Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I see many men on this website overthinking and over-analyzing sexual intimacy with women. Yes, women experience sex differently than men, but when were in bed and things are getting heavy, its all just biology.
1) Ignore penis size
Stop talking about the size of your penis whether its huge or small because I've got news for you, she doesn't give a dam if its 9", and it still works if it is 4". You need to know what to do with it.
2) Learn about your woman's erogenous zones other than the obvious ones.
(I'll give you a very subtle hint, THE NECK!!!!!!)... Ok, that wasn't too subtle. If you just go attack her breasts and vagina like a dog attacking a piece of steak, she's just going to feel like an open hole; make her feel as though it is a 2 way experience and that you love all of her, not just the obvious spots. Kiss her, lick her, gently nibble on her; get her mentally excited just as much as physically.
3) Be unpredictable.
What I mean by this is a woman's body is a woman's body, we aren't going to reinvent the wheel here per se and her body hasn't changed, nor it isn't going to anytime soon, so be unpredictable instead of doing the same old, tired routine over and over. Examples of being unpredictable include:
a) Change up the timing in which things occur. If you always move to a certain activity right after what you always do, it becomes expected and repetitive. Surprise her!
b) Change up techniques. Don't always rub her the same way or lick her the same way, change it up. Instead of just rubbing her for a minute then moving onto penetration, do something different; get down on your knees and use your tongue and fingers at the same time (I'll keep it clean my fellow GaGGers, but use your imagination).
4) Change up the pace of penetration.
Don't always make her feel like she's a concrete sidewalk with a jackhammer drilling her. Change it up. Deep and slow while you lean in and kiss/whisper in her ear, then short and shallow strokes while you kiss her body, then longer strokes with a little more speed.
The point is, a woman will always have the same nerve endings in the same spots with the same erogenous zones, so we aren't going to invent anything new, but variety and unpredictability can very much keep her on her toes and spice things up!
What Girls & Guys Said
19 16excellent !
Penis size always matters.
definitely doesn't
This is very accurate , always had a " Ladies First " policy , a man should ALWAYS get his lady off at least once , better still several times , one ex nearly broke my wrist as I was pleasuring her !! ... but this is something I will never experience again , I 'm a single dad , enough said !
interesting
thanks for reading
cool post man
thank you for reading sir!
*takes off hat* no, thank you for being true
Awesome take
Im gonna read ALL
i hope you like it!
Bullshit. No woman wants a 4" penis.
I know, because I ACTUALLY HAVE a 4" penis.
Can you talk really really dirty even if it's your first time having sex with her?
And what if it's a girl you know already (e. g. a friend)?
i would say you can in both instances.. if she expresses discomfort with it, you can just stop..
Ok so even if you're a good gentleman who is not in your face all the time, once you're in the bedroom you can well, be dominant/dirty? Examples of what you can say? E. g. can you call her a bad girl or even term, slut (heard some women like it, not sure myself on that one)? And if she's on top what can u say? Do nice guys get the same leeway?
i think it would work fine.. most women know that when you call them a 'slut' in the bedroom, you dont mean it in an offensive way
Oh right! So I mean can a guy who is nice to her in the outside world talk as dirty as a guy who isn't as caring?
yes as long as both understand that it is just for the sexual experience
Right, good point! Can you term explain how you would tell a female friend who became single (met when taken) how you find them attractive?
i would just tell her. be honest and speak from the heart.. dont put her up on such a high pedestal because you'll freak yourself out.
Yeah agreed on pedastal, but how do u mean? How would she perceive you doing the pedestal thing, I don't think I think of her as out of my league at all. But i am maybe extra nice to her (out of affection)? How do u tell tho given you already know her and held back from saying she was hot the whole time she was not single?
I once told my guy to surprise me not to do the same routine over and over, next time we had sex he pushed his finger up in my ass out of the blue.
Never surprise a girl with a finger in the ass.
lmao omg! hahahahah
More often than not, I've found that women love a finger in the ass.
@Regulatus Now I like it but you don't just stick it up you have to foreplay a little before , don't you think so?
Well, yeah. Of course. I only do it after several minutes of oral and finger in vagina.
@Regulatus that's the only way to do it👍
And you don't just "stick it in." You place a finger tip there and exert just a little pressure. If she moves away, she's showing dislike or discomfort with the idea. Most will shove themselves onto your finger, showing pleasure. Even women who don't want anything to do with anal sex will enjoy a little finger probing.
@Regulatus I like the details you putting there. You seem like an ass man😊
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Thank you lol
Yes amazing take. It's short, to the point and yet has a lot of content. The best Sex advice for men I've ever read
Thank you so much!
I like!
thank you!