10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!

10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!

Let's start:

1.Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one’s spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

2.Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.

3.The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4.Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.

5.Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.

6.Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today’s infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.

7.The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8.Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9.Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father’s love, protection and care.

10.If you date and you don’t have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.

10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!

My conclusion is:

True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all – the love nest of marriage.

10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!

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  • Look how angry you made some women. Good for you.

    • I don't care... i'd like to make them angry so i can know the truth of each one of them 🙂

    • If they get angry it's on them. I chose to find it funny personally

    • Lol yeah it's very angry lol. Personally I'm lmao

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  • I agree 👍. Me waiting... Why so long to grow up. Kidding, I'll not even get married, tnx for info though, bye bye👋 😇😊☺

    • nobody wait for marriage. So silly we just use rubber to be safe against STDs and pregnancy that way we can enjoy great sex. Marriage is just a paper

    • To u it is

    • She's just a troll and i blocked her, by the way good morning sweet girl, did you sleep well? 😊

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  • Most of what you claim is pure fiction. Complete bullshit.

    If you want a virgin wife for religious reasons just find one like-minded and plan it together.

    Just don't go trying to force your bullshit opinions on everyone else.

    • Point well taken

    • Kill baby boomers.

    • @TheSpartan lol. Kill everyone

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  • 9 of those points are religious bullshit or just simply false

    • For you it is and for us it isen't...

    • Fact is fact, and much of what you claimed to fact simply is not.

    • For you it's not... for others it is.

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  • Virginity is important and should be given to a man she loves, before or after marriage. People shouldn't insult girls for losing it to someone they recently started dating or not dated because it's HER virginity.

    • Not insulting but it's not right... also sex should be after marriage because the man because her husband and her family ans blessed by god...

    • Each to their own beliefs

    • Anyways thanks for sharing

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  • I wish I had waited, but I thought the person loved me back (young and dumb).

    • Don't worry, it happens and people learn from their mistakes, i hope that you find your true man and be married 🙂

    • Thank you :) I already have the man I want, just got to make sure that he really wants the same and won't hurt me like the others.

    • I'm happy for you and wish for both of you the best 🙂

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  • I think this is completely bullshit. Why is that peace of meat so important? I know some people who had it like that and they regret it af. They were married and had a guy who just couldn't satisfy them. I think for a relationship it's important to be compatible in bed and in mind. Not only in mind. He might be into total other stuff than me. And I hate that it's so focused on women. Why should they stay virgin why u can do what u want? Then it should be the same for both! But as I said I don't support that idea.

    • I'm completely utterly with you on this one. If I didn't sleep with him before I married him I would be scared shitless. What if I marry a guy who doesn't ring my bell (as you say in different wording) I would feel trapped for life. (Divorce is of course a way out) If both parties in the bed are virgin I think it's a bad idea. I remember my first time. I'm very happy he was a little older and a lot more experienced

    • Preach🤙

    • Its fun cause they have this ancient belief and they encourage each other

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  • Preach it friend! I'm saving sex for marriage!

    • nobody wait for marriage. So silly we just use rubber to be safe against STDs and pregnancy that way we can enjoy great sex. Marriage is just a paper

    • I will wait till marriage. Rubber doesn't always keep pregnancy away. And if it's done out of marriage it's unbiblical and dishonouring to God. Also it means I'll never have my heart broken like many of my co-workers who have sex with multiple girls and destroy relationships. All the problems in today's society would be fixed if people too the Bible seriously.

    • Well said

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  • Great post. If only more people thought like this the world would be a better place.

    • Thanks for your kind word 🙂

    • World would be boring. No sex. Terrible. I enjoyed lots of safe sex with condoms

    • Me too. But only with condom so u get no baby or disease

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  • Interesting sir
    Good job

    10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!
    • Are you just making fun or speaking true? 🤔

    • No good writing I don't totally agree but well written take😀

    • Thanks owl girl and you don't somewhat agree because you lost your virginity before marriage and i knew it... anyways i hope that your keeping yourself for the right one and not just selling yourself cheap 😏

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  • Interesting. Not a single one of these are factually correct. Instead, they're a mix of falsehood and distortions. That's kinda sad, actually...

    • Grandpa it seems that the alzeihmer started to strike your brain

    • Your brain is too brainwashed to get alzheimers

    • @Nataliewin nobody wait for marriage. So silly we just use rubber to be safe against STDs and pregnancy that way we can enjoy great sex. Marriage is just a paper

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  • There is nothing being a virgin. Let's go over your points...

    1. So much exageration! It's just sex. Yes it can have consequences, but both sides just need some caution and responsability and everything goes well.

    2. You have to tell me what age the study group had. Having sex doesn't changes a girl. If she wasn't a social person or a good student before sex she will not become one after.

    3. I actually laughed after the first sentence. Yes they do enjoy it outside of marriage! You are delusional if you think otherwise. Assuming they are 18 they don't need to hide it, they don't need to deal with the fear of being caught, they can used a condom to avoid pregnancy and there is no reason for feelings of guilt.

    4. No it is not! The most precious thing you have to give to your spouse is your love. Why the hell is that something important. I was so happy when my fiancee told she was not a virgin when we started dating.

    5. Again, protection is a thing and it's given for free at local clinics!

    6. Again I would love to see that study and who does it include. The vast majority of people that have sex before marriage don't get infected with anything.

    7. And if their husband has AIDs? Then what? Stay virgin all your life that way you are 100% safe all the time. Condoms are stilll a thing by the way.

    8. No person on this earth can live without breaking some of them. Have you never stolen a pencil from a school buddy? Congrats you violated one already! And none of the 10 mentions that a girl must be a virgin before marriage.

    9. Birth contro exists.

    10. It's much much harder to break up because of the emotion part them because of the physical part! Sex is what is easy to get over. The good moments of partnership are the hard ones to let go.

    Now a question for you... Do guys need to wait until marriage too? I am almost guessing your answer on this.

    • It's better if guys do the same

    • I admit I was not expecting that answer. Still I lost my virginity at 16. I am 27 now. I don't have an STD, I am not a father yet, I was always a good student. All of this and, for the most part, I have been having sex for the past 11 years with some frequency. So what is your point again?

    • It's your choice, i'm not forcing you to do something that you don't want to do... i'm just showing you the right path, your free.

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  • The naïveté so thick you can cut it with a knife. Spare me your religious righteousness and come back to reality. Fact is most marriages fail, they dont fail because they held out some biologically ambiguous state of virginhood they fail because marriage is an impractical social construct completely antithetical to our biological origins and ancestrial heritage. You find a partner you’re most compatible with by hint hint sleeping with them. Sex is so simple its like riding a bike, why are you putting such a basic act on an undeserving pedestal?

    • I didn't knew that acting like a animal was so simple... good for you!

    • This is so stupid sorry.

    • @Syrian_survivor true its very stupid and very sad

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    • So? Are you dumb?

    • I should ask you this question but I'm above that.

    • Great tits. Bra is too thick

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  • TLDR but to each their own girl!!

    • I didn't understand...

  • #3 is the dumbest shit I've heard all day.

    • Amen

    • @Nataliewin yeah

    • @Tommytonight nobody wait for marriage. So silly we just use rubber to be safe against STDs and pregnancy that way we can enjoy great sex. Marriage is just a paper

  • At least be an ass (anal) virgin!

    • Why? Anal is fun when done right

    • @Nataliewin because save something for the guy that you marry... or just be a slut that gets fucked and left, no one wants community property.

    • The hoe is blocked

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  • Most of us can enjoy sex outside of marriage lol.. the only benefit i care about is from doing whatever the fck I want

    • Than do whatever the f*ck you want 😏

    • @Brazilbabe damn you look cute girl. Any chance of a threesome with a hot blonde and the boyfriend? My boyfriend has his birthday real soon and I have to find a present. I will of course pay for your flight and expenses (,.. or my dad will.. actually)

    • @Michelleshalley can I join you guys? Make it a 4-way?

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  • Lol it's funny. I imagine it is meant as a joke (I hope )

    • Same

    • Nope it's not a joke...

    • I thought so too at first but I think they are serious

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  • This Tony bologna dude is crazy. And dangerous. The way he sees the world will come to destroy many girls and their sexlife. I hope he gets back under the rock from under which he crawled from

    • Bravo

    • @Micheleshalley the stone is gone maybe? For landscaping somewhere. Is why he woke

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