18+ ADULTS ONLY: Have you ever had strap-on sex?

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Reference article: https://www.self.com/story/how-to-use-a-strap-on

Note: A strap-on dildo (also [known as a] strap-on) is a dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, during sexual activity.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strap-on_dildo

A - NO — I have NEVER had strap on-sex w anyone, AND I DON’T ever want to have strap-on sex
Vote A
B - NO — I have NEVER had strap on-sex w anyone, BUT I MIGHT want to have strap-on sex with someone of the SAME gender one day
Vote B
C - NO — I have NEVER had strap on-sex w anyone, BUT I MIGHT want to have strap-on sex with someone of the DIFFERENT gender one day
Vote C
D - Both B & C are true for me
Vote D
E - Yes — I’ve had (given and/or received) strap-on sex with someone of the SAME gender as me
Vote E
F - Yes — I’ve had (given and/or received) strap-on sex w someone of the DIFFERENT gender as me
Vote F
G - Both E & F are true for me
Vote G
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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Updates:
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UPDATE 1 - FYI: Someone who had seen this public GAG question asked me in pm whether I've had strap-on sex before…No I haven’t—anal (giving & receiving) doesn’t appeal to me at all. I was chatting w a woman in pm and she said she is a “sexual bi” and one of the questions I asked her was if she had used a strap-on, and this is what inspired me to post this question on the public side of GAG.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No. At one point, I suggested it- I'd begun having some minor ED issues and it seemed to be getting worse, so I asked if she wanted me to get one so I'd still be able to give her penetration if she wanted it, but she said it wasn't necessary.

    I think she was surprised that I offered, but I 1. wanted to get out ahead of the issue, since our sex life was otherwise fantastic and I wanted to keep it that way, and 2. I didn't view the medical problem as a personal failing, but as a medical problem, and thought that here was an easy solution.

    • Oh wow, that’s so thoughtful of you. So have you resolved your issues or been able to “work around them” for her?

    • Oh, it cleared up- was just a circulatory reaction to a medicine I was taking, thankfully. I take what I think is an unusual approach to sex (it might not be, but it's what I gather from hearing other people talk and surprise my girlfriends have had) in that I think of digital and oral stimulation as being part and parcel of the whole process, not just warm-ups to PIV or a substitute when it's unavailable. I'm also slower than most (again, I think) to *start* having sex, so I don't get the "if I do this casually, then I'm not 'saving' anything for someone truly special" thought that many people do. Keeping your options open lets you see them not only satisfied, but amazed- I really think more people should incorporate more varied movesets into their sex lives, even if it means only one of you gets off *at that particular moment*. There's something that I can only describe as "gloriously satisfying" about telling a new partner "I want to send you so high you so high that you high-five God on the way on back down" and knowing that you CAN.

    • Ok great. It’s so nice that you care so much about pleasing who you’re with, I’m sure she really appreciates that!

  • I selected F. I have received strap on sex from my wife. It was intense and awesome.

    • How soon after you were married did you first try it? And are you bi or straight?

    • Straight and we were about 12 or 13 years into marriage when we tried it.

    • Thank you for MHO!

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Kind of but kind of not, I used a strap on to teach a friend how to lap dance, so this would it would seem more realistic for when lap dancing on a man. We didn't have sex per say while doing this, it was sexual but not sex... as it was teaching and learning.

    • Oh wow, so interesting! So you wore the strap-on acting like a lap dance customer?

    • Right, we took turns wearing it... she'd wear it and I'd show her moves and then we'd trade. Obviously it wasn't a huge one though, but it got the general idea. There was mistakes and slips that jokingly one could say turned into something sexual but it was not intended.

    • If that’s all that you’ve ever done w a strap-on — and there was no strap-on penetration during that instruction — then select one of the No votes in the poll.

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  • Voted E.

    • Have you given or received strap-on sex, or both?

    • Both

    • Which do you prefer more—giving or receiving strap-on sex?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I have pegged my husband. My idea, after a few drinks on a date night. He was open to try it, and I was feeling adventurous.

    • Yeah? Do you own/did you use a strap-on harness, or just use your dildo?

    • I very much appreciate that he was willing to try it. The benefits are pretty amazing.

    • Strap on set up, he somewhat enjoys it, but we definitely needed to find the right sizes for starting/experimentation. It's not something we do a whole lot now, with three kids, and very few date nights :-)

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  • Yep, boyfriend gets the strapon once a week or so

  • E. Many times.

    • So with other females… giving or receiving, or both? And has F-F stuff for you ever been a romantic SO thing, or just a “sexual encounter” thing?

    • Both It's been romantic many times

    • How did it feel the first time

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  • Yeah, girlfriend fucks me sometimes

    • Are you bi or straight?

    • I'm bi

  • Nope never. I'm ok with her tongue there but not a strap on.

    Answer mine if you're bored speaking of which...

    What percentage of women give rim jobs to men?

    • I have no idea about that…not into anything anal-related…see my UPDATE 1 on this question.

  • Not a strap on but my ex bought buttplugs for us and we would put it in each other's butts while giving oral

    • Ok. Which answer-option letter did you select in this question’s poll?

    • What did you like about the event

  • Tried with my wife but didn't work well

    • You mean you didn’t like being pegged, or your wife wasn’t good at using the strap-on? ; or what?

  • I picked F because an ex girlfriend of mine pegged me several times, and I've used a hollowed out dildo (penis extension sleeve) on many of the woman that I've been with because I have a small penis.

    • Ok. Are smh (small penis humiliation) and/or cuckolding turnons for you?

    • * sph

    • I've tried both, sph is more of a turn on. Not into the whole cuckold thing.