Would you rather fu*k or make love? Forever.

Choose one and only one- thank you:) Whichever you pick is the kind of sex will have -always. Whether in a relationship or stranger. & I know people say when they are in love, f***ing can still be making love- that's how you feel & that's fine. I'm talking/asking about the logistics. Hard and fast or sift and slow. Sexual or Sensual. Lust or Love.
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  • Actually, I don't think love can be "made". Either it is there, or not.

    As far as sexual intercourse is concerned, for those who have a "heart", I would say it is an extension of love through physical actions.

    Then there are those who don't have a "heart" (we all have seen people like that, from players to cruel, cold-blooded murderers to psychopaths. Being extremely generous, we usually still refer them as human beings, i.e. at least biologically). Despite not having a "heart", they still can functional sexually, just like many other animals.

    That's what I would use term "f**king" when these people have sexual relationships. This is the same kind who USE prostitutes, treating (and dehumanizing) them as a "urinal". These are the same kind of people who have sexual intercourse with chimpanzees/horse/dogs/...whatnot. To them, it doesn't matter. That's what you call lust.

    Meaning, obviously some people can separate love and sex (making them good prostitutes and gigolos), while some can't (they won't make good prostitutes and gigolos)

    • :) I know there are varying degrees of emotions that exist are do not exist with any physical connection. And people can say you can quote unquote F*** with lots of passion and love- that's a different question which I am also very interested in. So for this one, I was really asking about style. Rough or soft. Sexual or sensual. basically :)

    • Some cultures train/brainwash their males to regard aggression, violence, ..cowboy style is "manly", and "manly" is good. This kind of selfish masculine energy not only harm others, but also everything in nature (just look at the state Earth is in), and is ultimately self-destructive. Rough vs Soft, which is good? Simple, just stroke your own arm, rough and then soft, see how it feels. Love, I don't think too many even know what it is.

    • Well said. & Yea I mean good call on earth- another good example of rape.

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  • I think making love is way better than f***ing. When we make love, we take our time, do different things, experiment and find other ways to pleasure each other. When it is quick, it can feel good for a few minutes and the intensity is nice, but the passion and sensuality of a smooth rhythm is missing.

    I try and make sure every other week or so we have time "blocked" on a day when there is nothing else going on to just spend time doing whatever we want to each other. We can relax, she can get comfortable, etc... It's days like that when we can build up an orgasm that leaves her quivering and mumbling because it was so intense.

    Both are fun, but in the end I prefer slow and steady to hard and fast.

    • Thats an awesome response :)

    • Thanks!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Making love, its romantic/passionate/beautiful and amazing with the right partner.

    • Really? never been there, just look a me lol

  • Fucking. I would never come if all we did was make slow sweet love.

    • What if you could technically come from making love- I'm not asking you to change your answer I'm just curious if life was magical cows could fly ,you could reach the end of s rainbow ,ufos were abducting people taking them to Nervana.. Do you actually like f***ing better or ifs it just necessary- if both included orgasms?

    • Honestly I prefer rough sex in general so if I had to pick it would be f***ing but I would miss love making as I do enjoy it.

    • K thanks :)

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  • Hard & Slow; making love.

    • Lol I was waiting for someone to do that- its a sort of a loophole - my fault for adding to many descriptions. I'll have to accept that :)

  • Fucking can be a bit more intense but it's love that you can't get out of your mind at work the next day.

    • ^^

    • You also can't get Albany out of your mind either. (LOL)

  • Fuck, make love.

    Sexual, sensual.

    Lust, love.

    Rough, soft.

    cassoulet, croissant

    Either without the other is just token lip service to the true nature of the experience. Only the lazy or the heartless are able to have one without the other.

    • Haha nice :)

  • Love is hotter, def love

  • Making love.

  • Hard and fast, gentle sex is too boring.

  • making love. f***ing is normally a one night stand that has no future,nothing wrong with that but ultimately is fruitless. making love is what you do with someone you HOPE to be with for life.

  • can't believe I'm saying this but I gonna lean towards making love to. just that extra closeness to your partner when your making love. you can't beat that

  • I chose neither. Sex is gross.

    • You lie.

  • making love.

  • love

  • either way it would get boring without variety

    but if its forever to me I would choose rough sex because you can always be gentle in foreplay lol

    • No foreplay while you have sex. That's the point. Foreplay part of sex. The deal is JUST 'f***ing' or sensual Sex- which includes foreplay. Foreplay is any part of sex that's not intercourse technically I think . anyways the question would be too easy if you could just switch it up like that & its supposed to be tough :)

    • Damn decisions!!! idk then I haven't had sex to know what I really like then

    • Lol fair enough :)

  • make love, obviously... sensual all the way

  • everybody is saying and will say LOVE, but they never applied it. All they want is to FU*K sum1 as hard and frequent as they can

    • Lol that was my thinking haha- that's why I asked :) So I assume you choose fu*k?

    • GOD is my witness that I'm virgin......lolzz

  • Lovey. <3