Would you let your wife have a MFM?

if your wife asked would you let her have a MFM, what would your reaction be,
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I will answer for my husband, the answer is yes and we have, John is not Bi,in any form,but he is a voyeur, I am and exhitionist, John has a certain amount of control, I have lots of fun, Sally
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  • Nope. It's not something I'm into and I would be very uncomfortable sexually and emotionally. I don't think there is anything wrong with it.

    On the flip side, I don't think I could do FMF in a marriage either. I've done it with people that were just sexual partners (it's not that much more fun anyway) but there wasn't a commitment.

    Monogamy is different for everyone. But some people can be really emotionally hurt if their partner suggests that kind of 'monogomish' lifestyle. But who knows. I know years of life with one person can change your expectations, too.

  • I wouldn't say anything, I'll just pack my bags and leave.

    • damn right

    • For asking, you'd leave? Wow...

    • Yup.

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  • Lol you guys need to get a grip! So insecure! My husband let's me and we FMF. Being the center of attention of more than one person is simply amazing! If you are insecure in your manhood or relationship, forget it! It's not for you! We have been married 22 years now, together for 27, and started doing these type of things for 4 years now. Our relationship is stronger and more exciting because of it! Things get boring, this brought a lot of spark back into our lives!

    • You guys in NY by any chance?

    • I think maybe you are right about people being insecure, John my husband and I are into MFMs, been into them now over ten years, John's prowess at love making is great, I had two lovers before I met my now husband, now I have had 14 more, it fascinates me the different way some men have sex and what is important to them, glad your into it,

    • Agree, it can be fun , healthy and amazing. if your insecure then no. it is said that your relationship is stronger, better, and more fulfilling for those that do then those that dont. Because of the trust you have and not hung up on so many things most are it seems which hurts their relationship in the long run anyway more times then not.

  • I'm not into MFM or FMF BUT, I bet if the question was the other way around (FMF), most guys who said no would be like: hell yeah,that's my fantasy etc. Which is hypocritical as f*** imo. I am not talking about the guys who would be against it. I am talking about the guys who would be up for it if Q/A was asking for a FMF situation. Down-vote all you want. I know I am telling the truth. I've seen it before here.

    • Most I think that is true. I am on the plus side of a MFM

  • How many of these guys would turn down his wife is she offered to bring her hot friend into the bedroom with them?

    • I'd leave her for that to... If she wants to cheat on me with women, it's no different.

    • This.

    • As usual, you are spot on, Mlle. Kudos. I loved you "water or camera duty". By the way, my wife is WAY to shy for something like this; and yes, I have asked. I am the wild, Beserker, Scotsman in our family. No one believes a word I say, because they think I am insane.

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  • I'd think the answer to that would be how much you respected your partner and the relationship of you have an open relationship then it's OK, however if your committed to one another you love one another as only a couple allowing yourself or your partner to enter I to the stage of adding another person is like putting your relationship on life support and your both in critical condition! It's NOT the thing to do of your seriously wanting to keep someone intimacy and care REQUIRE one-on-one dedication, and loyalty in every way it's NOT an option, and the other person isn't either!

  • NONBFN!

    (Not Only No, But Fuck No!)

    For some context for my answer, read this:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1547923-what-made-you-leave-your-ex-how-are-you-coping

    • @Account After I pressed enter I thought better and sure enough there was that accusation of hypocrisy. (First female in the list too!) For the record then, in my marriage the following prohibitions apply: No MFM No MMF No FFM No FMF Just so we're all clear, ALL of these would violate my marriage. Isn't that about right @GraySailorsBride ?

    • That is exactly right., and for those that think that our sex life would be boring without the introduction of something as propose by the asker, so wrong, in our case anyway. At our age and time in our marriage, the sex has never been better, kinkier, more exciting and loving. Just keeps getting better. We communicate with each other, listen to what we both desire. It's never been better.

  • It's completely normal for her to want one. As a guy, I would love to being another girl in the bedroom. I don't expect it from her. Be honest about your fantasies, but don't expect anything of it. It's probably better that it remains a fantasy

  • Sure, she could do that right after I divorced her.

  • No I'd probably be open to somethng like that if I had no attachments but if I'm in a relationship I just want it to be me and her.

  • Why did she marry in the first place if she wanted to have sex with other men?

    I might let it happen if it was during the girlfriend/boyfriend period, even then only with another dude I was cool with. But married? She should have gotten all that sh*t done in college.

  • Way too complicated for me. Not even FMF... Just not my thing

  • As long as I'm one of the "M's" :)

    • Yeah... that would sorta suck being relegated to water or camera duty for that one...

    • LMAO

  • I don't give a sh*t if she was my wife of 20 years, that h*e would get the divorce papers.

    • @update: Sounds like you guys were tip-toeing on crazy things to begin with. You failed to mention that in your initial question.

  • Only if M #2 meets my approval

  • Yes I would. I trust her.

  • If I and another girl was included, I'll do it, but that's the only way. Why do you want to have this kind of fantasy?

    • why would you want to have a fantasy with two women?

    • To even the playing field.

  • I'd totally let her. Just have to find the right guy. Id love to take turns cumming in her and really let the cum fly. Maybe some dp creampies and of course have her on her knees mouth open as we finish in her mouth together.

  • yes sure why not

  • My loving husband has.

  • yes and have , enjoyed it

  • Hell yes... I'd encourage it actually

  • yeah if i watched lol then id join

  • Yes...

  • I'm not Bi either but I absolutely would so a mfm with my wife.

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