18+ ADULTS ONLY: For those who’ve had threesome with a Significant Other (SO), was there any jealousy & did you have other threesomes w the same SO?

Note: If you’ve had a threesome w more than one SO and there was the same jealousy/threesome outcome with each of the SOs then select either A, B, C, or D.

If you’ve had a threesome w more than one SO and there were different jealousy/threesome outcomes w your SOs then select E.
A - I & my SO did NOT get jealous, but we did NOT do a threesome again
Vote A
B - I & my SO did NOT get jealous, and we DID do a threesome again
Vote B
C - I and/or my SO DID get jealous, and we did NOT do a threesome again
Vote C
D - I and/or my SO DID get jealous, but we DID do a threesome again
Vote D
E - Other — I have done threesomes w more than one SO, and there were different jealousy/threesome outcomes w my SOs (see my Opinion comments for the details)
Vote E
F - Other — I have NOT done a threesome w a SO, and I am NOT open to doing a threesome w a SO
Vote F
G - Other — I have NOT done a threesome w a SO, but I AM open to doing a threesome w a SO
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I've only done threesomes in one relationship (current one) and only mfm, with the same guest each time. I think I'd be jealous if we tried fmf, though.

    • Who is the other guy—a friend of yours? And why would you get jealous in a FMF?

    • No, he's a friend of my man's, although I suppose you could call him a friend of ours these days, lol I don't like the idea of my man touching another girl. Insecurity, jealousy, I know, I know. But it is what it is.

    • His friend—ok. Was the threesome his idea? And did he pick that guy, or did he ask you who you wanted the other guy to be?

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  • I never have. I’m open to mfm but my SO is not. You?

    • Thank you for providing comments and asking me my opinion. I also have never had a threesome and would be open to it (and also “swinging”) w a SO… But only if we had good communication & trusted/felt secure w each other. And both of us would have to be turned on by the idea of having a third w us (or swinging w others).

    • Regarding threesomes in general, I think that ahead of the threesome happening the “odd person out” in the threesome should be turned on by the idea of seeing their SO w the third person, and if they’re not and/or insecure about the idea then the threesome should NOT be undertaken... Why is your SO not open to it?

    • Makes sense. A lot of things run through his mind. He’s insecure about it, doesn’t think he would like it, afraid I might like the other dick better than his. Those sorts of things.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yeah I was kind of jealous the first time

    • Were you jealous just after the threesome or during it too, and was the threesome w another guy?

    • Mainly after and yeah it was with another guy

    • Was the other guy a friend of yours? And was the jealousy because you were concerned that she enjoyed him more than you, and/or were you worried at all that you could lose her? Also: was the follow-on threesome (s) w the same other guy or a different one, or w a woman?

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  • My SO is never there when it happens.

    • So you have threesomes, just not with your guy…Has he ever wanted to participate or watch?

    • He doesn't want to be there.

  • B. Me and my boyfriend at the time did not get jealous and we had more threesomes

    • That’s so great. Who would you say enjoyed the threesomes more—you or him? And what type/s of threesomes did you have w your bf—FFM and/or FMF, MFM, MMF?

    • I think I definitely enjoyed it more but he said he thought it was hot. We did MFM and FFM threesomes.

    • Why did you enjoy them more than him? …Because in BOTH of those types of threesomes you got “double the fun/attention AND/OR you are more adventurous/comfortable w threesomes than he is?

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  • we do many 3somes

    • Ok. Was the threesome idea his or yours? And how long after you were going out was the subject brought up?

    • I think it was a joint idea, we were talking about fantasy. I had the fantasy to do it with a girl, he had the FFM fantasy. So we decided to go for 3some as it would do both fantasies at the same time. It was 3 or 4 month after we first met

  • Yes, but we like doing it

    • Which answer-option letter did you select in the poll for this question?

  • Never done it. Never going to do it