I've been with girls with bigger labia minora, and seen many, many more. Until maybe a year or two ago, I didn't even realize that women even thought about that, much less were concerned by it. I've always enjoyed whatever the girl had, and the fact that each one was different is what made it fun and interesting.
I might support labiaplasty if the girl was having serious problems (tearing, painful sex, etc.), but for just cosmetic reasons? Because she mistakenly thinks that's what women are supposed to look like? No way.
Part of the reason for this recent crap is because since shaving pubic hair became popular, soft-core p*rn mags have had to edit vulva pictures to make them look line "innies" or risk being recategorized as "hard core" mags, which have far more restrictions and thus greatly reduced sales volume. These pictures are NOT edited because "that's what men want", but because a tiny handful of censors have decided that prominant labia is "more overtly sexual", and thus should be considered "hard core." That's a bullsh*t, empty-headed decision, but as a result, magazines are routinely edited, and now women think that's what women should look like, or that that's what men want.
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Probably not. It's not because I'm controlling, it's just that I think it's unnecessary surgery. I love vulvas in all their shapes and sizes. I've never seen one that I thought was ugly. Unless there's a serious medical problem, I'm sure it looks just fine. I definitely wouldn't ask her for a labiaplasty. Not only because I like it the way it is but because it would make her even more self-conscious. I want her to feel sexy with the p**** she has.
That said, it is her body and her decision. I can only and would only try to persuade her, I won't force her. She shouldn't expect me to pay for it, though.
would you want your boyfriend to go cut off his foreskin? it's silly, you only need one person to love you and if they don't like it their not worth it..
Do you want children? Because sweety it doesn't get pretty after childbirth. Or you could use the money for college? An education is pretty sexy.
What happenes to it after children? I hope the labia doesn't get even bigger or mine will end up looking like elephant ears lol
Everything gets torn up. EVERYTHING. I mean, your pelvis does split open. Watch a vid on childbirth and educate yourself. To do such an unnecessary thing when it's just going to get torn up some years down the road? Might as well throw the money away. Childbirth isn't pretty, and your body doesn't morph back to place when you're done.
Everything doesn't get torn. The vagina us made to be able to give birth. Sometimes it car tear, but the can just stitch it back up.
really? Its YOUR body and if YOU wan to do it then YOU do it. If your boyfriend can't handle it then f-u-c-k him.
Yeah but it would benifit him too
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Honestly, it would annoy me that her insecurity will become some hustler's boat payment, and I'd tell her that, but I wouldn't stop her. It's her money--she can set it on fire however she pleases.
If she thinks I'm helping her pay for it, she's out of her damn mind.
No, with the rarest exceptions that look like this G-Rated picture (you know what I mean)
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There's no reason to have one. And if you are married and your husband is OK with what you have, not even then.
If I were her boyfriend I would be behind her all the way.
Some guys do like those kind of lips tho.
So you'd be happy about her decision? Cool
I would support it, if we'd be serious, I'd also support it financially!
... What's that?
Cutting off excess skin of the labia minora
I wouldn't care if it made her more confident. But I wouldn't help her pay for it because that's her want, and I don't think it's necessary or anything.
Would you support your BFs decision to get a penis enlargement?
I would certainly not waste my money on something like that. All labia is good labia.
Of course I would.
Do you think it would be a lot more attractive?
Probably. I like innies. If she complains about it a lot I might suggest it to her. If we were together for a long time I probably would help.
i would try to convince her not to but if she felt she "needed" it then yeah I'd support her decision.
yes. i would
Honestly I couldn't support something like that. I mean what, if it's pleasing to me it's still not enough? That's some BS right there.
I'm in love with a chick that has small boobs and I love them and her vagina is more outie than innie and I like it the way it is so if she felt she had to change anything from surgery I would feel like she doesn't believe me I love her and doesn't trust me.
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