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Having been camming since I was 19, I can honestly say I've probably heard it all. Guys aren't shy about asking a girl in my line of work literally anything that comes to their head..here are 5 of the top offenders.
Can I watch?
So we're on a date. I'm sitting 2 feet away from you. I say I'm a camgirl and your first question is...can I watch? No. Because there's work and then there's play. When I turn on the camera, I'm working. When you ask to see that, I stop seeing a potential romantic partner and start seeing a customer..and out goes any chance you had of having actual sex with me.
Can I join you?
On the same strain as the last one, but even more grating. How would you like it if I came into your office and asked to help you with those feasibility reports? Just because you know how to rub one off doesn't mean you'll be able to put on a show my viewers would enjoy. And even if you could, it's MY business and I never asked you to be apart of it. Couples shows can be popular but I am strictly a solo act.
Will you satisfy (blank) fetish?
No. I will not sit on your face or let you lick my toes. Sex worker does not mean sex slave. When I'm offline, I'm offline. I have my own likes and dislikes like anybody else and being a camgirl doesn't change that. In my own sex life, I do what turns me on personally. Just because my job is pleasing men sexually doesn't mean I'm obligated to please all men sexually.
If I pay you will you...?
Learn the difference between escort and webcam model. It's apples to oranges. And to make this one short and sweet: even if I would, you couldn't afford it.
Do you enjoy it/does it turn you on to be on camera?
Does waiting tables make you full just by being in the presence of food? It's a sexual atmosphere but my arousal is not really important. It's a fantasy. I'm getting paid to serve others sexually. I don't do it to get turned on, I do it for the money. Simple as that.
Now you know what NOT to say if you ever meet or date a girl in my line of work. The best questions to ask are truly none at all! If she wants to discuss it she will. Otherwise it can be a very draining line of work. Some girls love it, but it's best to let her set the tone.
Like anyone, when you're out with friends or on a date the last thing you want to think of is work. And that's what I want to stress, camming is work, not play. So respect that fact and you shouldn't have any problems!
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17 89"The best questions to ask are truly none at all!"
So my thing is wouldn't you think if the guy is completely just disinterested in your life if he didn't ask any questions about your work?(no not these questions) I don't know I just like asking people if they like their work or if it's just for experience/finances.
"f I pay you will you?"
Actually its a valid question since you are selling your body as a camgirl as well.
Probably stop exposing your body on a camera for money. Men will just act like slobs and won't respect you. That's why mothers the world over teach their daughters to act like ladies. What your doing is hurting you. If that pain bothers you, stop doing it and get a job.
Ah I thought this was going to be about your customers. That would have been funny. Don't really care about your dating preferences.
I probably wouldn't make that because I try my best not to talk shit about my viewers. But I could def dish on the trolls xD
I'm surprised you haven't heard questions asked if you know certain cam models. I'd assume most guys would say, "Do you know Alison Marie?"
You sell your body online and expect guys to respect you and be polite lol. Normal men don't pay for those things. Only the depraved and perverse
that is not only not true, but just a stupid thing to say. many people do it. from all walks of life.
@godfatherfan there's perverse and depraved people from all walks of life. The ones with the money are usually more morally corrupt than the skint ones
So you use your own sexuality and your prowess to make money from others as a job and most likely do really scantily things, and then you get pissed off when guys who are probably douchebags do things like "objectify" you and ask really stupid questions. And then you basically paint the whole male half of the human population like that in your MyTake. Fucking ironic, much?
Have you ever thought that maybe you are meeting and dating douchebags and dregs, and not actual genuine men who would care more about who you are than that? It sounds like you're meeting the wrong guys, lady.
I actually made no generalizations. I only said these are things I hear a lot.
Well, thanks for posting this, will keep it in mind in case I ever date a camgirl but so far haven't met one.
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Whore: "a woman who engages in sexual acts for money" in that sense I am a whore. But I also don't particularly care.
And yet you search for a romantic partner. Seems legit.
ok, you chose this life. deal with it and stop complaining
I don't know that doing sexual things on camera precludes me from love anymore than anyone else. Your problem is you have a narrow view of sexuality. I can still want the same things as everyone else
you sell your body to other people on the camera. if someone brings it up and asks you about it, don't complain. you do it anyways. moreover, what the hell do you think happens in other jobs? it's not strange for someone to ask their friend accountant to help with their finances. people ask for help with their house if the know or meet an architect. if you know a doctor, if you have a problem, people ask them to look at it. in your case, you show your tits in front of people, so expect for people to ask you to ask those questions. take the l and move on
If I asked someone to do my taxes for free on a first date or to be his secretary then... that'd be extremely inappropriate. People think because what I do is sexual it doesn't come with boundaries. And a lot of people want my attention so, yeah I get to say what I will and won't accept from the people I give it ti
you shot your shot. take it. don't like it? get a new job and/or don't tell people what you do n the 1st date. no one has a gun to your head. if you don't wanna change your job, shut up
for the fittylebenth time
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OP says this and then expects anal sex from his chaste wife down the road haha
I'm genuinely curious what the hours and pay looks like for a camgirl
That'd be number 6 xD the hours and pay vary vastly from day to day and from girl to girl
I'd love to see data tho. Like what is the upper range, lower range, median, etc.
The top girls are pm millionaires. If I had to put an average to it I would say I make about $40 per hour on average. But its hard to really do that.
Interesting ok Well great take! Unique take for sure and takes some lady balls to do it! Haha
Haha yeah I'm just really open and honest. I've learned not to be shy
As you might know, I am really wanting to do this. From my bit of research here is what I found. If you're interested.
This is probably the most thorough depiction I found.
webcamstartup.com/much-money-camming-models-make/
Towards the bottom, all the salaries of a bunch of models are explained
extralunchmoney.com/.../
This is a great site with a lot of information but really explains the couple camming aspect of it well on this post in particular.
www.chaturbatemodelblog.com/...-on-chaturbate.html
I don't mean to seem like the expert, I am not, but I have been really searching the Internet to get a good idea at the average earning potential in it. OP feel free to bash. This is ofc not necessarily reality. I really have no clue.
@MrMuffinMan all I'm going to say is this, you can't really gauge this. Before I started I was obsessed with all that.. like trying to figure out how much I would make, how people would like me. You just have to get in there. There are days where I don't make shit. There are days where I make bank. It's unpredictable. A lot of your success comes down to energy and attitude. Those can be hard to keep positive but thays whats going to make you money. If your mouth doesn't hurt from smiling all day you aren't smiling enough
Yeah for me I would be WILLING to do it for $20/hr. I love sex, you can work it from anywhere in the world anytime you want, you get PAID just to lounge around, chat and have sex with someone you actually love. My average lazy Sunday (or Monday or Tuesday) would probably be spent doing that for the majority of the day anyways and then get PAID to do that! I couldn't imagine a sweeter lifestyle. Oh wait, I could, do all that and make $200/hr lol!
I have been told by a lot of people that I am naturally always smiling and my sex drive us endless so realistically I could see myself having enjoyable sex for 4 hours a day as an average (some days maybe spend 12 hours when bored and nothing else to do, other days just taking a few off and just enjoying life)
@MrMuffinMan I doubt many males make any real money
That's why you need to do it as a couple.
Believe it or not, if you read the third article and what the mytake owner implied, Couples make more money than single females
@MrMuffinMan well not necessarily. I mean they can. It's just two different markets. It's definitely a big one tho but I wouldn't know how they do
What man would date a cam girl? Are you perfectly fine with your boyfriend being naked in front of many women?
I would :D
i don´t really understand why you´re complaining. xD that´s basically what you sign up for if you do that kind of job.
i mean put yourself in a guys perspective. asking doesn´t cost anything nor does it have any bad consequences like in real live... so why wouldn´t you just ask?
No it's not. I signed up to cam. And it's definitely cost a lot of guys a chance at going further with me because it becomes exhausting. I have my boundaries and I'm sure most guys who wanna date me prefer not to cross them, they just don't realize they exist
not literally "signed" but we all know how guys are xD ans especially how "customers" in general tend to behave like assholes. but here´s the actual problem: of course i can clearly understand how the shit they give you is annoying but people don´t have the mindset: hey i´m gonna spend my dollars on this cam site and politely ask the girl to do this and that. they feel kind of entiteled. they feel like they are the boss of you either cause they pay or because that´s their fetish/fantasy in the moment. also most guys don´t recognoze you as a person with feelings but consider you to be a "worthless piece of shit" they can tell whatever they want. i understand that´s frustrating and demotivating but other jobs have different shit that comes with them and you can´t complain about it, cause nobody forces you to do the job right?
and after all, you won´t reach those guys making that requests... they don´t think they did anything wrong. they don´t give a shit.
I'm not talking about my viewers. My viewers can ask for whatever they want. They won't necessarily get it but they can ask. I'm talking about the way my job is received in my private life.
ohhh i thought like in the cam chat O. o ok that sucks...
Interesting read, sorry to hear people are so disrespectful.
Do you find lots of guys you date ask those questions and stuff or is it split.
Question: what type of guys do you think pay for this? Rich? Powerful? Poor? Young? Married? See I'm of the opinion that a majority of men can't get the sex they want and so they come to things like this (the demand) and I am a sex worker advocate and suggest men go for this. But I keep getting shot down because of this by mostly women, and keep getting shit like "well the guy just needs to be more confident and he can get sex" but I'm sure confident people phone you.
I get all kinds. A lot of older, heavy virgins with decent jobs. Some married guys who kinda see it as an affair. I had a couple who used to come on. Just lots of different types. I mean here is the thing tho. So many guys think of this as a substitute. Its not. Its a fantasy. Its fun for you but its not the real thing. There's nothing better than genuine intimacy. So if you wanna watch camgirls for fun do it. But don't stop looking for a girl to really connect with
I love it when you say "lots". I'm always interested in the reasoning behind the demand. No I don't get cam girls, if I'm gonna pay, I'm going to an escort. Here is the reality though: most men don't use it as a substitute. Rather it's out of no choice. Many men (common adage is the 80/20 rule where only 20% of men get all the girls and 80% don't) can't get the sex life they want or attract the girls they really want, so they settle (or stay older virgins like you said). so their only window to that "other world" is through sex workers. Women can choose their sexual path, many men can't. Hence the demand. Would you date/marry a guy who has been been with escorts?
I guess the problem I would have with that would be less of a moral one more of a confidence one. I like a guy who says he'd never pay for it cause he thinks he's too awesome to have to pay. Now one guy told me he was in Vegas and got an escort cuz him and his friends got carried away with the experience.. I had no problem with that. On principle it doesn't bug me. But I definitely don't wanba date the kinda guy I cam for.
Yeah I agree with you, but some guys cannot get that. Like they will say they are handsome but won't get shit. What about guys, like me, I admit, who loves sexploring, but because of who i am (overly nice guy), I cannot get what I want. And I'm battling to change my personality and age is against me so there is one solution: sex workers. But it's a double edged sword: both paths are turn offs for women. I am of the opinion that in terms of casual sex, men shouldn't be looked down upon for using a sex worker. It's the exact equivalent of a female getting casual sex at a bar. Where a woman has her sexual power for a guarantied lay, men have monetary power.
Why did you choose this line of work?
kinda hard to believe she wasn't expecting this.
@Sabretooth dude, I stopped expecting shit out of people along time ago.
@Sabretooth Well she's right about the separation of personal and professional life. It's just not the type of thing most guys would skip out on.
I, myself would feel a little uneasy
If you told me you are a cam girl I would also stop seeing you as a potential romantic partner , so I suppose I would too ask one of these questions to gain at least something out of the conversation.
There's no such thing as having two separate lives and the only difference between you and a call girl is the proximity to the John. You are who you are at work and home. If I were a cage fighter I wouldn't call myself a non-violent person at home.
We choose our line of work, emphasize choose!
Really? So if you went on a date with a girl and she punched you in the face you'd call that totally normal? And if you punched her back that would also be totally rational right? Better work on those critical thinking skills, sug
Your argument doesn't make any sense. A person's choice of work speaks about who that person is in their real life. With a million jobs and ways to make money it clearly defines who you are based on your choice of work. It would be possible for me to lower myself to being a gay camguy, but my pride and dignity would never allow it.
My argument makes perfect sense, yours doesn't. No one treats others or expects to ne treated by others according to what they do for a living. Why I do is no different.
I'm pretty sure people are always judged based on what they do for a living. If someone works as a cashier at McDonalds they're a loser who makes minimum wage. If someone is a doctor or surgeon they will be judged as educated and life savers. If someone is a police officer or firefighter they'll be judged as brave heros. If someone is an online hooker they will be judged as an online hooker.
Being a cam girl... I imagine it pays great. And the flip side of that is, sex workers don't get much respect. Why? Because a woman who sells herself like that isn't being very classy, or respectable. That's the downside of some jobs that make great cash--they can be dangerous, or require you to have no self respect, or be illegal. This would fall into the "no self respect" category.
And let's be real... if you're a guy so desperate for release you pay for sexual entertainment... and in a world of free porn, you decide that instead of going to a strip club to see nude girls in real life, or hiring a call girl... you pay a CAM GIRL, you are officially a loser at being desperate.
Like I said to the others, I wasn't talking about people who watch my shows. They can ask whatever they want! They won't always get it but they're welcome to ask. I more or less expect that kind of treatment online. But in my personal life I don't have to settle for it. And that's what I'm talking about... guys whi want my attention in terms if dating but drive me away with rude or intrusive questions.. but then I guess if they're thinking it its better to know anyway :/ but it does get old
Problem is, what you do at work and who you are are not two separate worlds. You're going to get treated with low respect because of what you do, just as guys would have little respect for a girl who says on a date "yeah, I work as a dancer at xyz strip club."
Totally agree, you can't say I wanna do porn but when people find out about it they're not allowed to ask any questions. If you want the money you have to deal with this stuff, too bad for you.
Its completely fine for you to have standards after putting a price tag on your body.
Such people. Much idiota.
The only camgirl I'd date would be Steph Kegels.