10 Reasons Why You Should Never Cheat

10 Reasons Why You Should Not Cheat

1. It's risky when you're with a different person.

You will get caught. You will have to make up stories to cover up previous lies to the point that the lie becomes bigger and bigger. Your lie will become so big that you will fall into the Hole of Deceit, and people will never take your word for something ever again.

2. Your boyfriend/girlfriend will feel jealous of your other boyfriend/girlfriend.

Jealousy is big. Jealousy is painful. Your boyfriend/girlfriend may think of nasty things to do to you and your other boyfriend/girlfriend. If you really care about your boyfriend/girlfriend, then you would not let your boyfriend/girlfriend get into trouble, will you? But alas, such consequences will ensue when you cheat.

3. Jealousy can lead you to lose a boyfriend/girlfriend or lose all of them.

Your boyfriend/girlfriend will feel very uncomfortable around your other boyfriend/girlfriend. Your boyfriend/girlfriend's feelings may get hurt, and you may get dumped because of your choice to cheat.

10 Reasons Why You Should Never Cheat

4. Deception makes you an untrustworthy partner.

You lie to your partner about the existence of another partner. If you get caught, then your deception will just make you an untrustworthy partner. If you tell one partner that he/she is your one true love just so you can have sex with him/her, and that person finds out that you really have another partner, that person will feel used.

5. Cheating is a way for you to evade communication skills or neglect to improve your communication skills with your partner.

If you think you can find a new partner who can meet your needs better than your other partner, then that just shows that your communication is poor enough to not be able to communicate your needs to your existing partner.

6. If you are a man or a woman and allow your so-called "evolved instincts" to dictate your behavior, then you really have no self-control in your life.

People have self-control or are expected to have self-control. If you cheat because of some kind of evolutionary excuse, then that just shows you are willing to allow your biology to take control over your mind. You should exert self-control over yourself. If you do not, then you need to be medicated.

7. Revenge just causes more suffering in the world that is already full of suffering. What you should do is offer forgiveness, but do not let yourself fall into the path of the wrongdoers.

10 Reasons Why You Should Never Cheat

Sexual infidelity, or adultery, causes suffering. Revenge may bring a temporary joy of equalness, but in reality, it just makes the situation worse, because you are causing more suffering. Moreover, if you cheat as revenge, then you have reduced yourself to that of the wrongdoer, and you should be ashamed of yourself for falling to his/her level.

8. Your excuses for cheating are undebatable.

Adultery is wrong. No excuses.

9. You are a pathologically sadistic, selfish, low-life monster, if you cheat. Do not be one.

Sexual infidelity is evil. Do not support evil. Do not do evil things. Forgive people who do evil things, but condemn people who stubbornly refuse to change their evil choices.

10. You will feel bad afterwards.

You will feel regret. Regret for bad choices is normal and proves that you do have a good conscience.

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  • Apparently you didn't actually read the myTake by @sixnineanon.

    • No, I didn't.

  • I agree with most of this although point No4 "If you lie about another partner"... what about cheaters who don't get caught & don't confess of theirown free will. Whats your opinion on those people?
    Finally No9, are you saying give them another chance to change? They may never cheat again, but would you trust them ever again? Id like your opinion on these two, other than that I agree with everything else.