11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman
Anonymous
- Some men are workaholics
Some men go to work, do the work, and go home. This life routine leaves little or no time for dating, courtship, and sex.
- Some men are homosexual
Some men are just not romantically or sexually interested in a woman, so why would they invest in the time and money to spend time with her? Obviously, they would rather be with men.
- Some men eat too much junk food and never exercise
Some men eat too much junk food—processed foods, sugary foods, fatty foods. They have very little fiber and plant-based protein in their diets, and this shows in the morbid obesity. Lack of exercise, in combination with the bad diet, will lead to a deadly lifestyle. Women may not be interested in them, because fatness is unappealing.
- Some men smoke
Maybe just over 20 years ago, it was perfectly normal to smoke everywhere. Now, smoking is banned in many places. Smokers suffer a huge social stigma for this habit, but they are also given resources to quit. Hopefully, this trend will lead to a 100% smoke-free population, benefiting all of us. Male smokers may not be able to attract a female companion, because the female companion may be educated enough to know better that smoking is absolutely bad for human health, and that secondhand smoking can kill.
- Some men are afraid of or hate women
Some men are afraid of women. This aversion to women may exist in the form of a clinical phobia or social misogyny. The former should be treated; the latter should be punished.
- Some men are violent or have a criminal background
Some men are violent and psychotic. Psychopathy and a criminal background are likely to repel women as far away as possible. Women may feel sympathy for them, but a lover? Not a chance!
- Some men have bad social skills around women
Some men just don’t know how to communicate with women. They may have talked to a woman before, but they somehow cannot make the woman think that they are romantically or sexually interested in her. Instead, they are perpetually branded as “friend” instead of “lover”.
- Some men think women are a waste of time
These men do not waste their time on women. Instead, they pursue other interests. Many men in history thought that women were a waste of time, so they made themselves permanently and voluntarily celibate.
- Some men are immature
Some men think they are ready to pursue a relationship, because of their physical age. But their emotional maturity and inability to hold an intelligent conversation suggest otherwise. They don’t have the right mindset to think like a protective husband and father.
- Some men are too different from the women’s fathers
It is common for women to compare suitors to their own fathers. Their fathers set the golden standard of what it means to be a father. If their own daddy looks a certain way, then they may expect a suitor to look a certain way. If their own daddy behaves a certain way, then they may expect a suitor to behave a certain way. Obviously, women can’t marry their own fathers, so seeking a suitor who is like their own fathers is the best possible match.
- Some men believe they are undesirable
This belief is so strong that they do not even put in the effort to meet women or flirt with them. They believe that they will fail horribly or that women would reject them. To guard themselves from rejection and further damage to their self-esteem, they avoid women like the plague.
What's wrong with not having sex? Sex isn't everything.
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CompleteStranger1234Xper 3
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I have...
Some mix of phobia and hatred (although I'm not sure how both of these can be true at the same time)... And this sometimes goes away after a little alcohol...
Psychotic and criminal record... Oh well...
Bad social skills around them... But to be fair, my social skills are pretty bad around anyone...
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TouglyforfemalesXper 7
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Well let's see. 1) I'm really ugly
2) Im fat no obese
3) Im not hung like a horse
4) I have no car
5) I have few very friends
6) Im ugly
7) Im obese
Yeah thats sounds about right.
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SupersaiyenXper 4
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I have no clue because most people think I am in my thirties when I am twenty two. I got compliments all the time. I would say that I do smoke but that accounts for both parties and there are plenty of women who smoke and are not trash.
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Bipolarjew02015Xper 6
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I have horrible social skills with women because I'm an introvert
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naturaldeven4Xper 4
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doesn't make sense
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RedPillBluePillXper 3
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So let me guess it's never the woman's fault? Funny how in every situation women try to play the role of innocence, and try to blame the guy for everything. It's never their fault, of course not. Some woman are so fucking stupid, and so difficult to deal with, and understand that maybe that's the reason why? Why dont you add that one to your idiotic, one side argument?
Oh, and believe it or not, there are actually men out their seeking for something more than just sex from women. Some are actually looking for companionship, a decent woman they can build a long lasting relationship with, but that quality of woman seem to have cease to exist. All we're left with are supreme feminist that think they're entitled to a man's balls.
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TaliemDaWreckaXper 2
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11. Is def me
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Anonymous
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You forgot "some women are judgmental and reject any man that doesn't look like Brad Pitt in his prime."
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Anonymous
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I guess I agree with the list for the most part; however, I think parts of the list can simply be byproducts of having bad experiences with women. For instance, I personally am considering going MGTOW (and maybe I'm losing my mind, but it's a consideration) because I've been treated like shit by women I go to school with. I've been rejected countless times because I was raised to treat women with respect and be nice, but that gets you treated with little to no respect in return. As a result, my confidence with women has been shattered as I'm constantly laughed at, considered "only a friend" and so forth. If you enter the game confident, and get shot down countless times, how the hell are you supposed to remain positive? At some point of course you are going to start putting in less and less effort and focus more on your job and things that actually make you happy, rather than entering a game you have never won and believe you never will win. I'm starting to personally believe that love and sex just isn't worth the emotional destruction on the way to it. I'm extremely frustrated and would really enjoy being able to love a woman who loves me, but it just doesn't seem in the cards for me. So the plan is to become a stem cell researcher, hopefully find the cure for cancer and save millions of lives and make some $$, and travel the world and play as much golf as I can before I die. I'd die a happy man if all that comes true, no woman or sex required! That's just my two cents. Like I said, maybe I'm losing my mind because of the awful experiences I've had, but this is how I feel now. I've changed a lot over the last six years or so
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Anonymous
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Sad but true, in my case, it's a combination of bad social skills and beleiving I'm undesirable, plus I'm very shy and lack self-confidence.
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Anonymous
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So I have 3 of these on this list
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Anonymous
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I am the last one for the most part
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Anonymous
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If there is a reason i never got a girlfriend, it is probably this "Some men have bad social skills around women". I somehow get girls who i have no interest in to like me, while the one i'm interested in doesn't.
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Anonymous
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If this take had included the number 1 reason why some guys will never have sex with a woman it would have been the women's choice. She wants the tough guy, the bad guy, she wants the popular guy, she wants the rich guy, she wants anything but a good guy. Then when she gets the guy she wants she complains and complains and things don't end well.
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Anonymous
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im both a firm believer in my undesirability, and i also have poor social skills.
but, in the part of guys having poor social skills around women, you say that the issue is that they don't know how to show interest. i say the issue is, rather, that due to their (our) poor social skills, no woman would be interested in us, and us showing interest would trigger a reaction like "ugh another loser" or similar. then again im so convinced of my undesirability, it may be biasing a bit my expectations. oh well.
other than that, good take i guess.
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Anonymous
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This post assumes women are always worth the trouble.
Time for some honest introspection.
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Anonymous
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I know understand the workaholic all to well feeling we have to do more to live up to expectations. I still feel guilty for playing sports and occasionally going out during my degree or going on the one ski trip the things that lead to the few hookups which is the closest I got to a proper relationship. there's this feeling that If you don't have a big pay check you failed I can't shake it and I feel like i've failed even if it's not what I value beyond of course basic financial stability.
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Opinion Owner
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Should have worked harder didn't get the class required didn't learn enough of X. Many of us are actively pushed to become workaholics and our love lives and health often suffer miserably from it.
Anonymous
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The sone men being undesirable hit home for me in a lot of ways, I'm helping myself by bettering my self esteem and taking risks and changing this by doing activities and exercise
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15 72Well. I guess I'll never have sex with a woman :(
What's wrong with not having sex? Sex isn't everything.
I have...
Some mix of phobia and hatred (although I'm not sure how both of these can be true at the same time)... And this sometimes goes away after a little alcohol...
Psychotic and criminal record... Oh well...
Bad social skills around them... But to be fair, my social skills are pretty bad around anyone...
Well let's see.
1) I'm really ugly
2) Im fat no obese
3) Im not hung like a horse
4) I have no car
5) I have few very friends
6) Im ugly
7) Im obese
Yeah thats sounds about right.
I have no clue because most people think I am in my thirties when I am twenty two. I got compliments all the time. I would say that I do smoke but that accounts for both parties and there are plenty of women who smoke and are not trash.
I have horrible social skills with women because I'm an introvert
doesn't make sense
So let me guess it's never the woman's fault? Funny how in every situation women try to play the role of innocence, and try to blame the guy for everything. It's never their fault, of course not. Some woman are so fucking stupid, and so difficult to deal with, and understand that maybe that's the reason why? Why dont you add that one to your idiotic, one side argument?
Oh, and believe it or not, there are actually men out their seeking for something more than just sex from women. Some are actually looking for companionship, a decent woman they can build a long lasting relationship with, but that quality of woman seem to have cease to exist. All we're left with are supreme feminist that think they're entitled to a man's balls.
11. Is def me
You forgot "some women are judgmental and reject any man that doesn't look like Brad Pitt in his prime."
I guess I agree with the list for the most part; however, I think parts of the list can simply be byproducts of having bad experiences with women. For instance, I personally am considering going MGTOW (and maybe I'm losing my mind, but it's a consideration) because I've been treated like shit by women I go to school with. I've been rejected countless times because I was raised to treat women with respect and be nice, but that gets you treated with little to no respect in return. As a result, my confidence with women has been shattered as I'm constantly laughed at, considered "only a friend" and so forth. If you enter the game confident, and get shot down countless times, how the hell are you supposed to remain positive? At some point of course you are going to start putting in less and less effort and focus more on your job and things that actually make you happy, rather than entering a game you have never won and believe you never will win. I'm starting to personally believe that love and sex just isn't worth the emotional destruction on the way to it. I'm extremely frustrated and would really enjoy being able to love a woman who loves me, but it just doesn't seem in the cards for me. So the plan is to become a stem cell researcher, hopefully find the cure for cancer and save millions of lives and make some $$, and travel the world and play as much golf as I can before I die. I'd die a happy man if all that comes true, no woman or sex required! That's just my two cents. Like I said, maybe I'm losing my mind because of the awful experiences I've had, but this is how I feel now. I've changed a lot over the last six years or so
Sad but true, in my case, it's a combination of bad social skills and beleiving I'm undesirable, plus I'm very shy and lack self-confidence.
So I have 3 of these on this list
I am the last one for the most part
If there is a reason i never got a girlfriend, it is probably this "Some men have bad social skills around women". I somehow get girls who i have no interest in to like me, while the one i'm interested in doesn't.
If this take had included the number 1 reason why some guys will never have sex with a woman it would have been the women's choice. She wants the tough guy, the bad guy, she wants the popular guy, she wants the rich guy, she wants anything but a good guy. Then when she gets the guy she wants she complains and complains and things don't end well.
im both a firm believer in my undesirability, and i also have poor social skills.
but, in the part of guys having poor social skills around women, you say that the issue is that they don't know how to show interest. i say the issue is, rather, that due to their (our) poor social skills, no woman would be interested in us, and us showing interest would trigger a reaction like "ugh another loser" or similar. then again im so convinced of my undesirability, it may be biasing a bit my expectations. oh well.
other than that, good take i guess.
This post assumes women are always worth the trouble.
Time for some honest introspection.
I know understand the workaholic all to well feeling we have to do more to live up to expectations.
I still feel guilty for playing sports and occasionally going out during my degree or going on the one ski trip the things that lead to the few hookups which is the closest I got to a proper relationship. there's this feeling that If you don't have a big pay check you failed I can't shake it and I feel like i've failed even if it's not what I value beyond of course basic financial stability.
Should have worked harder didn't get the class required didn't learn enough of X. Many of us are actively pushed to become workaholics and our love lives and health often suffer miserably from it.
The sone men being undesirable hit home for me in a lot of ways, I'm helping myself by bettering my self esteem and taking risks and changing this by doing activities and exercise