18+ A awkward swimsuit problem with bf?

Ciff notes. Favorite pair of boyfriend swim shorts turn a little see through when wet. He didn't know until after he wore them but he not embarrassed because he well endowed. I hate when guys when guys wear boxers under swim trunks because I think it looks unfashionable and unconfident. Im torn. Should I have him get rid of them? Just have him wear them with boxers 🙃? Or say fuck it and let him wear them around our friend group (there are no kids and one drunk guy usually pees in public so a penis isn't shocking.)? Also he cool with me making the decision cause he wants me to be comfortable
Longer story : me and my boyfriend favorite pair or swimshorts tend to turn a little sheer. Only the parts they cling too but he well endowed and it's always clinging to his D when it's wet. I recently got over jealousy issues with me being over protective of his outline because he well endowed and it tends to always show and I figure he only wears them around me so what could happen. However I'm torn on this. He already said he would get rid of them if I want because he wants me to be comfortable and woudnt want my nips to be on display but I do like how they look on him a lot so I don't know. He mostly wear swim suits to our friends house who has a pool and jaquizze. Everyone already knows he well endowed because his friends seen it in the locker room and won't shut up about it 🙃. So part of me whats to say fuck it the groups already knows he big and I'm always with him so a girl won't try anything. I also hate the look of underwear underswim suits because I thinks it's unfashionable and portrays a unconfident look. Also at this party one drunk guy usually whips out his dick so it's not like the group would be disturbed by a little glimpse. So should I say fuck it and just have them wear them? there sexy AF on him and I'm trying hard to get over my own jealousy and insecurities with him and I want to portray that I trust him. What would you do? Trash, keep, underwear?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • keep them..

    let it be shown off to your gfs so they know you are getting a big yummy penis and they will be envious of you and your man!!

    He is getting a thrill and probably aroused knowing his manhood is on display and you personally, should be more demonstrative around him in front of your friends..

    I would sit on his lap, wiggle around on his D to show just how yummy it is and how much you love it.

    When "no one" is looking, i would snuggle with him and stroke it to make sure it is in total boner mode so it shows just how magnificent it is and IT IS YOURS!

    He obviously enjoys the attn he gets and tbh, a guy with a big D is a nice thing to see if I am one of the other gfs there... I usually will want to be romantic with my man while we are there and even have to "disappear" for a short while to recompose myself...

    • Haha I'm sire he would love that but I'm not sure if I'm confident enough to give everyone the view thanks for ur input tho

    • well, that why you need to excuse yourself to the bathroom, he comes in a few mins later, and it is your job to "reduce" his bulge so it stops showing... whether that means a bj or sex in the bathroom, go for it girl!! I would... and it will really improve your romantic relationship with your man! men love adventurous women and spontaneity is a big way to do that !! (I have had oral and sex in Macy's dressing room.. wow..)

    • Do u think he should be okay with showing me off to then?

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  • I'm a nudist.

    If he is around the people you describe, and no one objects, all is well :)

    OUT OF THE SHADOWS - The History of American Nudism

    • Oh lmao so I guess u would t care at all haha thanks for the opinion 😁

    • You're welcome :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Having had this problem myself, it's likely the shorts. Usually the thinner the fabric the more it "hugs" parts of you. The shorts I have now have a nice thicker inner lining that mitigates that sort of thing

    • Yea I kinda realize that but there my favorite pair of shorts on him when dry so I don't know what to do

    • I'm sure you can find a similar style. I had a favorite pair of Calvin Klein shorts but I guess they were made for dudes hung like hamsters because it's very thin and leaves little to the imagination. The one I have now is from REI and similar looking but a bit thicker

    • Hmm alright il look into that brand thank u ☺️

  • Normally I would say get a new swim suit. But if everybody is OK with him wearing the one he has, then it doesn't much matter. But, is everyone really OK with it, or just being polite?

    • I know the group woudnt care. Half the time the ask him to take his out when there drunk because there low key obsessed with his size but he always says no

    • just: Then just leave things the way they are.

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  • Keep

  • Maybe you shold flaunt him in the suit and be like look what I have and he's all Mine
    Òr you'll be plaing with my Claws

  • He has no problem with it, and as much as I understand why you have a problem with it, I’d still let him wear it. Maybe this is the first step you can take to get rid of your jealousy and own insecurities.

    • I just wanted other girl opinions. Because I don't know if it look bad letting him wear it. I mean until he u clings it u can see his dick basically even see the color change in the circumsision line

    • Yeah I understand what you mean. Still, if he doesn’t have an issue with it, I don’t see a problem either. If he was unaware of it it would’ve been a different story though 😂

    • We were unaware at first 😂😂 we both were like oh shit u can see all of it. However he laughed it off good like I said he not insecure. However do u think I should worry that he so ok with others seeing his junk?

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  • First off, guys who wear swim trunks don't wear boxers underneath. Nice try at trolling though.

    18+ A awkward swimsuit problem with bf?
  • Just add boxers.

    • Haha I'm surprised ur the first one to say that

  • Don’t push your insecurities on him. That weakens a relationship. Instead trust him enough to be flaunt what he’s got but remain loyal and politely decline onlookers and approaches and still come to you at the end of the day.

    • Yea that what I want to do but don't u think it can be a little awkward having all ur girlfriend see ur man junk?

    • It’s the same as all his male friends seeing how big your breasts are in a bikini. I personally wouldn’t feel effected by it but if it bothers you that much then you should discuss this with your boyfriend so there’s no animosity between you too over this.

    • Hmm ok I have some good points thank u a lot 🙂

  • With you being honest about having so jealousy surrounding your partner. I think it’s best avoid any issue and just get another bathing suit.

    • Hmm yea we been good lately woudnt want any stupid issues

    • Would something like that personally bother u?

    • Personally I wouldn’t want it on display. Not because of being worried he might receive positive attention but because I don’t really find flashing ( or nearly to it) very attractive. It would turn me off if they wanted to try and show off in that way

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  • Buy new ones if it makes you uncomfortable, only do what is food for your relationship.

    • Hmm ok thank u. by the way I ove expression 😊

    • Hey my profile here might be dirty but that is to let off steam, allows me to stay loyal to my guy, he is happier with this then cheating so.

    • Oh tbh I didn't know ur profile was dirty 😳 I just liked the only do what is food for the relationship part of the advice

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  • Go for it. Though make him stop if he starts paying attention to other women more so than you. Or wears them away from you.

  • Let him wear them. He clearly isn't ashamed of his gift so you might as well show it off knowing you're the only one who gets it! So if you had a top that did the same thing how would he react to it?

    • He already told me he woudnt want all his friends seeing my nipples which is why he cool with throwing them away or wearing underwear if u want him to. I just don't know cause I like the shorts and want to show my faith in him but at the same time that's my D u know 😂

  • Let him wear them. If people see the outline of his dick through his trunks, it'll be tasteful but sexy. Not like he's naked or anything.

    • What happens if it's a little more then an outline? He tan so when there wet u can see the color tbh u can kinda see the whole thing but then he will uncling his shorts ans it go away. Is that still sexy but tasteful?

    • Just tell him to uncling his shorts when he gets out of the water. You don't want people to see literally everything.

    • Hmm ok I will do and he always does bug there is like 1 or 2 seconds were his d is on display. I'll count u as the let him wear them. Thank u 😁

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  • Let him wear them and enjoy the view

  • I think you might be obsessing and overthinking over small little issues

    • Haha sorry I just wanted other girls input

  • This shouldn't be an issue. Wearing underwear under a swimsuit is ridiculous. A swimsuit is going to show outlines of a guy's anatomy when it's wet and clinging to his body. It is what it is.

    • Yea I'm not talking about the outline I'm talking about how it turns a bit sheer. Like u can see the color change on his cumircumsion line

  • Keep them I guess?
    I used to love when my girlfriend would get jealous at the beach.
    She would purposely sit up and rub my legs or put her arm over me if other women were sitting by us and my outline was showing.
    It turns me on.

  • Go to a nude beach. Problem solved :)

  • All that story for a swimsuit? OMFG

  • Keep them! My boyfriend has a pair that show a little too much but I think it’s hot.

    • Hmm ok I think it got too I just get akttle jealous when I realize other girls are string at it a little to long 😅

    • Make out with him in front of them. Lol girls always look away when I do it to my so.

    • Lmao but then hell hey hard and they would really have a show 😂😂😂

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  • It's his bathing suit, he gets to decide if he wears it.

    • He already told me to choose. Yes we're adults who make our own decisions but we're partners so we try to help each other feel comfortable and regularly put decisions in the other hand ok

  • Keep and continue working through your insecurities.

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