25 and still virgin, what do you think about it?

[Anonymous]

hey, i got a question, i think i'm a decent looking guy, i workout and try to be well groomed when i leave the house. I'm a little bit introverted so it's not always that easy for me to start a conversation. i had to relationships where i had petting and oral sex, but i never hsd sex with a women. and i think it's an obstacletacle to have a relationship, because you're seen as inexperienced, do you see it the same way? i've a little bit ashamed of it and it makes it harder for me to let me go with a women, because of the fear what she would think about me. Do you think this is a justified fear?
thanks for the honest answers

[yougurt]

You're good. Some women will find you weird, but that's a red flag to stay away from them. If you go out and meet a woman, create a good bond and then you tell her you're a virgin, she might be surprised and even ask you why, but she won't ditch you for that, She might actually find it cute and see it as a bonus. The only women who will ditch you for that are women looking only for sex.

[Asker]

thank you for your answer, this gives me hope

[Avicenna]

I don't see a problem with it. A woman who is interested in you won't care.

[Asker]

thanks, i hope this will help me to be a little bit more relaxed in the future when i want to go on a date

[Avicenna]

I think you have the right mindset. Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

You have other priorities other than getting laid

[Asker]

yes that's true, but i would like to have a relationship and for most couples sex is a part of it and because of my insecurity about it, it's not that easy to build one

[Opinion Owner]

Just befriend someone and work up to a physical relationship

[Asker]

so you mean just to do something as friends and see if it fits?

[Opinion Owner]

Kinda. Start off as friends, get to know them and you'll be comfortable with them. Then if they want to take it to the next level there won't be that awkward stage. But there is a caveat: if it goes south you lose a significant other and a friend

[Asker]

okey i understand now, thanks a lot for your tip

[Hoss1981]

Shit you have nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

okey, will try to do so

[elinatalks]

Agree

[YellLow]

Sad.

[Shiver]

Don't give two flying fucks, virginity means nothing tbh. You'll lose it when you lose it, don't worry about it, you got shit to live for.

[pigoat]

Don't tell them you are a virgin anf just pretend you are good lol

[Asker]

thank you for your answer, but i'm not sure if i would feel comfortable to do so

[Tyler131]

Just tell them that you needed a warm up run, if your first go at it sucks and definitely don't worry about it otherwise it will for sure suck

[Asker]

thanks for your advice

[broken_heart_at_48]

Man you're thinking way to much just go get a hooker or go hit on every chick you see and blow off all the rejection don't stop until you get 10 numbers and call them one at a time and ask them out on a date then just let things happen and you can either start the conversation or let it happen just be honest and if she's right for you it will happen but don't forget about the hooker idea

[moviedude714]

Not that unusual at all

[Asker]

it seems like it, everywhere you hear people talk about, when the last time they went home with someone when going out and you see all these couples, so i just imagined it is

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Virginity is overrated. It doesn't bother me knowing somebody is a virgin.

[Anonymous]

I am 34 and still Virgin...
How about this?

[Anonymous]

I didn't have a girlfriend until 27, nor sex until 27.5. My was a virgin until 33. May not be common, but nothing wrong.