Would you let him spank you?

Ok so 50 shades is the best book ever and the idea of spanking and being tied up is a question lots of women think about but don't say it, would you like your man to tie you up spank you what would be your limit. FYI just had my boyfriend tie me up spank me and even use cloths pins to areas it was amazing
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  • Nope. Nope nope nope.

    It's not in my personality to be dominated like that. When I get intimate with my boyfriend we are not asserting dominance over each other, we are pleasuring each other. There's a difference. Since neither of us like being dominated and we both know that, we instead take turns pleasuring each other.

    This situation works well for us because never during it do either of us feel our dominance is being threatened. When we pleasure each other, we feel that we are doing the other a favor, or giving them a gift. It is not my right as his girlfriend to demand he pleasure me and it is not his right as my boyfriend to demand I perform a sexual act for him. If either of us starts demanding things of the other you can bet the other won't budge.

    If he decided one day he was going to spank me while I was blowing him, you can bet your ass I'd take a huge bite out of that d*** of his. If he wants to inflict pain to me, he's asking to get pain back.

    Accept it or knock it, I don't care. That's how my relationship works.

    Oh, and that book sucks.

    • It's not about forced pleasure and it is really fun to let him be in control, I'm in control all the time so when I can give in it is great.

    • Nope. I derive zero pleasure from letting him be in control of my actions and my body. But more power to you...I guess.

    • You have to let loose and relax let down your guard sex should be fun and sensual not just boring and same old same old

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  • I haven't read the book and don't know if I will, because what excerpts I HAVE read, just seem like awful literature. But liking those things is actually fairly common, lol. The popularity of the book just made it less 'taboo' for people to talk about and openly admit to. I've always liked the idea of spanking and being tied up, together or separate, it's a huge turn-on. A little pain with my pleasure just enhances the pleasure for me.

    It may not be your cup of tea if you like 50 Shades so much because the writing style is so much different [it was written almost 150 years ago], but the theme is the same... Try reading Venus in Furs by Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch. link It's been my favorite book in the world since I was like 17. And notice the guy's name? It's FROM HIM, that we get the term 'masochism' in the first place, BECAUSE of this piece of literature [similar to how we get 'sadism' from Marquis De Sade]. It's much less blatantly 'pornographic', but in my eyes much more erotic and risque, especially for the time period it was written in.

    • I like the book for the story itself its not just the writing its the story about love and sex and all the things that go with it. To me a great fantasy and the story has lots of similar things that mimic my life that men are screwed up and all the story with it. I do think it was not a classic lit paper but great story

    • Fair enough. =] Like I said, I haven't read it, just seen little pieces.

  • nope, i'm going through this right now, challenging my husband. He just started spanking me when he's been annoyed and frustrated at me when I've been hoarsing around!! I'm not taking it lightly. I refuse to submit and am stepping up my pranking games to teach him a lesson not to mess with me! Girlz Rule Boyz drool!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Definitely most girls I meet sexually are submissive and at the very least want to be spanked. Many I know love to be completely manhandled and I'm happy to oblige if they're genuine about their desire. I've met plenty of girls who loved being dominated so much that our regular sex lives consisted of hot sessions of me choking, pulling hair, smacking face, gagging throat with fingers, deep throating with cock, taking her anally, putting in a ball gag, putting in a butt plug... Jeez I'm getting hot just writing about it, but of course I'm no psycho. I only like the things I've been specifically made aware of by multiple women telling me they loved them and have met a fair number of women as well who crave abuse harder than I am comfortable inflicting. I am instantly disgusted and turned off at the idea of ever doing these things to unwilling women. The naughtiness of the desire is half of what gets me hot ;)

  • You'd be surprised at how many girls like it.

    I was 21 or 22, had broken up with my girlfriend a few months before, and was at a small party that some friends were throwing for a girl's birthday. The birthday girl talked about being spanked with a bit of a sparkle in her eye, but no one took it seriously, so I pulled a chair into the middle of the room, led her by the hand over to it, sat down, pulled her over my knee, and spanked her in front of everyone. Everyone's jaws just kind of dropped, but the birthday girl LOVED IT, and before I could put the chair away, the other girls were fighting over who would go next. I think I ended up spanking about 8 of them at that party, and I've done that many times since. I've even had boyfriends ask me to spank their girl.

    For so many girls, it's a huge thrill...

    • i swear to god dude, you are the sexual textbook of awesome.

    • You would have liked the Halloween party I just got back from...

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  • Fifty Shades was great entertainment and terrible literature but I take your point. I have been an inveterate spanko for many years and without fail my women really like being spanked, bound, and generally dominated. You're in the majority. It's mostly a matter of degree. Most of the gals I dated were vanilla until I got hold of them. They discovered that they had a pretty hot kinky side and we had huge fun exploring that. So enjoy!

  • best book ever? Go kill yourself.

    BDSM has existed forever. A silly book doesn't revolutionize anything.

    • No it just makes more people talk about it and think about it. It was a great love story too.

  • Taking turns would be more fun :)

  • I haven't really found any girl that really likes bring tied up. Maybe I have and was never told the truth but so far in the open I haven't met anyone who really likes the whole 50 shades play.

  • Spanking is a part of B&D or rough sex. Some girls like it and some don't;

  • I have. Several times. An amazing turn on.

  • Most woman like to be spank, but won't say it! It's amazing!

  • It's a horribly written piece of sh*t actually.

    But yeah spanking is okay. Clothes pins wouldn't have anything to attach themselves to on me though.