Would you want people to know you are a mlae virgin at 38?

unfortunately I never found the right girl ( meaning I never had a girlfriend either) I would like to give my virginity to. I would like the first to be someone special. besides being shy I had other problems that made my life turn out this way I certainly didn't want to go like this. Would you want people around you to know or not?
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  • the first time is supposed to be so special but usually isn't because you don't know what to expect you can read all the books and watch all the videos and p8orn you want but nothing can prepare you for how you feel ... get rid of your cherry with an escort get some experience and that will make you confident with the girls and maybe ask one out on a date and see where it goes from there ... the world does not revolve around sex all the time as much as we are led to believe ... enjoyment and pleasure comes from experience ... not just from the first time

    • I am quite sure the first time is not what you expect, but that is not the question, it is who you share it with, not how and what.

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  • Honestly no because at your age women seem to want guys with at least some experience. But hey they said Nikolai Tesla died a virgin so I guess if you can make up for it with something. I'll at admit my first time wasn't what I thought it would be and really wasn't a special for me. It kinda made me feel relieved on how not big a deal sex really is. What really mean to say it didn't really live up to all the fuss people make about it. However I'd be lying if I said I did not enjoy myself.

  • Well, it's not like I would go around and tell people that I am a 38 year-old virgin, but if someone asked me something about it, I would not mind revealing it. I am almost 22, and I am pretty sure I will stay a virgin longer than 38 years. If someone makes fun of me for it, it would not bother me. Just ignore it, and move on. Not everyone finds the right girl in their 20s.

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  • I would, under no circumstances, be a virgin at that age. If I was approaching 30 and it hadn't happened yet, I would hire an escort. Not saying there's anything wrong with you or anything. If you're saving it for the right person, do your thing.

  • dude that sucks. Personally I'd never tell anyone if I was a 38 year old virgin. Try dating sites?

    • I have tried everything possible. either nice girls but don't want anything more, or totally crazy.

  • No never. I am a virgin in my early 20's and I find it embarrassing. I am giving myself another year, if it still doesn't happen am getting an escort. Am surprised you haven't done the same.

    • that is the point that I want someone real+special, anybody can just through it away to any nobody for money .. I want to give it to someone special even if it will not last for ever, but I don't want to remember this person as a jerk I don't even know.

    • Sorry to say, but there's a reason you haven't found that special someone. Until you realize it you'll always be a virgin.

    • Yea I'm 24. And if I'm giving myself till 26. Then I might have no choice but to pay for it.