10 Femdom Ideas to Dominate Your Man With

10 Femdom ideas to dominate your man with

Onto the Femdom Ideas!

1. Foot Worship — Is there anything more subservient than an adoring partner kissing or licking your shoes? No! This is especially true if you’re wearing a pair of sexy knee or thigh-high boots, and his hands or mouth can travel up your leg. Bonus if he’s too eager and you can keep him at arm’s distance — or leg’s distance — away from you. Plus, prodding, kicking or stepping is one way to literally put your foot down in this relationship!

2. Cock and Ball Bondage — Now, this sounds extreme, but it doesn’t have to be. If you’re just starting out, try a stretchy cock ring on for size. After he’s comfortable wearing that, you can carefully measure for a stone, glass or metal cock ring. Then, you can move on to the “Gates of Hell,” a metal device with multiple rings.

For the ultimate in cock and ball bondage, consider a cage, which wraps his genitals in plastic or another material and prevents him from fully growing hard. This is a great option if you know your partner has trouble listening to directions! Some are even lockable, so he can’t get out!

10 Femdom Ideas to Dominate Your Man With

3. Sissy Play — Some guys secretly love dressing up in frilly underpants, stockings, garter belters and other woman’s clothing. And others hate it. Either way, you can leverage the “sissification” of your submissive to your advantage by rewarding him with something lacy or punishing him with it! Make sure to remind him of how pretty, girly or even weak he is. If you’re aiming for punishment, you can spin those comments in a negative way, but you can praise him for rocking the look, too.

Plus, hopping for those sexy little things can be a lot of fun, and it’s different than shopping for your own body.

4. Bondage — Bondage is something that everyone should try in the bedroom at least once, and there are plenty of options when it comes to tying up your own lover. You can bind his wrists or ankles together with regular cuffs or invest in a hog tie system to bind all four together behind his back and really stretch his body out! Under-the-bed-restraints make it easy to turn your bedroom into a sexy dungeon.

Other bondage devices include gags, which prevent him from speaking, blindfolds, ankle spreads that force his legs open, and even nipple clamps.

10 Femdom Ideas to Dominate Your Man With

5. Impact Play — Whether you prefer good, old-fashioned spanking with your hand, grabbing a cane or long-tailed flogger for serious sensation or a furry paddle that provides more bark than bite, impact play is definitely something you’ll need to try at least once.

10 Femdom Ideas to Dominate Your Man With

6. Teasing — The final element that every femdom scene needs is a little teasing. Whether your lover’s bound or you’ve instructed him not to touch you, make a noise or get hard, you have got to tease him! This will push him to his limits. Teasing can take place as the lightest of touches. Consider a feather tickler if you want to barely touch his skin. You can also get close to his sensitive spots or imply that you’re going to touch him or get him off and then take it back.

Of course, many male submissive take a delicious yet painful glee by not being able to touch or taste their dommes, and masturbating in front of him might be the perfect way to tease him!

Role play FemDom Ideas

Now that you’ve got some ideas for activities and devices you can use t0 exact a little — or a lot — of pain, what kind of roles can you play that will work with femdom? Fortunately, many of the roles where a woman can be submissive also work well for a male to submit, and you can easily come up with other femdom ideas of your own.

Here are just a few scenes with dominant female roles that we love.

1. Student and Teacher — It’s easy to put this scene into action. As a the teacher, you can dress stern or just a little sexy and mete our punishment to your “student” who might be late for class, interrupt your lesson or simply talk back! You can switch up the roles by playing a sexy librarian, which provides you plenty of opportunity to dress sexy enough to make your man drool — even if he’s not allowed to touch you!

Increase the kink factor by playing a nun and Catholic school boy, complete with costumes! Of course, you’ll have plenty of fun shopping for your own costumes, too!

2. Boss and Underling — Here’s another tried and true power exchange role playing idea. As his boss, you have all the power. If you stick to the school setting, you can be the principal, but you can just as easily play like you’re alone together in the office after hours. As a bonus, you can grab anything that might naturally be in the room — a ruler, for example — to use during your sexy play.

3. Cop and Robber — This one’s an oldie but goodie. Not only do you get to combine bondage in the form of handcuffs, but you can play rough as you chase and tackle a criminal that needs to be brought to justice. Of course, if you punish him for his crimes against the world — or even just against you! — you get to play the judge and jury, too!

4. Animal Play — If you really want to try something different, then animal play might be up your alley. One common type is pony play, and you’ll find bits and harnesses, crops and even blinders that make your partner look more like a pony and experience the world like one, too. One thing fun thing you can try is a butt plug that has a ponytail attached.

You can ride him around, instruct him to crawl on all fours with your crop and even reward him with a carrot — or something more tantalizing — if he’s a good boy.

Check out your local kinky shop for similar implements for puppy or kitty play, including food and water dishes! See if you can teach him to fetch or decide if he’ll need a bit more training!

Although we’ve given you plenty of good femdom ideas to get started with, there’s room for creativity and interpretation. When you add costumes and props, there’s almost an endless list of things you can try. Remember to take baby steps when dominating your man, and you can unlock a kinky side of yourself and relationship that will keep both of you on the edge of your seat!

At the end of the day, you might get to shed submissive shackles placed on you by society, boost your confidence or make your man cum like never before!

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Teasing sounds like fun, but you forgot about wrestling.

    • Hahaha you want to wrestle me? I don't want to beat you 😂😂

    • You wouldn't be able to beat me ;)

    • Hahaha are you challenging me? I love challenges

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  • Impact play sounds like fun, as well as cop and robber.

    • What about wrestling with me 😂? Don't be afraid 😂😂 accept my challenge

    • I could do that too, no problem ;)

    • Don't worry I will not hard with you 😂😂

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  • I will try these

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  • Hmm... Yeah I'm open for any of these tbh.. I'm pretty open for most things tbh haha. I'm pretty submissive for a guy though.. I think there's some cases where I could be extremely dominant though. It just depends on the person really. But yeah I'd be open for any of this. Mostly submissive but hey there's definitely exceptions haha. Interesting MyTake! :)

    • Thanks 😊 if you have to choose any one from the above which one u choose?

  • Oh yeah! Now we're talking. Femdom! It opens up a whole new and exciting world. My favorite authors have all sorts of ideas in their work for this type of thing. Maybe others might want to read some of the Femdom, forced feminization, male chastity and denial books. Hot stuff... just like this subject.
    www.amazon.com/Barbara-Deloto/e/B00J21HWA4/

    • I love if women dominates me make me suffer make me beg 😈 and much more

    • I'll bet you'd get off on those books then. Try it baby.

    • Do you also interested in femdom 😊? Like in activities trampling, spanking, whipping, CBT etc

  • Most effective way I know of right here...

    10 Femdom Ideas to Dominate Your Man With
    • Lmao 😂 😂 Really cruel 😂 😂 lol

  • I'm personally not into male bondage, although I wouldn't mind handcuffing my boyfriend a couple times... the role plays sound fun though. You forgot little red riding hood and the big bad wolf.

    • Wow I like this Thanks for new idea i always like to try new things

  • I'm vanilla af, never tried and don't really have interest in trying this stuff

  • No... I don't want to do these things except maybe bondage and teasing. I have already teased him many times before. It was fun, lol.

    • Lmao 😂 😂 teasing really fun but torture for other person Hahaha

    • So true. That's what makes it even more enjoyable and when he can't take it anymore. He becomes like a beast and grabs me, lo

    • Lmao 😂 😂 How you tease him? May be i get some new ideas

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  • Lame. Where's any part that shows the woman ravaging the man and fucking him rough? Interesting female domination is always this. Whereas male domination has some of these things, but it's always hard fucking. How dominant is a woman doing all this teasing if at the end the dude is pile driving her and she's walking funny after? Sounds like he consensually owner her pussy. Maybe it's fun for a guy to experience getting fucked hard. Many women aren't able to do it, but some can have the stregnth, attitude and skill to do so. Women get the feeling of being ravaged. Well why does it have to be one sided and why can't a guy have that fun? A woman get the fun of a good soreness from a hard dominant pounding from the guy. Well what about, meeting a woman, with a strong pussy and positons like amazon or inverty missioary where she can really pound your cock and your dick is a bit bruised after. Now that's fun female domination. Only kind I really care about.

    The rest is fluff, but I'm just like let's cut to the chase and the real aspect of domination, the physical, animal fucking side, thrusting. Cavewoman dominance, minus the club to the head is the female domination I find hot. Or her wrestling you down. But no not interesting in being degraded, or humiliated or teased or a servant or told to do things. I'm sure as hell not dressing like a chick lol, nor worshipping feet, which feet are ugly anyway, I don't want to be whacked, I don't want possible skin infection that could come from a laceration or wound from being whipped. A woman can tease but only so much or long before I get bored and impatient and then don't want to play along unless I know she's getting right to it soon and plans to ravage me hard soon. I've seen that pony play stuff before on social media, people I know found it funny and as like a parody.

    No, not doing that stuff lol. Hey if people want to do that in their own privacy good for them. It;s just weird how so rarely female domiance is shown in the rough sex way or ravaging way. Don't tell me women aren't capable. I know it's easier for men too becaue of men being stronger, but women can, and some can do it better than others.

  • Interesting...

    • anything which u like?

    • 4, 5, 6..

    • U can be good goddess :-)

  • I find it too masculine... loool and scary

  • My guy & I used to do these a lot so many years ago. Now, we have an "additional playmate" for weekly threesomes. They both love my legs & feet which means that foot worship is already in play. I think I'll bring back those teacher/student, boss/subordinate & animal plays for the 3 (and sometimes 4) of us to enjoy.

    • Trampling my favourite

    • You sure know how to have fun

  • I like a little tease but can't get with the rest

  • I tried bondage and I liked it :)

    • Hahaha will you like to do with me? And punish me

    • Yeah, naughty boys need to be punished :P

    • Hahaha I think u really good teacher and also strict 😂😂

  • Cop cop cop cop uniform, search me for my hidden drugs

    • Hands up face towards wall hahaha I will arrest you n cuff ur hands

  • I’m the one who’s supposed to get dominated

  • that last point reminded me of this vid lmao

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o2Bm_wiRT24
    • Lmao 😂 😂

  • I'm way too submissive for these.

    • But I like ur heels 😍

  • 4 and 6 my dada

    • I love if a girl tie me

  • Lmao “dominate my man” it’ll honestly be a cold day in hell before he lets me dominate him.

    • Lmao 😂 😂

  • cool

    • Which one u like from above?

    • teasing

    • Hahaha dis is very cruel game

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  • Nice take. To be honest these things scare me more than excite me.

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