These days most guys don't take girls on dates but rather chose the words "Hang out" when talking to girls. There are many reason why guys aren't taking women on dates. I'll list some below.
1) The most logical one is because chivalry is dead and women killed it
Gone are the days where being a gentleman got you somewhere with women. Going on proper dates, buying a girl a rose, dropping her off and calling her at the end later that night to see she got home safe doesn't get you anywhere and in fact hurts you. Women seem to think if you do all this for them, they have you wrapped around their finger and you are not much a challenge and therefore easy. This is the same reason why women respond better to men who either range from not showing too much interest in them at the start to not giving too shits about them causing these women to chase them for validation.
Now I'm not saying sex is men's main focus when it comes to women but a main goal incentive to get with women is to get sex. Why should a guy wine and dine you and spend months trying to win you over when you most likely gave up sex to some pretty boy/rich guy on a random night on the town or perhaps over on tinder who just message a few words and ask you to come to his place to chill and watch Netflix ?
2) Most women aren't ladies anymore
Women have loss their femininity and act basically like men today. Many of them drink like sailors, sleep around, focus on their career/education, and have lost the ability to be loving/supporting to men. We have so many feminist brainwash which states it's rather demeaning for a woman to be in a supporting role. Women today think it's empowering to not only belittle men but to compete with them for job position, dominance in relationship.
By doing away with gender roles we have undermine relationship stability and now a days we have many women frustrated in finding a mate. Despite what women say, women aren't attracted to men who suck up to them (white knights) and are weak, feminize. This group of men is growing in numbers in the west as we continue to undermine positive male figures (fathers), demonize masculinity and put in place things like creep shaming basically discouraging men to take the lead in dating.
3) Hook up culture
One of the main focal points of men committing to women is sex. Thanks to hookup culture and women giving out sex so easily. Many men who just want sex have no reason to be romantic anymore. Especially high status males/men who get the same effect as an average girl (many people offering them sex).
4) No guy wants to be a cuck
Just as technology has made it easier for women to expand their scope of men thanks to dating sites/tinder/bumble. Men have also used this not only to expand their net but communicate with each other what girls are doing behind their back.
Many men have found out whether through experience or listening to others that girls will go out on dates with one guy and then that same night or days in between not seeing each other sleep with another man. So you as a man are investing time/money/emotion into a girl and probably getting at best a kiss on the cheek at the end of the night while she's down gobbling another guy's cock and swallowing his load in between your date sessions.The excuse women use to do this is because "we weren't exclusive yet".
5) Constant flaking and no contact
Many girls thanks to how many options they have see no problem in just stop contacting or cancelling dates at the very last minute on guys.
So many guys go out on date and again waste time, money on a girl who is just up and going to ghost him. The girl tells him she had a wonderful time only for her to never contact him again. Sometimes guys don't even get a date and the girl just cancels on him at the very last 5 minutes as he's about to exit the front door to see her.
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