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1: Too tired
2: Headache
3: Depressed
4: Working late
4: Too much to drink
5: Low testosterone
6: Self-conscious
7: Stressed
8: Erectile dysfunction
9: Self pleasure
10: Big game
10 reasons men turn down sex
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26 52I think 5, 8, 9 are affecting more males than most own up to, especially 5 & 8. Just 1 quick blood test to check your hormones could solve a myriad of problems. 9 is a low key problem caused by too much porn, see www.nofap.com :)
I'd never turn down sex. But in the event of any of those things listed... my sex game would just extremely off XD.
I get a feeling a lot of girls believe men are sex machines (in the bad sense) and that all you need to do is flick our switch and we'll have sex with you.
Just because I get a stiffy it doesn't mean I want to have sex... I'm aroused, that's all.
I dont know any guys who'd turn down sex for a game. They'd just record over it lol.
Too much to drink? I thought they usually WANT sex when drunk
Alcohol lowers inhibitions yes, but destroys the ability to achieve an erection. No use wanting sex but not being able to deliver.
You forgot : Cheating.
My boyfriend turned down sex few times because his dick was in pain from having sex with me
I can relate... I jacked off so much I couldn't do it again for like 2 days because I was that sore. 1 is the loneliest number.
Being really full too... Sometimes me and my girlfriend get carried away making giant meals, and I just can't be bothered for a solid hour or two afterwards... She never understands, but I try to explain that I have a lot more moving to do than her!
Wait wait... men... TURN DOWN sex? No way!!
Yes they do.
Those are sucky reasons! Because I have an extremely high ass big ass fat ass sex drive !!!
Never heard a man turning down sex. But women tend to take the headache excuse a lot Lol!!!
I only turn down sex with my wife when I know I'm going to meet my lover
wow.. wtf?
You are anonymous, I believe in what you just wrote as much as I believe that i'll be Americas next president , BS!
Believe what u like, but I did exactly that within the last 24 hours
so how was ur sex with your lover?
Hot and rampant as ever!!! We don't get many opportunities, so when we do we really go for it!!!
Lol... sex with the other is awesome. I was at a swingers party and this dudes wife shagged the shit out of me in front of him. Was rock n roll.
Nice!!! Nothing wrong with a bit on the side 😉
wow, only those ten reasons? you forgot
11. has something better to do
oh wait, thats right. someone can't possibly have something better to do than sex.
Reloading/refractory period.
Temporary performance anxiety.
Domestic discord.
Illness (cold/flu, heartburn)
Worries about money.
Hypothyroid.
Overweight lethargy
Lover's restricted sexual menu.
wht u mean lover's restricted sexual menu?
He wants something either in foreplay or the main event that she won't provide.
Big game, too much work or sick of the pussy and need a new one.
All of those things are just excuses to mask the REAL reason I turned down sex with her: I'm just not feeling it for her anymore.
these are all lame (not even) excuses.
except ed and low testosterone, but those can be dealt with.
Yeah, well let me tell you this. I dealt with ED by taking Viagra. The side effect of which for me was always a massive headache. Difficult to feel sexy when are taking medicines you know will make you sick. For the rest of these, understand that erections are controlled by the autonomic (involuntary) nervous system. There is nothing I can do to make an erection happen if in the hours/days leading up to sex I have been stressed, exhausted, depressed, or sick. Now then you can say that maybe these things should be dealt with. Living a life this way is not really living at all. I'd be willing to entertain that discussion. Just not as a footnote under "why men can't get it up".
@gray_sailor sick wasn't listed.