“fetish is a sexual fixation on a specific object or act that is absolutely necessary to a person’s sexual gratification…[and kink is an umbrella term for] alternative sexual interests…”
With the above in mind, “WITHIN THE LAST 2 YEARS — have you discovered that you have a “new” kink or fetish for you (which you were unaware of before then)?”
A - Just show me the polling results
Vote A
B - Yes — I last discovered that I have a “new” kink or fetish for me (that I was previously unaware of) WITHIN THE LAST 6 MONTHS
Vote B
C - Yes — I last discovered that I have a “new” kink or fetish for me (that I was previously unaware of) GREATER THAN 6 MONTHS AGO BUT UP TO 1 YEAR AGO
Vote C
D - Yes — I last discovered that I have a “new” kink or fetish for me (that I was previously unaware of) GREATER THAN 1 YEAR AGO BUT UP TO 2 YEARS AGO
Vote D
E - NO — I last discovered that I have a “new” kink or fetish for me (that I was previously unaware of) GREATER THAN 2 YEARS AGO BUT UP TO 10 YEARS AGO
Vote E
F - NO — I last discovered that I have a “new” kink or fetish for me (that I was previously unaware of) GREATER THAN 10 YEARS AGO
Vote F
G - NO — I DON’T HAVE ANY kinks or fetishes
Vote G
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Katie1964Guru
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We have a fetish that we discovered, we have been doing it for a long time but just didn't know it was a fetish.
Hubby is a bit of a nudist, so appearantly there is this whole CFNM thing that is a fetish. We just thought it was being comfortable at home.
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Is CFNM really a “fetish” for you & him, or just a “kink”? I gave the definition for ”fetish” in Note 2 to this question but the article link goes on to elaborate: ““Fetish is heavily tied to having a psychological need for those specific objects or acts in order to experience pleasure and or orgasm, whereas kinks can add to a sexual experience but aren’t necessarily needed to achieve sexual release.” Also, which answer-option letter did you select in the poll?
Katie1964
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I didn't answer the poll. Maybe its defined as "kink", but to us it's just normal. He likes to be nude. I will be nude but maybe a tenth the time as him. Someone has to answer the door.
Anonymous
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Yes. Times change.
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Yes…”the ‘norms’ “for society change over time” and “people change over time” too. Which answer-option letter did you select in the poll—B C or D? And are you ok w sharing what your “new” kink is that you discovered?
Opinion Owner
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I just voted for B. We talked for a long time about spicing things up. We pondered inviting a "third" to join us. I don't know if that's considered a "kink" or not, but that's my answer.
Asker
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B—ok. I’m any case, a threesome is a kink when compared to your past. How did doing a threesome go for you guys, and was it a one-time (or multi-time) thing?
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Opinion Owner
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We haven't done it yet, but just our "pillow talk" gets our motors running.
Asker
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…or maybe just the IDEA of a threesome is what is a “new kink” turnon for you? (you said you “pondered inviting…”).
Asker
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Note: our messages “crossed” and I’m just seeing your message above now.
Opinion Owner
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Yes, it's now just role playing, and that's really hot. The largest sex organ is your brain. You can please any woman if you have a well-hung brain.
Asker
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Ok very cool. I agree: to me “the brain is the sexiest body part.”
Opinion Owner
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The good news for you is...99.9% of guys don't know what you know. lol Go on a dating site right now. Tell Sally that she looks amazing in her red dress. Then ask Sally why she chose red, instead of a different color. Sally will now track your ass down to the ends of the Earth, and demand you explain why red wasn't good enough for you. It could get violent, so bring your bear spray. Opposites attract, and guys with big brains know that.
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Lol. Everyone’s different in what they’re looking for/interested in and what “mix of attributes” is attractive to them, plus there’s the “chemistry/personality dynamics” things that really makes or breaks a couple; but I get what you mean…Hopefully my knowledge of things will pan out in me finding the “right woman for me that I’m also right for her.”
Opinion Owner
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Ask her for her opinion, and then challenge her on it. Do NOT try to win, but at least put up a fight. You've now engaged her largest sex organ. 100% of her focus will be on you, and you just won the prize.
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jshm2Master
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Put it this way - if it exists, I've probably done it.
The only exceptions are paedophilia, coprophilia, necrophilia, and bestiality.
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Have you discovered that you have a “new” kink or fetish within the last 2 years? And which answer-option letter did you select in the poll?
Anonymous
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My fetish is white female humiliation. I enjoy being mean to white women. 😈
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Is that actually a “fetish” — which per Note 2 in this question means you can’t orgasm unless you’re humiliating a white woman? OR, instead is humiliating a white woman just a big and/or favorite “kink” of yours? Also: Which answer-option letter did you select in the poll?
Opinion Owner
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I definitely have a sexual fixation on humiliating white women and I have difficulty reaching orgasm in normal sex with white women, but not so much with women of other races, I really like Asian women. In most times the humiliation part has been about performing a BDSM scenario in which I'm the dom and my white girlfriend is the sub, but I'd really like to initiate her into the cuckquean lifestyle and fuck Asian girls in front of her, and say how Asian girls are superior to white women, make my girlfriend kiss her feet and eat my cum from that Asian pussy, lick her ass, be spat on etc. I found it out at the beginning of the coronavirus pandemic, that is to say 2 years and a half ago, so I voted E.
Asker
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Ok about fetish for you, and thanks for voting. Is the BDSM stuff which you & your girlfriend are into Bondage/Discipline & Dom/sub stuff, or does it also include actual degradation-humiliation (and maybe pain) Sadism/Masochism stuff? And specifically concerning cuckqueaning, has your girlfriend expressed an interest in that or is the idea of you being w another woman a turnon for her?
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Aerissa_JadeGuru
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Yup and you are already aware of it... from awhile back.
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Hmm… Which answer-option letter did you select in the poll?
Aerissa_Jade
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In the last six months
Wish4UrB00tyExplorer
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Yeah I wouldn’t say it was totally in the last 6 months. I finally figured it out though in that time period. Its been a few years building.
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Which answer-option letter did you select in the poll? And are you ok w sharing what your “new” kink is that you discovered?
Wish4UrB00ty
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I chose B and it’s kind of hitting in to the BDSM type stuff…
Asker
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Ok. Which part/s of BDSM is it?… Bondage & discipline Domination & submission Sadism & masochism
SnowedInMaster
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I selected E.
I haven't discovered any new kinks or fetishes in the immediate past two years. Many within the last ten, however.
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BlondeGoneWildGuru
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Not in the last two years
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Ok. So which answer-option letter did you select in the poll—E or F?
BlondeGoneWild
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E...
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Ok, what “new” kink or fetish did you discover you had between 2 & 10 years ago?
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BlondeGoneWild
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BDSM, strangers, and blackmail
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1. Which part if BDSM do you like? A - Bondage & discipline B - Domination & submission C - Sadism & masochism 2. Are you saying you like to be blackmailed? (If so, how so)?
BlondeGoneWild
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Bondage, submission, and masochism, and yes especially when guys threaten to post videos or pictures of me
Asker
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WOW regarding the blackmail thing! Which do you most like — bondage, submission, or masochism?
annabanannaYoda
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Nope don’t think I have. I’m actually pretty vanilla
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Are you sure?…hmm 🤔 Oh I see, it’s a very relative question for YOU…if YOU believe EVERYTHING is mainstream, then NOTHING is KINKY to YOU and YOU are “pretty vanilla—👌LOL
Anonymous
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I voted E. It is urethral insertion play. I do it for myself in masturbation and my partner does it for me as well. This is a hint.
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How did you start getting into that activity? And is it the “feel” thing that you like about it or also the “naughty idea” of it that does something for you too?
Opinion Owner
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How did you start getting into that activity? *I started exploring in a self-imposed draught between relationships. I was looking for a stronger orgasm. As I progressed, I found it. And is it the “feel” thing that you like about it or also the “naughty idea” of it that does something for you too? *It was definitely the sensation. When I do this (deep enough), it makes for an automatic, body bending orgasm. I'm surprised it is not more generally accepted. There are risks, but knowledge and skill can overcome them.
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