the blow jobs, no for the condom. (That's just safe sex. I have no problem with that.)

    • why are blow jobs so important? I don't expect oral sex from anyone (never had it before). What if she couldn't give blow jobs?

    • I can't think of any reason why a girl couldn't give blow jobs. And yes, they are that important. To me, they are part and parcel of the sexual experience. I couldn't just divorce myself from that side of sex. I couldn't say "If you don't blow me, I won't go down on you" because that would just make it worse. I love going down on a girl. How could I put it in terms you might understand. Would you date a guy who would have sex with you, but who refused to kiss you? Ever?

    • Well I've tryed to give one before and I failed, couldn't get him to finish, it hurt my jaw and I kept gagging. I also have braces now and have to have jaw surgery in 9 months to fix my overbite.. so yeah I can't give blow jobs. I guess I'll have to find a guy who dosn't mind, might be hard though if they are so important :(

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  • It would be a riff in the relationship if I was always spending money on condoms and she never pitched in and didn't take birth control. I'd feel the responsibility of it all would be left on me, and that wouldn't be cool

  • Would not dump a woman over bjs..don't want them anyway...would dump a woman that would not let me go down on her...and wouldn't second guess myself.

  • No to the blowjobs and wearing the condom. if she's against blowjobs that's fine not all girls are be giving head and safe sex is better with a condom preventing the risk of getting her pregnant and spreading diseases around.

  • Condom: Not at first. After enough time has passed for things to be serious (6+ months), then I would be very disappointed to still be the only one responsible for BC.

    BJs: Absolutely. Who wants to accept life without then? Who wants to be with someone who doesn't care enough to go down on them. "Really not liking them" is no different than "really not liking him."

  • I find it messed up how many other guys claim to base a girls worth of his time and commitment on how well she'll sexually perform in his favor. That is wrong and to you guys, just so you know, you're an ***hole.

  • Honestly, I don't think I'd have ever become exclusive with her in the first place if she refused to give me a bj. If we're not sexually compatible I'm not going exclusive. And being a giving lover is a HUGE part of sexual compatiblility. I'd find someone else who was excited to blow me--there are plenty of girls out there who love it.

    I could be okay with the condom depending on the birth control situation. At some point after we'd been together for awhile and had both been fully tested, I may suggest we go with hormonal birth control and have sex without condoms, but that's not as much of a deal breaker.

  • well I honestly don't mind either way, if she can then great, if not, well its not worth breaking up over, the relationship doesn't revolve around blowjobs. And I wouldn't break up either if she insisted on a condom, I would rather use one. But I guess opinions differ from guy to guy.