Would you use a vibe or dildo that's bigger than your man?

Anonymous

Would you honestly do that and why? Please leave appropriate comments if applicable.

Yes because I can pick my ideal size.

Vote A

Yes because I like the variety.

Vote B

Yes because my man is too small for me.

Vote C

No my man is too big already.

Vote D

No I'd never use a toy like that.

Vote E

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+1 y

Its early but the early favorite is women use bigger toys than their guy because they can pick their ideal size. This tell me that their ideal size must be bigger than their guy. The average penis is whatever size it is but its average. I believe the ideal size is a big d***, whatever that means. But girls that say they don't desire a big d*** are either inexperienced or lying.

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Most Helpful Girls

Anonymous
+1 y
My boyfriend is above average and the perfect fit for me. He's 8-9 inches and perfectly thick. I have dildos smaller than him that work great though and sometimes I just use my fingers. Sometimes I get in this mentality where I want my p**** just for his d*** so I won't f*** myself with dildos unless he wants to play with me. My fingers and vibrators are great. Sometimes I do use my dildos on my own but yes you're right what you said to that other girl. there is no comparison to being able to sit back on a nice thick long d***. Its hot and its attached to the guy you want to please. Half the turn on is hearing him moan and having his hands all over you. A real d*** is always better in my opinion if its on a guy who knows how to take me and make me his bitch. If he can't handle business and f*** the sh*t out of me then I'd rather just go get my toys
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- Asker
  +1 y
  A woman that knows what she wants and doesn't settle for less! I love it:)
- Asker
  +1 y
  if he can't handle business and f*** the sh*t out of you than why be with him? Those guys make perfect friends. Get the benefits somewhere else.
Anonymous
+1 y
I bought several of my toys while I was single and just kept them. I've been with big guys and smaller/average guys but that's not a factor in buying sex toys. I go with what looks good and what I know will feel good. I have big dildos yes and I also have toys that look nothing like d***s. I'm with a girl right now and she doesn't have a d*** lol
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- Asker
  +1 y
  No substitute for a really fat juicy rock hard one though now is there.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  I would disagree but I can understand if you prefer one. Go with that, babe.
- Asker
  +1 y
  come on now...you know plastic doesn't have anything on a warm piece of love sausage.
katiesmuff Master
+1 y
A vast majority of the vibe's and dildos are bigger than most guys in general

But to answer your question YES I do use toys bigger than any guy I have ever been with.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  why not just get a bigger man?
- katiesmuff
  +1 y
  That certainly would be a valid option! LOL
- Asker
  +1 y
  but alas! not to many thick 11 inch cocks out there in the real world now is there.
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- katiesmuff
  +1 y
  Not many at all. Would love to see my first one if there is such an animal!
- Asker
  +1 y
  you know there is but I've got to say I'm not the one. Nor would I want to be the one. 8 inches is more than enough.

Most Helpful Guys

Swampwater Xper 3
+1 y
i think they use bigger ones because obviously they have to hold onto it right?
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sethdarren Xper 3
+1 y
I wonder the same thing and would also like to know.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I thought it was a good question. Let's hope the gals answer truthfully. It looks like they have so far.
- sethdarren
  +1 y
  Yes agree pal

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Loran7 Xper 5
+1 y
I do. I have a variety of sizes, from little finger tip massagers to giant 9" x 7" girth vibrators. Somegimes I like to rease mtself , and other times I need to be filled up and stretched. Don't worry, though. Everything goes bacl to normal soon after I finish. ;)
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frikkin_frakkin Xper 5
+1 y
no I don't think I would for a couple reasons:

- my boyfriend has pretty decent length and girth

- I don't want to stretch my vagine (yes, my vagine) out.

- I like how portable and how easily small vibrators and dildos feel in my hands (which are kinds small, teehehe)
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I've heard that big toys don't actually stretch the vagine permanently but instead work out the muscles better so that orgasm are better and easier to get. Is your Boyfriend your ideal size?
- Asker
  +1 y
  I don't think "decent" is your ideal size. Someday you'll get a big guy to blow your socks off and you'll never look back.
- frikkin_frakkin
  +1 y
  lol yes my boyfriend is my ideal size. I said decent because I didn't want to come off like I was bragging. He "knocks my socks off" all the time ;-)
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- Asker
  +1 y
  That's great! Than why use a dildo that is smaller than his ideal size?
udolipixie Guru
+1 y
Me: Yes the point of a dildo is getting the perfect size for you.

3 of my girls because they like variety.

The rest, 5, because their boyfriend is too small for them.

Though my sample is small because most of my girls don't do bfs.

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- Asker
  +1 y
  Some girls love a really big d*** once in awhile but wouldn't want that punishment everyday:) So most of your girls have boys that are too small? That is so sad. Why even date a guy that doesn't pack enough to satisfy you? I could see how most girls that don't do bfs would be open to the larger end of the size ranges. They know the power of a big penis.
- udolipixie
  +1 y
  "Why even date a guy that doesn't pack enough to satisfy you?" Girls usually have to compromise on sex & attraction for a good relationship.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Why? Cause the guys that know they're the sh*t in bed only want to f*** and then leave to f*** some other unsatisfied groupies.
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- udolipixie
  +1 y
  Not where I'm from. Attractive guys don't really see the need to commit & guys who are good at sex don't really see the need to stay with one girl. Then again the guys/girls I know aren't big on relationships.
- Asker
  +1 y
  because girls give up the p**** so easy now. No guy wants to be a resthaven for hoes and try to build a relationship when she's just waiting for some better d*** to jump on.
- udolipixie
  +1 y
  Lol I find it funny how a guy can think lower of a girl he had sex with but not himself. It just stands to fact that sex is not a shared experience to guys but something they do.
- Asker
  +1 y
  i'm just saying that if girls were a little more chaste maybe it'd be easier for them to find a guy that wants to commit. Not many guys want to committ to a promiscuous girl. This should not be a shock to anyone. The flip side is that no girl wants to commit to a life without great sex so in an effort to obtain great sex she gets turned out by sleeping with a bunch of guys.
- udolipixie
  +1 y
  It's not shocking that guys don't want to commit. What's shocking is how a guy can think lower of a girl he had sex with but not himself. Seems like guys value something they make excuses to not uphold themselves and to them sex is not a shared experience but something they the guys do.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Guys don't think lesser of her so much as they think she's nothing special.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Guys don't think lesser of her so much as they think she's nothing special. And why commit if she isn't special.
- udolipixie
  +1 y
  Really so slut, whore b*tch, town bike, pump & dump isn't thinking less? Still doesn't explain why they don't see themselves as nothing special or a guy worth committing to. But guys want to be accepted of all their faults without doing the same.
queenofpeen Xper 6
+1 y
I like smaller toys, actually.

My boyfriend is a bit above average, I probably couldn't handle any bigger anyway :P
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- Asker
  +1 y
  tsk tsk, and you call yourself the queen of peen? Maybe the queen of teenie weenie. Just kidding:P Thank you for your answer.
lelebear Xper 5
+1 y
A lot of toys are bigger then most men anyway at least longer anyway. I have a wide variety of toys some bigger, some smaller just depends on my mood.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  would you generally agree that the better the stretch the better the sex?
- lelebear
  +1 y
  I don't really like it too big but girth is much more important then length so yes more strech is better.
- Asker
  +1 y
  so wet yet so tight right?
dryad Xper 4
+1 y
I wonder why you're asking this question anonymous
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- Asker
  +1 y
  final answer?
- dryad
  +1 y
  No. Here's my final answer: learn to use your fingers --->
  
  link
- Asker
  +1 y
  You need to get laid.
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- dryad
  +1 y
  lalala, nice to see my rating is hitting a new low. ?You have multiple accounts or mulitiple slaves working for you? Or am I just on a Highway to Hell? (Quick note, tiny, I am having sex, NOT getting "laid" --- you know the difference? I didn't think so) No matter. You suck, along with the rest of your downgraders
- Asker
  +1 y
  em I think they're your downgraders. Count me for one but the rest are just other folks that think your comment was idiotic and a waste of everyones time.
- dryad
  +1 y
  Your brain is a waste of time. Other than that, I've a lot of enemies, which is all well and good --- the most creatives minds are detested by society, thus I accept my demise. Still, I've a right to respond to such stupidity as I'm doing now, and having fun with it, thank you very much.
- Shaun
  +1 y
  I understand the difference between having sex and making love. I'm not sure I understand the difference between having sex and getting laid, though.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Shaun no offense but it takes the (great?) mind of someone like Dryad to figure that one out. Just be glad everyone doesn't hate you like they hate her and the other great minds of the past.
- dryad
  +1 y
  Uhh, Shaun, of all people. . .you? Just tell me whether or not you downgraded me (right now all I'm interested in from your response is baseball statistics).
- dryad
  +1 y
  U-kay, Shaun. I get it now. You have a tiny weiner too, is why you downgraded me. No problem, I understand. I won't tell anybody
- Shaun
  +1 y
  I didn't downvote you.
- Shaun
  +1 y
  Wow, okay whatever.
- dryad
  +1 y
  Huh?
- dryad
  +1 y
  Okay, whatever
- Shaun
  +1 y
  Yeah, I just wanted to know what you thought the difference was between having sex and getting laid, apparently that gives you the right to say crap about me.
- LastChance
  +1 y
  Dude you are amazing for that comment. All great minds are hated by society, but honestly who gives a f***? Don't pay attention to them. Thumbs up for you!
- dryad
  +1 y
  shaun, it didn't sound like you were interested in my thoughts
- Shaun
  +1 y
  And that is your justification for the insult?
- dryad
  +1 y
  dyuhh'uh. . .I don't want to have to explain this, shaun. lastchance --- you came out of no where, no "updates", it's. . .weird. But thanks for the compliment.
- dryad
  +1 y
  Wow! -10! I think that's a new record for me. Oy, I'm famous! :D
Shaun Xper 3
+1 y
yeah ladies, just get a bigger man. XD
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I think women should consider stud sharing for purely sexual pleasure and release. That would solve the problem with the obvious shortage of talent.
- Shaun
  +1 y
  Yes, but then they'd have a harder time finding men who will love them.
- Asker
  +1 y
  True. Woman usually have to settle for the guys that will love them in exchange for the guys that will f*** the sh*t out of them. Some guys don't mind if their woman uses stunt **** now and again to get her what she really needs.
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- Shaun
  +1 y
  Yep, some guys don't mind. Most do. Most of the men who do mind still have plenty of self respect even with their average d*** and will not play second banana to anybody.
- Asker
  +1 y
  What's good for the goose is good for the gander my man. Open relationships and swinging is what its all about. Everybody gets what they want.
- Shaun
  +1 y
  Not everybody.
- Asker
  +1 y
  sure they do. Girl gets what she wants some great animal sex. Guy gets what he wants free reign to f*** all the girls he wants. This way they're both happier than just being exclusive. Happier people are easier to deal with on a daily basis don't you think.
- Shaun
  +1 y
  You left some people out there.
- Asker
  +1 y
  i was assuming that it was just sex and the 3rd parties understood this and were happy with this too.
- Shaun
  +1 y
  The men who want women who want them and not want them to f*** around wouldn't be happy. Why would you assume they would?
- Asker
  +1 y
  sure they would. They already know that they are lacking in some area and if they love their woman they want her to be satisfied. They'd prefer they could do it but know that is impossible so the next best thing is to give her the gift of love by allowing her to have the most amazing pleasure with someone else rather than to have her go through life deprived and never knowing such pleasure. Not ideal but it is making the best out of an unfortunate situation. At least in some cases.
- Shaun
  +1 y
  You're crazy. I wouldn't entertain the notion of loving a woman who wanted to go around f***ing other men. I have more self respect than that, even with my average sized d***. If she wants huge cock, she's going to have to deal with chasing huge cock, I'm nobody's backup.
- Asker
  +1 y
  good for you!
34acup Xper 6
+1 y
I would and I do regularly. I love the feeling of being stretched and filled.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  why not just get a bigger man?
- Asker
  +1 y
  If you do it regularly I bet its your man helping out am I right?
- 34acup
  +1 y
  I don't choose guys based on size... And yes, my husband does participate too:)
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- Asker
  +1 y
  You wish your man had a bigger d*** though. That's cool. Nobody's perfect I suppose.
Anonymous
+1 y
My Wife & I have been useing toy's much bigger than Me for over 25 years. It is because She can pick their ideal size for the mood She in at the time. Together 33 Years, and Still going!
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Anonymous
+1 y
indeed I would
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Anonymous
+1 y
My boyfriend is a perfect size for me. I would use a larger toy (in length) however----not to use the entire length (it probably wouldn't fit anyway), but so that have more to hold on to.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  thanks. A new twist on the reason gals like long toys:) So you wouldn't find a thicker toy more enjoyable?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Nah.