Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
First things first, all guys want sex out of a relationship! But some relationships are just based on sex. Here are 10 signs that your guy is only with you to get some.
1. You Never Go On A Date
You never go out in public, but only meet up to hook up.
2. He Calls or Texts At Late Hours
All booty calls happen after midnight. If you hear from him at that hour, he only has one thing on his mind.
3. He Doesn't Want A Commitment
He's not ready for a relationship, but he stays ready to have sex.
4. The Relationship Got Physical Right Away
You guys stimulate each other sexually before stimulating each other's minds.
5. You've Never Met His Friends Or Family
You don't meet anybody he's associated with outside of the bedroom unless it's on accident.
6. You Barely Know Anything About Each Other
There are no deep conversations, all communication is purely sexual or flirty.
7. No Sleepovers
He can't stay the night or you have to leave because he has to do something early in the morning.
8. He Only Compliments Your Appearance
He loves your rack, but isn't a fan of your personality or opinion on current events.
9. He's Busy When You Want To Do Something Other Then Sex
He doesn't care how your day went, but he cares if you're busy later. He can't meet you for dinner, but he can meet you for dessert.
10. All You Do Is Have Sex
When he comes over, you guys make a beeline for the bedroom. If you haven't at least spent an hour together not having sex or thinking about sex, he ONLY wants you for sex!
If you're cool with the arrangement, then by all means stay "busy," but if you're looking for something serious; run for the hills! Have you experienced any other signs that he just wants sex?
What Girls & Guys Said
22 12so true and the world is full of boys who have this agenda. they just blatantly refuse to go on dates.
R E F U S E !! They're so freaking lazy, that's why
I am often surprised by this take from women I know. Men and boys will treat you how you let them treat you. If you insist on a date, you'll get a date. If you let him booty call you at 2am, you know what you'll get too... Boys are very consistent. Yet, women seem to hope every guy they like is somehow exceptional.
I've used chicks for sex before. you're list isn't all that accurate.
Funny timing. I just finished reading a topic about "How women are superficial and personality = good looks" and now this. :D Nothing to say but "well played" to the guy for knowing what he wants and being out with it - not even hinting that he's interested in a relationship. At this point this isn't about mutual understanding, rather common sense. If she lacks it, then it's her own fault.
Well all of this is common sense
Girls who stay are naive and have a low self esteem
They also think they can change a man
Lol to the fullest
True I agree with all of it, my ex boyfriend brodie we never had intimate sex but he usually didn't want to hang out only when we were alone he put his hands up my shirt and all that shit, i told him no, then he would just get mad and stamper off and leave and not call back for weeks at a time it's quite sad but I moved to a new state and I don't have to deal with it, but all of that's pretty true and obvious people just need to pay a close eye out for this behavior
Do you have a version where the girl is only using the guy for sex :p...
Yes, but it's complicated.
Some Relationship start off from being initmate with someone. It does not always turn out that if a girl has sex with a guy a lot that it doomed. I had a relationship were it was very Physical , but we just grew tired of each other because we had nothing that we liked to do on dates. I took lots of girls on dates. woman want to know everything about us, but they get bored of us if we relieves too much about our self. I am talking about in the beginning stages of dating. So I can see having sex first is bad , but not all the time.
I would agree with this list... I spent 7 months talking with a particular uy who tried his utmost to get me to sleep with him. I knew about it and he tried so many times to do more. I told him in the end that I knew he was involved with another girl (s). He wasn't happy about this and cut me off. Several months later, I see him on a train carriage and he pretends to not see me until he steps off at his stop. Sad ending because I thought we truly hit it off... but that's life...
Then I have a few questions to ask. I have a friend with benefits.
- We talk each other about things other than sex, any other time of day. We do plan to meet up just as friends but they never fall through. Not because something came up with him, it's usually me being too busy. Am I still just a bootie call?
- He doesn't compliment me about anything. He called me sweet and pretty over a year ago but nothing else. Am I a bootie call?
- When we do have sex, he lets me stay the night, even if he has to get up early for work tomorrow. Am I a bootie call?
- I've met some of his friends, never an accidental bump into, he knows he's seeing them whilst with me. As for his family, he talks about them to me but never met them.
Ah yea... I hate it when people just do that to people. To me it's what the inside that counts.
Nothing wrong with having a lot of sex. People go on honeymoons to exotic places and they spend half the vacation in the hotel room screwing...
But I understand that if all you did was have sex it probably means you don't have any hobbies or activities you'd like to do together.
That's what honeymoons are made for. lol But obviously there were other "attractants" before the sexual attraction in long-term relationships. I think another flag is that everything is always on his terms.
The problem with the term thing is when I've asked girls what they'd like to do for a date they said that it turned them off and made me seem less masculine that I wasn't taking control. I feel like it's 50/50 on girls who want a say on something and girls who want a guy to be able to take control.
Damn... I've been fooled way too much.
LAMO!!!
Lmao. I can't say it's something I'm proud of but I didn't know it was THAT bad.