18+ ADULTS ONLY: When you are/were single and you met someone new & available, how soon do/did you USUALLY “know” if you WOULD have sex with them?

[Anonymous]

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Note: this question was inspired by the 18-24 Pink Anon’s opinion to this question…

Men, have you ever gotten laid from being straight up with a woman off the bat? Ladies did you ever sleep with a guy who was direct about it?

…in which she said: “Sure with me all a guy has to do is ask. I already know whether I would or not. Usually it's no, but sometimes yes.”

[FunkyMonkee]

With girlfriend #1, I didn't know for sure until she grabbed my dick and shoved it into her pussy but, from the very first moment, we worked up a HUGE head of steam and kept it going for the next 6 hours until I got her into my bed!!
girlfriend #2, Probably as soon as she invited me to get into her bed with her. I'd been sleeping on her couch for the previous 2 weeks, or so.
girlfriend #3, I don't even remember. About the third time we got together at her place, somehow, we started kissing each other and that quickly became a rather heavy make-out session but, I don't think we actually fucked for another few days or weeks.
girlfriend #2, revisited (35 years after the first time): I believe she came over to my house and started asking me where we should do it. Her first choice was her sitting on the kitchen counter between to the stove and sink! I think the kitchen table was next but we eventually decided to use the spare bedroom on the second floor.
Usually, if they let you fondle their fudgies, sex won't be far behind. So far, I've only had one girl that DIDN'T follow that rule. Well, 2, if you count the hooker that let me feel her up for a good while.

[Asker]

Nice interesting details, but (per the “Updates”) I was wanting to know how soon after you met someone did you USUALLY know that you WANTED to have sex with them?

[FunkyMonkee]

Oh, well, in all three cases, pretty much the minute I set eyes on them. Actually, in the case of #3, I was more interested in her friend but, found out that she's a lezzie that was trying to get into #3's pants and I screwed her out of that! Although, I serious doubt she had a chance. #3 wasn't the slightest bit interested in munching carpet and thanked me profusely for rescuing her from that potentiality.

[Asker]

Ha about#3. Which answer-option letter did you select in the poll?

[FunkyMonkee]

The B

[NerdInDenial]

Within 30 seconds since sex for me is based on physical attributes, but I enjoy it more with a woman whom I like.

[Asker]

Great “Guy answer”!

[DeeDeeDeVour]

There might be a "spark" during the date. That first lips-to-lips kiss usually confirms that the sparks exists. Soon after that, I'd feel the urge to tear his clothes off. However, that doesn't mean I'd actually do it early on. I'd abstain to preserve some self respect.

Meanwhile, a bad kiss does exist, unfortunately, and can also kill the mood.

[Asker]

So how soon did it USUALLY take for you to know whether you WANTED to have sex with someone?…which answer-option letter did you select in the poll?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

How soon? It varies. With my husband, I wanted to screw him already before we actually met. With another guy, I felt the urge during dinner of our first date. With the others, it took a bit of a while longer. Meanwhile, I voted for the 7th option (G) since it could be any from B to G.

[Asker]

Ok on voting G. What do you mean by saying “I wanted to screw him already before we actually met”?…. do you mean you found each other online and were so captivated by him before you net in person?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

My husband was my high school crush even though I had a boyfriend (my 1st) then. It took a while before we were finally introduced to each other during our senior year in h. s. My crush on him was some serious "head-over-heels, can't get him outta my mind" spell for a long while until we discovered we were in the same college over a year later. Fortunately, I was already available to date him when he finally asked. We were friends for months before our 1st date but I was already fantasizing about him way before all that.

[Asker]

Oh wow, so cool—sounds like you guys were meant for each other!

[ChooChooHaha]

Yep. 1 to 5 min.

And yes, he's something.

[Asker]

“He”? Do you USUALLY know that you WANT/not want to have sex with someone within 1 to 5 minutes after meeting someone new & available to you?

[ChooChooHaha]

Only very few people have been that way to me.

[ChooChooHaha]

And yes.

[Asker]

Ok, please vote C in the poll.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Even if I know I want to, doesn't mean I know it will happen because he may not want to.

[Asker]

Of course, but see my “Update 1A”

[LikeALog]

I usually knew within 5 minutes that I would like to have sex them. But as I continued to talk with them I might change my mind.

[Asker]

Very solid answer… Although I usually know if I’m sexually attracted to a woman almost right away, there is the “on second thought I don’t think so” thing that happens sometimes. …I would have picked you as my 2nd Blue MHO if we could pick 4 MHOs on questions.

[OlderAndWiser]

I usually did not have sex on a third date, but I usually knew by the third date whether the horizontal mambo was in the future for me and my date.

[Asker]

See my “Update 1A”

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I usually know after seeing them front and back but I'm not totally sure until I've talked to her and even at that point it usually takes maybe two sentences

[Asker]

Which answer-option letter did you select in the poll?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Other

[Telekinetic-Potato]

But after reading the update, I guess 30 seconds is a good answer

[Asker]

Ok, my answer to my poll would be “B - Under 1 minute.”

[SnowedIn]

During the first time meeting them.

[Asker]

Ok, what’s the quickest amount of time?

[SnowedIn]

We're going back a long time in my memory, but probably an hour to 90 minutes.

[Asker]

Ok thanks for replying to that.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Usually, the first time she touches me I can tell.

[Asker]

You mean you “can tell” (ie: you know) that you will be having sex?…See the updates.

[AviatorTom]

It varied. There was one woman who I knew we'd have sex halfway through the first date; we had sex after our 2nd date. Another took 3 dates before it looked like we might have sex; we finally had sex after date #5. And there were some women that, after 3 dates, it was obvious we were never going to have sex.

[AviatorTom]

Now that I've read your updates, I knew I wanted to have sex shortly into the first date... that rarely happened though. What is really the purpose of dating if you don't think that you will eventually have sex?

[Asker]

See the updates… I was wanting to know how soon after meeting someone did you USUALLY know that you WANTED to have sex with someone.

[Asker]

It looks like I started writing my reply to you just before you sent your last message…

[AviatorTom]

@Gagname I read your updates and responded appropriately immediately above your opinion. In the future, maybe you should word the question more specifically. For this one, for example, change "WOULD" to "WOULD LIKE TO".

[Asker]

Which answer-option did you select in the poll to this question?

[AviatorTom]

I chose G-Other

[Asker]

Ok great.

[Fireguy17]

it really depends.
Sometimes it can take a number of dates, more than 6 other times you barely make it into the house with your clothes on.
There is no set number.
It will happen when it happens.

[Asker]

See my “Updates.” How soon did it USUALLY take for you to know whether you WANTED to have sex with someone?…which answer-option letter did you select in the poll?

[exitseven]

I never knew. Twice I just had girls straight up and ask me if I wanted to have sex. I was clueless,

[Asker]

See my “Update 1A”

[OlderAndWiser]

Saw the update before I answered.

[exitseven]

I think I wanted to hav sex with just about every girl I ever dated. i only had sex with 3 of them.

[Asker]

@OlderAndWiser So you “never knew” whether you wanted to have sex with women before you had sex with them?…hmm…🤔

[exitseven]

i didn;t say no so I guess I wanted to do it but I never expected it. I really was clueless.

[Asker]

@exitseven This question is NOT about “expecting that sex would happen” / “knowing sex would happen,” it’s about “knowing that you WANTED to have sex with someone”

[OlderAndWiser]

Reread my response; that is not what I said.

[Asker]

@OlderAndWiser You put your above comments under exitseven’s opinion (and not. under your opinion) and my “So you “never knew” whether you wanted to have sex…” comments were erroneously directed to you (and should have been directed to exitseven).

[OlderAndWiser]

We both screwed up! There were SOME girls who I knew as soon as I met them that I wanted to slp them the sausage. But, as I got older, I tended to not make such instantaneous decisions. By the third date, I usually knew.

[Asker]

@OlderAndWiser Ok. So which answer-option letter did you select in the poll to this question?

[OlderAndWiser]

I chose "G."

[Asker]

@OlderAndWiser Ok great.

[jamesgoldman]

Until it was under way or almost under way

[Asker]

By “know you WOULD” I mean that you know whether you wanted to have sex with the other person, if the other person also wanted to.

[jamesgoldman]

I'm all but asexual so I'll stick with those answers... it was just well they're great because they're funny, I'm drinking with them and well now this is happening

[Asker]

So you selected answer-option G in the poll to this question?

[jamesgoldman]

Correct

[Asker]

Ok great.

[Twalli]

We'd have to be dating for it to be an option.

[Asker]

Ok, but… How soon did it USUALLY take for you to know whether you WANTED to have sex with someone?

[Twalli]

It usually isn't something I consider until I know if she wants to date me or not. The one exception is with a friend, who would date me if we were both single (she is, I'm not). I've never considered sex with her because, by the time I knew she liked me, I was already in a relationship, so as far as I was concerned, sex with anyone else was not going to happen.

[Asker]

Ok. So which answer-option did you select in the poll?…G - Other?

[Twalli]

Yes, only one that fit

[Asker]

Ok great.

[Gggotham]

I go si months cause if you can't be with me that pong without it you ain't worth it.

[Asker]

See the updates… Are you saying that it usually took you six months to know whether you WANTED to have sex with someone?

[Anonymous]

It was anywhere from an hour or two to several weeks.

[Asker]

Which answer-option letter did you select in the poll to this question?