3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy

3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy

Fellas, have you ever walked up to a girl right off the bat they give you this stink eye or they just get up and walk away? I know, it sucks, trust me I've been in the same boat as you guys, but I have found out why girls do these things. There are three main reasons why this happens, physical features, body language, and personality. Let's get into it.

1.) Physical features

3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy

If you are an unattractive male chances are girls are going to find you more creepy than someone who is attractive. When women see an attractive male, they would go "Omg, he's soooooo hot! Look at those biceps! That jawline! He can be my man any time of the day!", where as if you are physically unattractive, girls would say "Eww, he's ugly, he's probably a rapist so my best bet is to leave." You do not understand how many times I have seen this happen. The bright side to this, and also kind of the bad side if you put it in a way however, is that mainly girls who are physically attractive are the ones doing this stuff. Lesser attractive women tend to be less extreme when it comes to the judgement of unattractive males.

2.) Body language

3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy

Body language is a huge one. If you aren't projecting yourself in a way that is confident, then you would be automatically called a creep. Overly confident people, as in arrogant people, tend to get better results than those who are just moderately confident. If you don't project any confidence then girls will automatically think that you are out to rape people, which doesn't make any sense because not every guy is a rapist. DISCLAIMER: I obviously understand that rape is a very serious topic, but i'm using the word rape and rapist because that is one of the first things a girl thinks of when someone is creepy. Confidence however, cancels out when you're unattractive.

3.) Personality

3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy
Personality is another biggie. If you're a shy guy like myself, then you get the short end of the stick. Guys who are awkward and shy are automatically creeps to girls, which is again stupid. Not every guy is born with amazing confidence. Some people are born insecure about every thing about them, like myself, which is why we remain reserved so that we can escape from rejection. I'm always nervous about what I'm going to say because anything I say to a girl can be turned against me, and it usually is. When I speak to a girl, more specifically girls who are more attractive, it's like walking on egg shells. What you say can determine what the opposite sex thinks you are.

So in conclusion, If you are unattractive, shy, and awkward guy, then you get the short end of the stick. It is unfortunate that even the 17 year old self has to deal with such bullshit. All my friends tease me about not ever kissing a girl, but I never tell them this because they never understand the mechanics behind why girls like them so much and why they don't like me. Hopefully you guys take some out of this and feel free to comment, whether that be praise or hate, it doesn't matter to me. This take can be a place to voice your opinion on the matter.

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  • How shallow is this? Lol

  • 80% the first one
    10% each the other two

  • It's complicating to explain.. but guys are creepy when they always stare at a specific girl and never ask her out or even say hey. I am not talking about shy guys.. they are okay.

  • #1 is the only reason , because if it wasn't players, womanizers and bad boys wouldn't get laid at all.

  • Thanks for that pic of shirtless adam levine ;)

  • the only reasons is that the guys isn't attractive. if it was beckam or some other hot guys, he wouldn't be considered creepy but hot. This all have to do with how attracted the girl is to the guys who hit on her.

    • Exactly

    • yes but majority of girls will never tell it loud.

  • Understanding women.

    Women are condition to not express that they are superficial. It's why when ask what type of guy girls like they'll give a BS answer or their actual preference. In addition to when asked why girl liked X guy or choose to be with him, women will always deflect their true reason for being with said male which is usually a result of money, looks and social status and give some other answer that he has an amazing personality and that's why they picked him.

    In short they put up a facade that they have outgrown men in superficiality and are picking men with noble hearts and who are good people. When the reality is they are actually more vain and superficial than the male gender.

    Now how does this come back to being a creep? Well when a woman is approached by a guy who does not give her any validation and he tries to flirt with her guess what she is going to do. She is going to be closed off towards him and try to end the conversation as soon as possible, and move away. If pressed on why she did that she is not going to say it's because said guy was unattractive because that would make her look superficial and shallow.

    Thus, what women do is they slander your character as a guy to justify why they did not pick you. They say it's because their was something was wrong with your personality and that's why you made her feel uncomfortable. This let's women keep up with the facade that they are less superficial than men and pick men for their personality and good character.

    It was even admitted by a girl on GAG last year that many girls don't like to come to term with the fact that they behavior just like men and are just as shallow because then they would have to do serious reflection about themselves.

    • Exactly correct.

  • Oh ffs more unattractive guys complaining about how hard life is. First world problems or what? A million years ago people like you would have died off. Not ugly guys- irritating guys. Natural selection at its fucking best. Stop complaining and be a little proactive. Talk to the girl you sit next to in class, join a club, shit me join tinder if your that desperate. Just don't keep complaining! If your coming across as creepy it's not because your ugly it's because of what you're projecting. Also has a girl actually said she finds you creepy? Or are you just assuming this to try and feed your whole self hatred thing? It's most likely you're over thinking things. The only guy I've thought was creepy on sight was this guy on the bus who kept screaming 'die' whenever we stopped at a red light.
    Also fyi the guy in the top photo isn't ugly, he happens to look like a regular guy. Not everyone's a Hollywood star.
    Get over yourself you 'woe is me' teen.

    • You talk as if you are a grown adult but yet you are probably the same age, if not, younger than me. No, I haven't been called creepy, but many times a girl turns away with the vibe that I have creeped her out when I feel like I did nothing wrong. My attractive friends can say the same thing I said (and they've done this before) and instantly get the girl. You know why? Because they are attractive!

    • Yep, I'm seventeen. Doesn't stop me from being a female who's gotten fed up from men acting as if we're so incredibly shallow all the time. So yes, you have just assumed this and decided to complain about it online. Cute. Also are you tryna date these girls who you've admitted as being out of your league? That doesn't work. Especially if your going about it like your attractive friends. You gotta show some real personality for them to ever go for you. You've got to make up for being ugly by being funny/charismatic/clever. If you can't manage that then go for someone who is in your league

    • Also want to point out its exactly the same for girls, though usually were not silly enough to go for a guy way out of our league and complain when they think we're creepy

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  • Yep. Thanks feminism.

  • Basically, girls think a guy is creepy if they don't like his physical appearance, and/or personality.

    • Yes, that is correct

  • i'm tall, handsome and creepy. your theory is wrong. being extremely unconfident and unsmooth/awkward makes you creepy.

    • But you see, people who are unconfident, unsmooth/awkward aren't out to rape women, not all of them at least. So why must women think that these guys are automatic rapists?

    • you think like a man. thats your error. women dont think logically like that. some girls can call you creepy even out of the blue. for reasons you can't rationally explain, or that make sense only in their heads. you shouldn't take their words at face value but with a grain of salt.

  • If you ever met an actual woman that wasn't related to you you'd realize how far off track you are.

  • This is false. I've heard of plenty of attractive/decent guys being called creepy.

    • Are you sure about that? Cause I've rarely heard any cases of that happening

    • Yes I've been told I'm cute by many and used to creep women out by staring at them and some of my behaviors. Thought it was all my appearance and appearance does matter but how you act is the majority of it. You live and you learn.

  • 1. is the most common one

  • 1. You harbor resentment for women for having features that make you sexually aroused but not giving you sexual access how and when you want it.

    • Wow, that stung but point worth considering. Thanks.

    • Not necessarily you personally, I don't know you. I meant "you" in the general sense. That's the top reason I see.

    • That's actually probably the biggest reason for me. Some guys ugly or not somehow think that the women they are into owe them something, it's bs.

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  • How exactly do you know all this information?

    • My experiences and other men's experiences.

  • What if your attractive, shy and awkward guy?

    • Then the shy and awkward cancel out. Girls will think "oh, he's just reserved" or "oh, maybe he's focusing on bigger things than us, good for him!"