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Girls, 27, still a virgin?

I am 27
still a virgin
and also inexperienced in dating (only 7 months of dating)
Always been shy, Always lacked confidence, on top of being slightly picky (not to the extreme though)

Would you judge a man harshly for this, assuming it means he's not worthy of your time?
HIS lack of experience meaning there is something wrong with him...

Or would you consider it some sort of "fetish" conquest to take him as your own?
something as prized, as a guy who obsesses over trying to find inexperienced women to take..

Or would it simply not matter to you if he had experience or not?
you take him as he is, and let the relationship grow into whatever.. and lend a hand when needed.

Just wondering what you think of this?
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  • First assert yourself, never let your emotions interfere with your decisions. You will know when it's right for you. So don't rush for things that our society thinks you should be doing at such age. It's a personal choice, your choice and if it doesn't feel right then it's not fun at all when you are doing it as you will not be connected fully with the other person. No rush, take your time. When it's right for you, you will be satisfied and happy. Trust me! You are reread not picky by any means. You will regret it if you just do it with the wrong person when you aren't ready to do it yet. Happy thoughts, Hugs.😊

    • IT would be awesome to talk 1 on 1 .. but we are both 1xper. . and id rather it not be public I have a loooot of things I want to ask but yes thank you for much for your kind words :)

    • Well I'll build up my expert fast ok. And we'll chat very soon. No worries. Keep your chin up. You'll be juse fine, I promise. It's life and normal ok. There's nothing wrong with you. Hugs hun. 🤗

    • :) sure sure :) if you want to email me because I have a certain question (its a sexual one) that would be cool but if we just wait thats fine too :) :)

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  • Neither, I think this will affect our relationship in some way so I can't say it doesn't matter but I don't find it a bad thing too, as long he doesn't make a big deal about it, everybody has missed on something in their live and they are insecure about something, why judging him for his circumstances, if I am his first and he is mine let's just have fun together if we can

    • I like this outlook much better than many posted here ;) give me some hope! haha

    • ;) Well try your beat and you know, even if it don't happen the fact that you have the opportunity for so many other things its great and it would be a waste to miss on something because u are worried about another thing But still, do your best, its not the end

    • Would you be okay with messaging me? I have many more questions (and im limited to 1) mainly all about sexuality stuff If not, I understand just hate the 1 question limit. :)

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  • In my opinion I look for a man that is a virgin, because I still am and it's important to me to find someone that wants to wait with me until were married. So knowing he's a virgin would make me not think back of him or think less of him as a man but it would make me feel honored to be with such a person and I'd cherish them.

    • that makes me feel more comfortable with it :)

    • Bad not back

    • I'm glad 😊

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  • Maybe I’m different to most but I would question why he’s a virgin or rather if he actually is. It’s unusual for a man of this age to be. I’m not sure if I could sleep with one solely because I no what I want in the bedroom and some one in experienced wouldn’t be able to deliver x

    • ^ thats exactly what I fear O. O grr hahaha :)

  • It's be in the middle of between I don't care to he's a bit defective or one or the other either way though I personally wouldn't bother.

    • I see great! :) I've always been a little afraid of my lack of experience

  • I think it's so awesome when guys are virgins its rare and gives the girl the opportunity to mold you lol

    • lolol :) mold? :O

    • *mould. Meaning you can get trained by the woman to do exactly as she wants 😂

    • @PondyPand ooohhh myyy.. :O

  • My boyfriend was like you, just that he isn't a virgin. He had social anxiety. I don't mind it at all. I helped him to socialize more.

    • Hmm I see :) would you be alright with messaging me? I have many questions

  • No dude, lol.

    • AH!!! imma die alone! :O loolol

  • I really wouldn't care.

    • yay! :)

    • Me too

    • @Koki11 Yay! :)))))

  • I don't care if a guy's a virgin but I do care about the fact that you seem to need lots of reassurance, and at the same time, allow yourself to be picky. It's almost like you're saying you don't want a woman to be picky about your sex-appeal or lack thereof, but you want it in the woman you bed... that's a major turnoff.

    • fair position I have no clue if im considered "Attractive" I've been told yes but beauty in the eye of the beholder i suppose.

    • It's not just about looks. It's about whether you have a certain something that makes you interesting, bold, charismatic, even deep. That vibe can be on a person who is physically not attractive and can make them attractive in turn.

    • ooo O. o and thats where I fail im very quiet.. unless im comfortable with someone O. O then I've been told I can be slightly "contagious" sooo I guess its about breaking through that shy barrier.

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  • Honestly, I really don't care.

    • yay there is hope!

  • Wouldn't care at all.

    • Awesome :) its something im worried about O. o... soo afraid girls will judge me for it.

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