Would you ever let your girlfriend have sex with other guys?

My girlfriend has never had any other sexual partners and I have. I am her first and I find it to be a turn on for her to flirt, dance, and kiss other guys. She never has, but I told her if she ever wanted to I would want her to explore herself sexually. It was fun in the beginning of college to be single and have flings and I want her to be able to experience this too. We have been going out for 2 years and are very much in love and I told her she could hook up with others if she wanted. She is going abroad next semester and I think this would be fun for her if she wanted.
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  • I love when people post stupid assumptions and think they know everything, then close it off with "it's a fact". That doesn't mean sh*t.

    My girlfriend and I are quite comfortable with the idea of having sex with other people as long as we don't cheat on each other and start other relationships. We can distinguish between sex and love. They're not one in the same.

    We view sex with other people more as an assisted masturbation, you can't possibly fall in love with your hands. For some people sex = closeness and for others it does not, it's not a fact that sex breeds closeness.

    If you want your girlfriend to be free to explore her sexuality, tell her once and leave it at that. It might be that she would want you to be able to do so as well - maybe she'll want the two of you to do it together. Tell her that you want her to be free to do what she wants and you want to be a part of it.

    If you are happy with it and she is happy with it, there is no risk. If anything you're reducing the chances of you being left by allowing your girlfriend freedoms she may never get with other guys.

    Your girlfriend may leave you some day but she is about as likely to leave you if you don't let her do what she wants also. There is no definitive answer, you take your own chances and do what makes you happy. In this case it seems that making her happy is what makes you happy and that's a good thing.

    Peace ;)

  • Ha OK until she finds version 2.0 of you...except with a bigger dong and better in everyway=)

    Sex breeds closeness...its a fact! Would it bother you if she only had sex with this one guy, but did it every single day she was away ?

    If you really want her to explore her sexuality...BREAK UP!

    And beside wats wrong with monogamy?

    • Nothing wrong with monogamy, but it's unnecessary, and those who have no need for it probably shouldn't attempt it.

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  • Whatever floats your boat as long as you two are happy with it.

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  • Say it once. If she asks again, repeat yourself. Then, let the matter rest. You don't want her to feel pushed.

  • So you "allow" her to have sex with other guys, she gets with someone better than you and you get dumped...Bad idea.

  • hell no.

  • NO

    If you love her, you'll suffer is she has sex with other guys, I'm sure about it...