11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

- Some men are workaholics

11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

Some men go to work, do the work, and go home. This life routine leaves little or no time for dating, courtship, and sex.

- Some men are homosexual

11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

Some men are just not romantically or sexually interested in a woman, so why would they invest in the time and money to spend time with her? Obviously, they would rather be with men.

- Some men eat too much junk food and never exercise

11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

Some men eat too much junk food—processed foods, sugary foods, fatty foods. They have very little fiber and plant-based protein in their diets, and this shows in the morbid obesity. Lack of exercise, in combination with the bad diet, will lead to a deadly lifestyle. Women may not be interested in them, because fatness is unappealing.

- Some men smoke

11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

Maybe just over 20 years ago, it was perfectly normal to smoke everywhere. Now, smoking is banned in many places. Smokers suffer a huge social stigma for this habit, but they are also given resources to quit. Hopefully, this trend will lead to a 100% smoke-free population, benefiting all of us. Male smokers may not be able to attract a female companion, because the female companion may be educated enough to know better that smoking is absolutely bad for human health, and that secondhand smoking can kill.

- Some men are afraid of or hate women

11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

Some men are afraid of women. This aversion to women may exist in the form of a clinical phobia or social misogyny. The former should be treated; the latter should be punished.

- Some men are violent or have a criminal background
11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

Some men are violent and psychotic. Psychopathy and a criminal background are likely to repel women as far away as possible. Women may feel sympathy for them, but a lover? Not a chance!

- Some men have bad social skills around women
11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

Some men just don’t know how to communicate with women. They may have talked to a woman before, but they somehow cannot make the woman think that they are romantically or sexually interested in her. Instead, they are perpetually branded as “friend” instead of “lover”.

- Some men think women are a waste of time
11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

These men do not waste their time on women. Instead, they pursue other interests. Many men in history thought that women were a waste of time, so they made themselves permanently and voluntarily celibate.

- Some men are immature
11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

Some men think they are ready to pursue a relationship, because of their physical age. But their emotional maturity and inability to hold an intelligent conversation suggest otherwise. They don’t have the right mindset to think like a protective husband and father.

- Some men are too different from the women’s fathers
11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

It is common for women to compare suitors to their own fathers. Their fathers set the golden standard of what it means to be a father. If their own daddy looks a certain way, then they may expect a suitor to look a certain way. If their own daddy behaves a certain way, then they may expect a suitor to behave a certain way. Obviously, women can’t marry their own fathers, so seeking a suitor who is like their own fathers is the best possible match.

- Some men believe they are undesirable
11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

This belief is so strong that they do not even put in the effort to meet women or flirt with them. They believe that they will fail horribly or that women would reject them. To guard themselves from rejection and further damage to their self-esteem, they avoid women like the plague.

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  • I generally dislike takes like this. It can be discouraging for some.
    So lets do some debunking shall we?

    1. Workaholics? There are girls at work (Although admittedly not always the right girls, in my case they are mostly 10 years older then me). Girls can be workaholics to. If both are workaholics they can be a great match for the time they are together during the day. For example in the evening or when they both have a day off. While it may lower your chances its no reason you never get a girl.

    2. This one is quite logical. They could if they want to but generally have no desire. Not much to debunk here.

    3. Not all girls mind perfect body health. While excersising will help you get more girls its possible to get a girl that fits you even if you are overweight. There are plenty of examples out there of fat people that have loving partners.

    4. Some girls smoke, while smoking girls are an absolute avoid for me just like smoking men will be for many. The girls that do smoke won't mind and may see it as a sign of having something in common.

    5. You are probably right on this one. Still there is a small chance the right girl comes along for them and melts there fear.

    6. Totally right until the guy changes his priority's. Never say never on them, now is just not the right time.

    7. This one is nonsense. First of all i have to take offense that you once again portrait gaming as immature. Gamers can be extremely mature people who had more life experience then you do and combine it with there favorite hobby. Second of all this whole argument is bullshit. Mental age is not a factor if you get a girl or not. Its a factor which girl you get. Your always going to want a partner that fits your mental age, if she is 3 years younger or 5 years older that doesn't matter. It matters that she fits you, and there are once again plenty of girls that fit you even if your still immature because they are less mature to.

    8. Nonsense again, many different women. Many different fathers. Then there is the whole group that has had a bad past with there father and rather have there partner be nothing like him. This one is far to differencing to even take in account at all.

    I dont even have enough space for 9 in this comment. So in short guys can change, women can change guys.

    All in all i find this a very bad mytake that no guy should take to seriously.

    • Oops accidentally skipped over some i think making my counting go off. Damm scrolling! So the two i missed are the criminal one and the bad social skills one. Criminal one : Are you kidding? How many girls out there have fallen for this bad boy thinking they could change them? Something about them some find incredibly irresistible especially if they are good looking. Bad social skills with women one : This is totally me, and indeed the main reason combined with the workaholic that my love life isn't running as fast as i might want it to be. I can totally admit that and its not the reason i hate the mytake. So from experiance i know that even if you have no clue of letting a girl know you are interested, you don't always have to. Being close friends first can grow out to more and i had multiple girls fall for me because of my nice personality. So while it slows you down, don't give up or stop hoping. It won't stop girls from liking you at all.

  • lol at #2. closeted homosexual men actually have the most sex with tons of women

    • ... and sometimes even non-closeted ones, too. (I've known women who look at *openly* gay men as a "challenge"... LOL)

    • @redeyemindtricks loool, and they still want us to believe that women are more mature

    • @mikemx55 hey, dude, the success rate isn't 0 percent. apparently, this "strategy" sometimes succeeds. ::shrugs:: I don't know whether the resulting hook-ups actually involve erections, but, there are plenty of ways to copulate without an erection, so, whatevs

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  • Is this serious? Anyone could be these things and not get sex. And then you have women who still have sex with guys like these anyway. It just seems more like you're encouraging that kind of thinking that so many guys are already knee-deep in.

    • half of these things listed aren't the reason. a guy could have all sorts of problems and would still find a woman so long as he's confident, social and somewhat attractive.

    • @inverted Yeah, exactly what I mean.

    • Well admittedly the fat one is a bit difficult but there are also fat women out there.

  • Some of this a a little silly. Other than the homosexual one, every type of guy you described is bound to find some women they can be with. They may just have to lower their standards. But I agree that all of these are detriments to success with women.

  • interesting take

  • I disagree on the smoking one. With the right cigar, I can attract almost any woman. It exudes an aurora of class and sophistication, making one look aristocratic. A great conversation starter.

    Your last point however could not be more true. I used to be one of those guys. I never thought I would even have a chance. But after forcing myself out of my shell, I learned that I am more attractive than I give myself credit for. And my confidence is increasing.

    • cigars are gross... smoke pot instead =)

  • ** women do not want a suitor of their fathers ONLY if they had a good daughter-father relationship. Same goes for men and their mothers. Before trying to impress someone find out how much they appreciate their opposite sex parent.

    • Yeah.. I think mom son thing isn't put in light as much as the daughter-dad thing. I kinda accept that i like girls with my moms characteristics... Not sure about the physical part though.. I really dont want to compare... Kinda creepy

    • @slimstiffy It is creepy to think this way haha But it is only to a subconcious level and really subtle like you might prefer girls with the same eye color for exemple, but it's not necessarily to be physical anyway In my country mom-son relationship is put in light the same way if not more than daughter-dad and girls are usually trying to befriend their bf's moms often not succeding haha

    • Yeah i guess its subcinscious. Haha.. Lol i imagined the not succeeding part. Moms can have high standards for they daughter in laws. Just like dads for their daughter in laws

  • many men are ruined by society and womens expectations

    • Seems like guys need a list of things just to get someone interested in them.

    • @Touglyforfemales I feel you it was rough before I became disabled now I only get approached on one occasion and I pass on those

    • @onikage I never get approached

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  • The worst one all is the last point listed; if the guy thinks in his head he is undesirable, he is doomed from the start!

    Whenever I see a question asked by a guy on GaG about advice about how to get a woman (and never has gotten one), the advice I give is always the same. Think positive about yourself and dwell on your positive traits, and accepting your flaws that make you human.

    Dress in a way that makes you feel good and suits your body, keep hygiene at A+ level with no exceptions. Once he believes he is a catch, then things will turn around.

    • Usually things turn so much around, that it's a 360 degree turn. You fool yourself that you turned around, but in reality, you're still facing the same way.

    • this is good advice for everyone!

    • @mikemx55 yes he might turn a full 360° if he acts like a Mega douchebag. If he keeps his kind heart intact in the center, yet look better and be more aggressive with women, it will be a 180° turn. 8-)

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  • That's so extreme. Smokers have more chances to have sex with a woman than non-smokers.

    The other kind of guys have less chances to have sex with a woman, but it doesn't mean they will never have it.

  • I agree with some of these but I disagree with 1, 3, and 4
    1. My dad is a Workaholic yet he made me... So he's had sex before (gross to think about) 3. One of my close male friend is very unhealthy and hardly exercises, yet he has a girlfriend and has had sex with her. 4. I know a bunch of people who smoke and can still get laid.

    • The smoke shouldn't be on the list, cause a LoT of women also smoke, and since there are places designed for smokers, it's also a way of meeting people with the same interests there. Unless people see women smoking as cool, and men smoking as stupid and unhealthy..

    • @mikemx55 exactly...

  • You are wrong. Playing pc games doesn't make you immature. Also, having sex with women is not a prize. Dudes, you should stay away from women having such a mentality.

  • Thanks for the insight

  • So the poster considers that men who choose to not offer themselves as disposable economic support units and worker drones in the service of women are engaging in deviant behaviour that can be "treated", as she put it.
    I point readers in the direction of this brief video about an article titled The Sexodus, which was written by Milo Yiannopoulos.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwPFnvniA7w
  • Lol can't get a girlfriend coz you smoke. I've had plenty of women in my life and I've smoked since i was young amd i was a violent bastard and a criminal when i was younger. Women love that. Unless theyve got sheltered lives of course

  • Good take to induce some reflection.

  • im five of those and i have no problem getting women.

  • - Some men are too different from the women’s fathers
    What if the father was cruel immature etc? Do they want a suitor for that too? I don't really think the father theory is right.

    • Did you see the modifier?

    • Modifier?

    • SOME men

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  • This is a good list of things to make sure you're not
    good take!

  • The #1 has to be bad social skills. I try to help guys sometimes but it can be too tough. they just dont know how to act around girls or they act in ways that get them rejected.

    • The number is misleading. I didn't intend to rate in any particular order.

    • oh. ok.. I just thnk poor social skills is the worst for guys.

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