1. Being compared to an ex
Clear sign that they are not over that person.
2. Helplessness
There is being stupid and there are the people who lack the motivation entirely to help themselves solve a problem and expect all the solutions to be handed out.
3. Needing to tear others down to feel better about themselves
Going out of your way to make fun and laugh at people's faults (whether or not it's behind their backs) is just petty and childish.
4. Lack of Independence
Just because we're in a relationship doesn't mean you need to stop doing things on your own. Chase your passion, continue your hobbies, go out with your friends, listen to music you actually like...if I wanted to live the exact same life as someone, I just wouldn't bother dating. I like that we have our differences.
5. Unable to be accountable for their own Mistakes
Life hits us with some harsh shit, doesn't mean we can't deal with it like adults and move on. STOP PLAYING THE VICTIM. You don't have a job because you're not looking for one. You didn't graduate school because you didn't want to. Your friends hate hanging out with you, because you're a horrible friend. Own up to it.
6. Being overly Negative
If you're a positive person, everyone around you will show that same positive energy...if you're negative all the time, you just suck the joy out of life for everyone.
7. Pathological Liar
Doesn't need much explanation, people don't like being lied to. It's dishonest.
8. Humor Incompatibility
We all have our own sense of humor and whether you realized this or not...not everyone will find you funny. I don't think I could be with a girl who didn't get sarcasm but that's just me.
9. Lack of Communication
No need to be a Stage 1 Clinger but communication is very important in relationships, it's how we grow as people, how we figure out our likes and dislikes and get to know our partner.
10. Being Rude to People trying to do their job
How people treat others is a huge indicator of their character. Belittling a waiter because your food is touching is just a dick move. Their lives are hard enough without your first world problems being piled on.
11. Bad Hygiene
Don't need to go in on this, it's a basic concept...keep yourself clean.
12. Sexual Incompatibility
If your idea of rough, out of this world sex is just me thrusting faster then we're probably not going last long. I know what I'm into sexually (Not Diaper Fetish Guy Kinky...that's right I see your questions on here) and I need someone who can not only handle that side to me but also love every bit of it.
13. Constantly Checking your phone
Believe me you're not that important to be on your phone 24/7. Your followers on Instagram aren't constantly refreshing their feed so they can be first to leave a like when you post a new selfie.
What Girls & Guys Said
14 21There's no dealbreaker for a gymnastics girl.
lmfao
I aspire to be all of these.
I am anti hero
Lmfao
@Puppylove94 bitches love anti heroes
You know girls love bad boys who don't follow the rules ;)
@zorro8888 bet you like that too😜
8 - yeah, I shouldn't have lit that bag of dog poo on her porch...
Good Take
I agree. Drugs is another turn off to me.
Did you know that some people's idea of humor is #10, it's all in the delivery (joking), and we need some negativity in the world to counter all the positive vibes out there. Number 9 is a complete killer... even some communication is better than none and 4 should go so far as to include each of you having your own separate source of funds for your personal enjoyment; the old mine, yours and ours saying. Most of this though is just a reflection of society today, you could label it cultural evolution or devolving is more like it.
Lying , lack of communication , how they treat others are key points for me but hygiene is definitely at the top of the list
WOW ! Did you ever get it right ! Well done.
TO BAD YOUR NOT ONE
Am currently wondering whether a humour incompatibility issue alone is a deal breaker.
Spot on
Well said. A huge difference in personalities. Extreme introverts drive extroverts crazy and vice versa. Morning people and night people can also do it.
14. She must smoke
15. She must do drugs
16. She must have kids
must not*