5 Reasons NOT to Make Sex the First Goal in Your Life

5 Reasons NOT to Make Sex the First Goal in Your Life

In this Take I want to just share an opinion about changing the lifestyle of today for a better life experience tomorrow.

1. It's the reason for so many crimes

As we can see in our world today people are fighting and making crimes just to get sex with girls from anywhere, and we can see the number of harassment cases are rising too rapidly these days .. even ISIS terrorists have soldiers that fight for sex.

2. If you made love your first goal it would be better

Why not? Why search for a relationship with good sex and not search for an emotional, smooth and gentle relationship with someone once we feel almost respect towards them with love and care...?

5 Reasons NOT to Make Sex the First Goal in Your Life

3. It's the main reason for cheating

People nowadays will surely cheat if they didn't have good sex with their partners even if their partner was caring and loved them truly.

4. It kills friendships

Like friends with benefits or anything like that, a girl that was your friend yesterday had sex with you and will still be your friend tomorrow. And you will marry another girl in front of her, and it will ruin her self esteem.

5. No one is a virgin anymore

You how it's beautiful and good to give your virginity to one man/woman forever? Instead of having multiple sex appearances with random guys..

I really appreciate your time and reading of this Take, and I'm sorry if it wasn't as good as you expected. Lastly, I would like to say it's OK to have sex but let it be for one person, and don't make it your life. Make your goals bigger than just getting better sex.

5 Reasons NOT to Make Sex the First Goal in Your Life
1 0

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

2 1
  • I've never had my self esteem ruined by a guy I slept with marrying someone else. I also doubt his self esteem was ruined when I married someone else.

    If you aren't sexually compatible with someone, it can have a negative impact on a relationship. Intimacy plays a huge role in romantic love. It just does. That's the way it is.

    It's fine to live in a fantasy world where humans aren't sexual creatures and personality is all that matters, but it's all pie in the sky.

    It's also remarkable for you to specifically dismiss a woman's sexuality over a man's. It's almost as if you follow society's mandate that says a woman having sex makes her "impure" but a man having sex makes him "experienced".

    You are very naïve. Humans have always been and always will be inherently sexual beings. It is in our nature to be, because the survival of our species depends upon it. That's why it is biologically ingrained into our bodies and our brains. Pretending it's healthy to suppress such an innate drive for intimacy is foolish and absurd.

    • I Respect you and all you said but here We all are Controlling every single sexual feeling and never let it go to protect the society from damage because it will have bad Results like cheating crime prostitution and many others it's better to have sex with just one person that is your husband/Wife and not getting Too much sex experiences from many random guys/girls

    • And by the way you look damn hot ;)

  • sex is not everything in life

  • virginity? soppy shit aside, cheating has always existed.